Hangout for bisexual and homosexual peeps

[Welsh Dragon]

Hi everyone, with there being UK, Christian, Canuck, Hindu etc. forums this is the next logical step, a place for people to hang out.

Whether you're Gay, Bi-Sexual, Lesbian, Bi-Curious or even straight but happy to talk with gay folk (and why wouldn't you?!) this is the place for you. Hopefully, this forum will then promote Gay awareness and if we help just one person come to terms with their sexuality then it'll be a job well done.

This isn't for talking about TV shows, that's done elsewhere though I'm sure the odd mention of what we're watching is likely to happen anyway.

Thanks to ilovetomwelling for agreeing I could start this thread.

So, to begin with... who exactly's openly gay here? Can't be just me surely, it's such a taboo it was ten years ago!

[Sharkie]

Everyone on the board whose talked with me at length knows I am!

[Welsh Dragon]

Yay! We have enough to start a club! ;)

[Sharkie]

Ooooo, can I be the one that bangs a gavel, I like power :p

[F-Stop Blues]

Was it difficult for you guys to come out to your family?

[Welsh Dragon]

Well I can't be bothered with this any more. I'm fed up of the PMs I'm getting. You can all take your forum and shove it.

I'll go somewhere where being open is respected.


(Doesn't apply to yours Sharkie)

[zhuuka]

Ignore them, don't go!!!! I just got back! I think it's pretty **** brave and I respect you for being able to talk about it. I am a straight female myself, but liberal in that sense. Not thier fault they are close minded.

[Sierra01]

Originally posted by Welsh Dragon
Well I can't be bothered with this any more. I'm fed up of the PMs I'm getting. You can all take your forum and shove it.

I'll go somewhere where being open is respected.


(Doesn't apply to yours Sharkie)

I'm sorry to hear you have had PM's over this.
So much for our enlightened world

I think everyone should be allowed to be what they want, whatever their sexual preferences

What happened to respecting your fellow man and compassion?

[vouge09]

I have at least 3 gay friends! I am straight but whatever that doesnt matter, Gay or not these men were pepole tooo! Shame on all of you for acting like a 5 year old . Gay isnt a desiese or anything at all so stop acting like it ! They are pepole too , they bleed red , and have blue blood. The breathe oxygen and need water and love to survive so shove it!

[Crimson_Rose]

O.K. Basically it comes down to this... everyone else using this site has somewhere to discuss issues and meet new friends, but those of us who are bisexual or homosexual are deprived on that front. I thought that might be a good idea to give us a place to meet to discuss issues and share advice and coming out stories. See, I was a devout user of Mogenic prior to its collapse, and I'm wanting to rebuild the friendships I once had. I think that giving us all the opportunity to chat might allow us to make new friends and also strike of romance if that's what you want.

Allow me to introduce myself:

Crimson Abbey Rose Thompson, affectionately Crimmy. 20 y.o. second year uni. student majoring in English and Creative Writing. Lives in Sydney, Australia (between Glenhaven, my home town and Newtown, for anyone famaliar with the area). Proudly bisexual - came out at 14 after years of torment - I just knew I just bisexual and more attracted to females. Nowadays, proud first time aunt to gorgeous 4 month old Chloe Allison, and recovering after the death of a close friend. Music lover, creative writer, wannabe guitarist (still got a way to go before I can call myself any sort of talent). Work in the local coffee shop and love hanging out with friends.

Hope you'll all take full advantage of this thread, but please, no abuse, because I'd hate for this thread to be terminated. If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything - we'll run off that philosophy thanks.

Best wishes to you all and feel free to put yourself out there - don't hold back. No shame in being you, and that's my message for you all. Get out there and live life to the max.

[j03superbat]

There was a Homosexual Boudoir thread awhile ago.

