Anyone here relating to Clark?

[sithius]

I agree, I think he is a BDA.

But I can't stop thinking that maybe in some ways, I'm a BDH. I don't feel that I take enough action in my life and that my reluctance might end up leaving me in a bad place along with those that I care about.

I almost understand why he doesn't want to step up to his destiny. He doesn't know how to be what everyone wants him to be and is afraid of what might become of him/things he may encounter.

Not turning this into a life story thread, just wanted some other views on the question.

[LexLuv180]

I'm not hung up on his indecisions like a lot of people here. It doesn't bother me as much that he's stagnant right now, so yeah, I can relate a bit.

[Superman2007]

Yeah I find myself relating to that aspect of Clark's personality a lot.

I used to really criticize Clark's constant pining, attachment, and devotion to Lana. Then I got into a relationship with a girl who was very passive-aggressive and manipulative just like Lana, and I began to understand and relate to Clark's predicament completely,lol.