[xaosthry]

Hay that is very cool of you. Well, hello to you to. Deb,26 - I used to be all about the Chlark until realizing he dont deserve her. Chloe will live happily ever after with Wonder Woman. Hay, I like my little world of make beleive-- Its pretty there and they know me.
I live in Kansas. (no its nothing like in Smallville, they actually have trees, we dont)
Came out when I was 18 as a lesbian. Scared to death to only find the common responce to be "We knew we were just waiting for you to admit it."
Im currently a student as Wichita State University, and addicted to all things heroes. Not much on cannon, mythos or the actual origans of things, cuz in a world where a man can fly and shoot freakin lazers out his eyes---ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN!!!
Wishing you all well, and I truely love this site...you guys crack me up!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ps. Xena rules!!! hehe

[MidgardDragon]

Although I am not homosexual or bisexual and have not had a physical experience with anyone of the same sex, I do consider myself "open" to such an experience and am a strong supporter of gay rights. I'm glad you made this thread, and hope you don't mind a hetero and/or curious guy dropping by once in a while. :)

[Crimson_Rose]

Thank you to you both for dropping by and commenting - you should both feel very proud of yourselves for being so truthful about who you are.

Furthermore, I'm opening this thread to ALL members who are either bi or homosexually curious - I figure it may well help us to find some additional members.

Also, to anyone with a homosexual or bisexual family member or friend, please feel free to drop by and share stories. Stories of how you dealt with their coming out, how you support them, anything in this area. Once again, I must ask for nothing of offence.

Thanks all and I truly hope we can make the most of this thread.

[TMLS]

Already a thread, was started by a former work colleague of mine but he left this site as he was getting abuse on the PMs:

http://kryptonsite.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57014

[MidgardDragon]

Well, since it hasn't been posted in since April, maybe you all should just stick here. :)

[Mysticlies]

mod note: I merged both threads keeping the fresher posts in the end for easier reading.

[Crimson_Rose]

Excuse me people - no offence intended to anyone, but I don't appreciate my thread being hijacked. Whilst I intended to create an atmosphere in which ALL homosexual and bisexual members were welcome to discuss any issues concerning sexuality, I did not do so with the intention of having my thread taking over by an older thread. I do not appreciate this being done - whilst I do not ask for credit, I will appreciate it if someone had run this by me first. Not only that, but I'm not sure if the members I have come across will be willing to merge.
Note to anyone slandering any members using these threads: defamation and discrimination on the basis of sexuality is ILLEGAL. I have been notified that one member who made a single post here was subject to highly innapropriate slander. She has not only removed herself from this thread, but from the K-SITE altogther. This absolutely disgusts me - should I track down the culprits, I will personally see that they are removed from this site as ALL members deserve equal opportunity and right to express themselves and share their stories, even when the stories relate to something certain people are uncomfortable with.
Simply grow up and learn that this is a fact of life or please leave.

[TMLS]

It was merged as there was an older thread for the same topic, and as such yours was a duplicate. The fact it hadn't been posted in since April is irrelevant, there's plenty of precedent on here for this sort of thing and shouldn't be taken personally.

You've got to realise though, you started this thread because your community was, to quote you, "deprived" of somewhere to discuss issues etc. The point is, they weren't - and a quick search for "Homosexual" would have shown that.

Rule 5 of the Kryptonsite rules states:


5) Threads about politics are STRICTLY NOT ALLOWED. Threads regarding religion, sexual orientation, gender issues, ethnic/racial issues are allowed on a limited basis. Please get the approval from at least one of the moderators before opening such a thread, and post the moderator’s approval in the thread.

(Emboldening done by me to show the relevant areas whilst maintaining the context)

If you look at Welsh Dragon's post, he had sought this permission - I see no reference in your post and as such were breaking a rule.

Rule 20 states:


Your thread will be deleted if it meets any of the following criteria:

...

- It is a duplicate of a thread we already have. Please look through at least the last 3 pages of threads to see if your topic is already being discussed.

(Abridged to show the relevant point)

The old thread was on page 3. Strictly speaking your thread should have been deleted, but at least the mods showed common sense and just merged them - it's not something to whinge about.

By the way, I spoke to "Welsh Dragon" on Yahoo last night and he was glad that someone else was trying to do the same thing, and sends his best to you and hopes you don't get the reaction he did a year ago.

This should be my last post on here as per Rule 12 "A gentle one-time reminder of the rules". I'm only saying it as I reported the original post as a duplicate so feel I should reply to your concerns (it's at the very least partly my fault, if not all my fault if no-one else reported it!), up to the mods from here on in unless you want to PM me.

Regards,

Dan

[MidgardDragon]

Yes, let's move on. There's no reason everyone can't continue to use this thread.

Crimson_Rose: I hope you or the member who was slandered reported the slanderer to a moderator. There's no other way to keep ignorant nitwits off of these boards other than reporting them and letting the mods do their jobs.

[Randy G.]

Yeah, don't EVER let anyone show you disrespect. ;)
I walk these halls of Kryptonsite, & when I see some fool hatin' on someone else, you better believe I've hit that "report post" button more than a few times. :D

[Crimson_Rose]

The damn well boot me Dan - I'm sick of the atmosphere here anyway because anytime I try to be myself, one of you is making me feel like crap for it. Sure, I've got self-eestem issues but you ought to be more sensitive to that. Believe me, it wouldn't be much punishment to be banned from here - at least elsewhere I'm appreciate for my acitivism in various areas, and if you can't take the way I handle things, go have a cry about it.

[Abdifatah28]

hey,don't,go,I'm,a,straight,open,minded
guy,please,don't,go,it,was,very
brave,of,you,to,start,this,thread.

[MidgardDragon]

Crimson_Rose, since you do say you have self-esteem issues, I want to put this as gently as possible, so let me start by saying that I in no way have anything against you, and think you've done a great thing by starting this thread.

However, on this site, when two threads that are similar are posted, even months apart, the mods merge them. That's just one of the rules, and it's nothing against you. No one here is trying to be mean to you or make you feel like crap.

I hope you stay, and hope you realize that no one's trying to be mean or rude. Let's move away from the topic of the thread merger and on to a new topic.

For those of you that are bi or gay, at what point in your life did you discover that you were? Have you come out to your friends and family yet? Have you been accepted for the most part, or experienced mostly intolerance?

[thmallville]

OK, I'm not gay or anything, I was just reading this thread and I felt the need to post because Crimson_Rose, you're getting really upset over nothing.

When there's 2 threads about the exact same topic, the mods smush them together. End of story. No one was attempting to ruin your thread, and no one was "discriminating" against you. It's just a rule! So don't get upset over it!

And Dan did nothing but helpfully write out the rule that has you so upset, and you had no reason to be rude to him. He shouldn't have been more sensitive to you, because one, he didn't know you're so self-concious, and two, he was just explaining a rule to you!

I'm not attacking you, and I'm not discriminating against you, I am just informing you that no one is attempting to ruin your thread and you don't have to be rude to people who try to explain that no one is ruining your thread. The end.

[xaosthry]

From someone living in the "bible belt" of America and I have seen, faced, dealt with, and ignored my fare share of discrimination.
I have been open in my posts in other threads, as well as this one. I don't know about what others have been through on this site, but I'm yet to see a bad comment about gays.
Thank you all.

[KSiteTV]

I wouldn't allow people to be prejudiced in any way over threads for race, sexual orientation, or any of that. Really, what's happened here - and I don't mean for anyone to be offended - is just as simple as others have posted: There already was a thread on this topic. It's not trying to muzzle anyone or anything.

If anything, your post was good because it got people talking again.

[constantine]

OK, I can do this. To explain what I am is a hard thing to consider, because most people I explain it to end up being completely confounded that I live in the way that I choose.

I am...30 years old, male, and have had both boyfriends and girlfriends in the past, but always felt that either way just felt...wrong. So to that end, I decided that whereas I have friendships and close bonds, I have no relationships that are romantic or sexual in nature, because I feel that it gets in the way of a good friendship anyway. There's more to it than that, primarily health concerns, but the main reason I choose to live alone is simply the reason I have stated above.


I should stress, by the way, that I am impossible to live with; I have my diva artist tendencies, I am anally retentive when it comes to my things being out of their designated place, and on top of all of this, I live in a constant state of insomnia, so the way I look at it, not having any sexual drive or prefernence is doing the world a favour :D
This is, of course, prompted.

[MidgardDragon]

Originally posted by constantine
OK, I can do this. To explain what I am is a hard thing to consider, becamse most people I explain it to end up being completely confounded that I live in the way that I choose.

I am...30 years old, male, and have had both boyfriends and girlfriends in the past, but always felt that either way just felt...wrong. So to that end, I decided that whereas I have friendships and close bonds, I have no relationships that are romantic or sexual in nature, because I feel that it gets in the way of a good friendship anyway. There's more to it than that, primarily health concerns, but the main reason I choose to live alone is simply the reason I have stated above.


I should stress, by the way, that I am impossible to live with; I have my diva artist tendencies, I am anally retentive when it comes to my things being out of their designated place, and on top of all of this, I live in a constant state of insomnia, so the way I look at it, not having any sexual drive or prefernence is doing the world a favour :D
This is, of course, prompted.

I believe the proper term for one who chooses to not have sexual relationships with either sex is "asexual". There's absolutely nothing wrong with feeling that way (although I could never do it!) just as there's absolutely nothing wrong with being gay or straight.

Be who you are, and welcome to the thread.

[constantine]

Indeed, thank you. I refrained from using the wyord asexual, because some pegple are oddly uncomfortable with the state. And it's fairly easy to commit to a life of celibacy, and I think makes me exponentially more ceative. :)

[j03superbat]

Originally posted by MidgardDragon
I believe the proper term for one who chooses to not have sexual relationships with either sex is "asexual".
"Celibate" is probably a better word for the simple fact that asexual organisms still reproduce, and that's the whole, natural point of sex. We humans just happen to enjoy it.

I refrained from using the wyord asexual, because some pegple are oddly uncomfortable with the state. And it's fairly easy to commit to a life of celibacy, and I think makes me exponentially more ceative.
Well you won't find me feeling uncomfortable. In fact, I hope it's all right with you if I mull around the meaning of the word.

I see what Midgard's saying because asexual means no sex is going on, but at the same time...

:o At any rate. It's not important. Hope my little fascination with that word didn't weird anyone out.

[TMLS]

Back to the top. I think this thread is very important and shouldn't be left to fester in the bowels of page 2.

I apologise to Crimson Rose publically for any confusion caused on my part, and at no point was I intending to belittle what you've tried to achieve here. I shall PM a mod and ask if this apology can be sent to her on email too since I can't email her from her profile.

So, getting back on topic, I'm sure homosexuality of varying degrees and types has affected most of us in some way.

My cousin is a gay male, and my sister-in-law is a lesbian. I've found them to be perfectly normal people and hate the way homosexuality is still considered to be something taboo by so many people in this day and age.

So, everyone, what are your experiences? Any of your family or friends gay/bi? Are you gay/bi yourself? I think Constantine's story above is both heart-breaking and inspiring, major kudos to him for speaking about it so openly.

[constantine]

hrm. well let's see. I've found guys are too difficult to live with, and women when you're in a relationship with them are too difficult to please. I have a good number of gay friends, but the one I'm closest to has been diagnosed with advanced HIV, which, when the community found out pretty much started a massive flare of homophobic attitudes.

It hasn't deterred him though, he's a constant source of inspiration for me, as despite getting gradually weaker, he still manages to do so much for people in need.

[Smallville_Angel]

WOW! The threads on here! Well, in short, I know a few bisexual and homosexual people - among the nicest people I know. Always so warm and caring, and also incredibly talented - writers, singers, songwriters, painters, dancers, drawers, instrumentalists. They seem to excel at creative arts - no idea why. Anywayz, back to my point: they're awesome people and I'm glad to see a thread welcoming both friends and family as well as bisexuals and homosexuals themselves.

[Smallville_Angel]

Where'd you all go? This thread kind of went KAPUT!!! Damn, was looking forward to discussing issues with all the friendly people here.

[constantine]

I stepped out for some coffee. sorry.

[TMLS]

Never had a reply to my apology...

[constantine]

I think you scared her off, you evil man.

[thmallville]

:rotfl: He didn't do anything wrong; he just pointed out a broken rule to her and she freaked out.

[constantine]

*tuts* typical woman. I mean. er. hello darling! How are you today?

[thmallville]

Why hello, pet! Just dandy!

[constantine]

Doing well in school? all that jazz?

[thmallville]

Indeed I am!

[constantine]

Good! I remember school. Just about. Now I look forward to retirement.

[thmallville]

You.. you old Kyle, you! I look forward to graduating in 2 years!

[xaosthry]

Originally posted by thmallville
You.. you old Kyle, you! I look forward to graduating in 2 years!

Congratulations on graduating so soon. I have decided that I really don't want to join the real world anytime soon. Going to stay in school as long as I can. Do you think they will let me have a major in slacker???

[constantine]

Originally posted by thmallville
You.. you old Kyle, you! I look forward to graduating in 2 years!

decided on any ideas for college yet?


Originally posted by xaosthry
Congratulations on graduating so soon. I have decided that I really don't want to join the real world anytime soon. Going to stay in school as long as I can. Do you think they will let me have a major in slacker???

I work and slack. it's a dream job. well. not dream job, but you know. close as one can get to it

[thmallville]

I want to go to Boston University or Northeastern, and, not to toot my own beautifully shiny horn, but my grades/extracurriculars are good enough, so I don't see why I wouldn't get in!

[constantine]

Originally posted by thmallville
I want to go to Boston University or Northeastern, and, not to toot my own beautifully shiny horn, but my grades/extracurriculars are good enough, so I don't see why I wouldn't get in!

Boston is a good university. Any ideas what you want to do academically?

[thmallville]

Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenglish! I'd love to be an English teacher, even though I'll end up in jail for murdering my students. :)

[xaosthry]

This would be bad yes. That's neat though, teaching is a job that don't nearly get enough credit.

[constantine]

Originally posted by thmallville
Eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeenglish! I'd love to be an English teacher, even though I'll end up in jail for murdering my students. :)

yeah. I started studying English and teaching at a comprehensive (high school) level. Then I remembered I generally hate having the patience to teach anything to a bunch of dumb kids that'll probably forsake the english language in favour of textspeech anyway.

[thmallville]

I know... I'll probably kill a bunch of Children Who Don't Do Homework and use their blood to scribble something like "PAY ME MORE!" on the walls or something. :rotfl:

[constantine]

Originally posted by thmallville
I know... I'll probably kill a bunch of Children Who Don't Do Homework and use their blood to scribble something like "PAY ME MORE!" on the walls or something. :rotfl:

"All these idiots and no beer make Kyle go CRAZY!!!!" :rotfl:

[xaosthry]

Another thing that would suck is dealing with the no child left behind act which is a crock.

[thmallville]

I hate kids!!!! I hate kids who don't do homework! I hate kids who talk too much in class! I hate kids who are stupid and don't even know it!

I think I'll be just fine teaching like.. AP classes! :rotfl:


Originally posted by xaosthry
Another thing that would suck is dealing with the no child left behind act which is a crock.

Not my problem! :rotfl: I bet by the time I start teaching, in 7 years or so, it'll be gone.

[constantine]

Originally posted by thmallville
I hate kids!!!! I hate kids who don't do homework! I hate kids who talk too much in class! I hate kids who are stupid and don't even know it!

I think I'll be just fine teaching like.. AP classes! :rotfl:



Not my problem! :rotfl: I bet by the time I start teaching, in 7 years or so, it'll be gone.

20 bucks says it wont, but it will be changed. But Education will still be looked over in favour of a largely military budget.

[thmallville]

Yeah, it will probably be changed. But I don't really care about it...

[xaosthry]

Yeah, its always nice to see where the loyalties of the govt lie.

[thmallville]

So, um, anyways.. my class president is a lesbian, and I dislike her. :)

[constantine]

Originally posted by xaosthry
Yeah, its always nice to see where the loyalties of the govt lie.

What's that you say? More guns? No wonder the world breeds more and more idiots by the day that can barely spell their name without some kind of text derivative.

[thmallville]

Dis iz da nw wve of lnguage. Evry1 tlks lykk dis.

[constantine]

...huh?!

[xaosthry]

^^ yeah that was my thoughts exactly


Oh, and good news. Arnold Schwarzenegger is changing his stand on gay marriage in Cali.
Then ppl wonder why I want to move there and out of the bible belt.

[constantine]

I'm willing to bet he didn't have much of a choice really...I'm actually surprised he's governer, as I've always thought California to be very liberal.

[xaosthry]

I agree with you on that one. You can be sure the brains behind his operation is his wife.

[constantine]

A kennedy legacy? I'd bet on it as well. I mean the fact is, arnie has been exceptionally good for california...The turnaround on gay marriage could clinch the office for him again.

[xaosthry]

Oh, btw...love the avi. That show rocks.

[constantine]

Californication? Yeah I do too, and people keep drwing parallels between hank and me. hehe

[xaosthry]

I wouldn't consider that a bad thing. Intelligent and funny guys are hard to come by.

[constantine]

meh. I'm celibate because I can't find women in my zipcode who feel that way. hehe.

[Smallville_Angel]

Well, didn't you all get talkative today? LOL!!!

Speaking of celibacy, I myself am celibate. Personal choice - I know I'm not ready for such responsibilty and I'd rather save myself for marriage. Besides, I refuse to succumb to pressure - my body, my decision, is it not?

Back on topic - I applaud those of you with the courage to come out. Three cheers! Just hate that the US government is so discriminatory - John Howard (damn moron!) isn't any better. Hello, but what era are you people living in? Nothing wrong with being a homosexual or bisexual!!! More power to you truly incredible individuals - continue to be an inspiration to us all.

[Vovkulak]

My best friend is gay, and I have another friend who is bisexual. But having them as friends is the best choice I've ever made. Not to mention I can talk to my gay guy friend about my boy crushes lol. And it's also sad because my school is pretty much a redneck school, I hate it. He always gets made fun of for being himself, and noone in our school who is gay or bisexual really bothers to come out anymore.

[Renu]

i pesonaly think homosexuality is not normal , unnatural and sick
i understand homosexuals are threated like the scum of the earth ...
last year here there wuz the first .. and probably last Romanian Gay parade ... Parde lasted about 30 mins before them Homosexuals ended up in the ambulance or running for theyr lives
Being gay is not somenthing you should be proud of .. if you are keep it to your self
probably manny people will hate me for this post :D

[BeldarofRemulak]

See, I might not personally "understand" it, but that doesn't mean it is wrong. There are going to be people that are "different" out there, you can't just cast them off as freaks of nature, they are humans and have the right to feel however they want to and, by god, if they want to be gay and proud they should be! For Christ's sake, half the boys at my high school turned out to be gay, including my best friend. He is the best thing that ever happened to me. He is kind and very loving and knows how to make me happy am I suppose to write someone like that out of my life? ...I think not!

[TMLS]

Are you a wind up merchant on here Renu? I was riled by your blatent going on about piracy, now I read this? I sure you're just looking for a bite. Well, I'm not going to.

[Renu]

neah don't worry about it ...

[MidgardDragon]

Originally posted by TMLS
Are you a wind up merchant on here Renu? I was riled by your blatent going on about piracy, now I read this? I sure you're just looking for a bite. Well, I'm not going to.

I viewed that post as harrasment and hate speech, and it's been reported for just that. Whether it was a joke or not, it is against the rules.

[TMLS]

Which, my post you quoted or his?

[MidgardDragon]

Originally posted by TMLS
Which, my post you quoted or his?

His, of course, there was nothing inflammatory about your post, I was just responding to your response to him.

[Dejected_Angel]

Originally posted by Renu
i pesonaly think homosexuality is not normal , unnatural and sick
i understand homosexuals are threated like the scum of the earth ...
last year here there wuz the first .. and probably last Romanian Gay parade ... Parde lasted about 30 mins before them Homosexuals ended up in the ambulance or running for theyr lives
Being gay is not somenthing you should be proud of .. if you are keep it to your self
probably manny people will hate me for this post :D

Best post of the thread and you are totally right.
I agree that it is indeed a sickness and people need to realise its not something to be proud of but rather they should seek help.:(

[Renu]

homosexuality is not something normal
just how insanity isn't
Homosexuality is something unnatural and denies the werry thing that makes us human ... even animals have the instinct of mating with someone of the oposite sex
homosexuality is a psihological problem
Lets take the best friend example
if your best friends comes to you one day and tells you "im am gay/lesbian" (being the same sex of you ofc) i don't think that "the best friend" in your eyes will be the same person you have been friends all that time...
if i would have wanted my prevorius post to be "hate speach" / "harrasement" it whould have ended up differentley
EDIT : Welsh Dragon you have all my respect for having the courage to tell everione you are gay ... but i do not agree that being gay is something normal !!

[Nospam]

Originally posted by Renu
i pesonaly think homosexuality is not normal , unnatural and sick
i understand homosexuals are threated like the scum of the earth ...
last year here there wuz the first .. and probably last Romanian Gay parade ... Parde lasted about 30 mins before them Homosexuals ended up in the ambulance or running for theyr lives
Being gay is not somenthing you should be proud of .. if you are keep it to your self
probably manny people will hate me for this post :D

Did you come to this opinion all on your own or are you simply parroting the opinions of your parents, your religion and your society? You need to ask yourself why something as utterly inconsequential as sexual preference should diminish your opinion of another human being.

Just as Martin Luther King Junior challenged us not to judge others by the color of their skin but by the content of their character, so to does that challenge extend to all manner of bigotry.

Do not let ignorance define the boundaries of the human race.

[InLove_with_Chloe]

Originally posted by Renu
homosexuality is not something normal
just how insanity isn't
Homosexuality is something unnatural and denies the werry thing that makes us human ... even animals have the instinct of mating with someone of the oposite sex
homosexuality is a psihological problem
Lets take the best friend example
if your best friends comes to you one day and tells you "im am gay/lesbian" (being the same sex of you ofc) i don't think that "the best friend" in your eyes will be the same person you have been friends all that time...
if i would have wanted my prevorius post to be "hate speach" / "harrasement" it whould have ended up differentley
EDIT : Welsh Dragon you have all my respect for having the courage to tell everione you are gay ... but i do not agree that being gay is something normal !!
Well, this post will also get you banned, buddy.
:lol:
Bye-bye.


Originally posted by Dejected_Angel
Best post of the thread and you are totally right.
I agree that it is indeed a sickness and people need to realise its not something to be proud of but rather they should seek help.:(
Same to you, my 'friend'.
:\

[Renu]

neither of my posts has broken any of the forum rules ...
But Thanks for careing

[Nospam]

Originally posted by Renu
neither of my posts has broken any of the forum rules ...
But Thanks for careing

The rules, to wit:


4) Since there are members on this board from a wide range of backgrounds, all posters must refrain from making comments that could ordinarily be construed as sexist, homophobic, ethnocentric, racist, or significantly demeaning to any individual or group on the basis of disability, age, political inclinations or religion. What is construed as demeaning or hateful is up to the ultimate discretion of the moderators.

(emphasis mine)

I don't understand why you came into a thread specifically for the enjoyment of bisexual and homosexual members to say that you think they're all mentally ill and in need of "treatment."

[KSiteTV]

Actually...


4) Since there are members on this board from a wide range of backgrounds, all posters must refrain from making comments that could ordinarily be construed as sexist, homophobic, ethnocentric, racist, or significantly demeaning to any individual or group on the basis of disability, age, political inclinations or religion. What is construed as demeaning or hateful is up to the ultimate discretion of the moderators.

Enjoy your ban. :)

I should add, that usually the most homophobic people in the world are closet cases themselves. Food for thought.

[InLove_with_Chloe]

Well done, Craig.
:)

[Nospam]

Originally posted by KryptonSite
Enjoy your ban. :)

I should add, that usually the most homophobic people in the world are closet cases themselves. Food for thought.

It was close, Craig. I almost had to bring out my patented "Kumbaya" sing along.

I haven't had do that in years, thank goodness.

And you are so right about closet cases. Anyone paying attention to the news right now is very much aware of all the exciting action taking place at this very moment in airport bathroom stalls around the country. :p

[Dejected_Angel]

I didn't mean to offend anyone sheesh . I'll edit it if u like...

[Nospam]

Originally posted by Dejected_Angel
I didn't mean to offend anyone sheesh . I'll edit it if u like...

You said:


I agree that it is indeed a sickness and people need to realise its not something to be proud of but rather they should seek help.

How is that not offensive and just how do you receive treatment for this supposed "sickness"? No doctor or psychiatrist of any repute is going to even remotely suggest that homosexuality is something to be treated.

Instead of editing your post out of some false sense of duty perhaps you should examine the nature of your bigotry towards homosexuality.

Unbelievable, DA. I thought you would be above this sort of tripe.

[rooting 4 clark]

I think this thread is great! As for what I am...I don't know anymore to tell you the truth. I don't do labels. I think if ur a guy/girl and u fall in love with the opposite sex, then great, but if you fall in love with the same sex, then that's great as well. Its only how you feel and nobody else. After al your the one in a relationship. If you don't like it, then know one forced you to notice or make a comment about homosexuals or bisexuals, etc.

[MidgardDragon]

Originally posted by rooting 4 clark
I think this thread is great! As for what I am...I don't know anymore to tell you the truth. I don't do labels. I think if ur a guy/girl and u fall in love with the opposite sex, then great, but if you fall in love with the same sex, then that's great as well. Its only how you feel and nobody else. After al your the one in a relationship. If you don't like it, then know one forced you to notice or make a comment about homosexuals or bisexuals, etc.

What I'd label you as is "enlightened". More people need to learn that it's not about what sex you fall in love with, it's about who you fall in love with. Kudos to you for having such an open mind and being part of the solution rather than part of the problem.

[TMLS]

Great stuff Craig, the beggar deserved it.

And great post rooting.

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by MidgardDragon
What I'd label you as is "enlightened". More people need to learn that it's not about what sex you fall in love with, it's about who you fall in love with. Kudos to you for having such an open mind and being part of the solution rather than part of the problem.
Thanks MidgardDragon. I like the title of "enlightened". Lol.

[Smallville_Angel]

Renu - banned!!! And good riddance - seriously, what a little stirrer. Heather, you know you're free to drop by and chat any old time - sexuality is a controversial issue and I'm glad to see someone handling it in such a mature manner (as opposed to how some unnamed people handle it!). And enlightened you are - I myself don't do labels: sexuality is fluid and it's often difficult to define it as being one way or the other.

:mad: Also, I was wondering if anyone knew of any way to ban DejectedAngel for good! I am aware of the fact that DA has already be banned once before, then signed up again with a new name. :eek: It digusts me that DA must still cause trouble - get a life and take it elsewhere: kudos to your truly incredible people for starting this thread.

[Randy G.]

Originally posted by rooting 4 clark
I think this thread is great! .... I don't do labels.
I totally agree. In the long run, do labels even matter? They only seem to cause harm, & create alienation.

Why are the troublemakers even coming in here, but simply to cause trouble? It's NOT a debate thread.
I really enjoy the fact that the "I like Boys" text has been added under his name. Good job! :lol:

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Renu - banned!!! And good riddance - seriously, what a little stirrer. Heather, you know you're free to drop by and chat any old time - sexuality is a controversial issue and I'm glad to see someone handling it in such a mature manner (as opposed to how some unnamed people handle it!). And enlightened you are - I myself don't do labels: sexuality is fluid and it's often difficult to define it as being one way or the other.

:mad: Also, I was wondering if anyone knew of any way to ban DejectedAngel for good! I am aware of the fact that DA has already be banned once before, then signed up again with a new name. :eek: It digusts me that DA must still cause trouble - get a life and take it elsewhere: kudos to your truly incredible people for starting this thread.
Thanks Sheridan. I just think that if you obviously have a "problem" with bisexuals, homosexuals, etc., then don't come into the thread. This way everything stays peaceful, you don't get banned or start arguments, and you go on about your buissness. Yes, I know we can express our opionos, not wrong with that, but negativity isn't needed.


Originally posted by Randy G.
I totally agree. In the long run, do labels even matter? They only seem to cause harm, & create alienation.

Why are the troublemakers even coming in here, but simply to cause trouble? It's NOT a debate thread.
I really enjoy the fact that the "I like Boys" text has been added under his name. Good job! :lol:

I totally agree with you Randy G. Good for you! :p

[Smallville_Angel]

Negativity isn't needed - to each their own and perhaps wake up and see the world around you: homosexuality and bisexuality are a part of life, and in my eyes, both are fine... I ask what the point of living a lie is when you are attracted to the same sex??? I mean, life is difficult enough, and hopefully we can breed acceptance and respect for all people, regardless of sexual preference. Let's work towards a better future - ignorance isn't always bliss people. And that's my rant, so I'm going to leave you all to think it over.

[Dejected_Angel]

I ask what the point of living a lie is when you are attracted to the same sex??? I mean, live is difficult enough, and hopefully we can breed acceptance and respect for all people, regardless of sexual preference. Let's work towards a better future - ignorance isn't always bliss people.
I think you meant "Life " is difficult enough.
You say acceptance and a better future.But lets face it ,being gay is not normal or natural. If everyone was Gay we would not have a future.There would be no more reproduction .Also not everyone has a job they like or live a place they want to but they do still.Why?Because they have to. Its similar with people being gay really.We shouldn't be trying to act all accepting and righteous when we say its okay to be Gay. If we just do the right thing and be against it even if someone has urges to be with another person of the same sex then instead of being openly Gay they would just deal with it themselves and live a normal life.In the long run they would be better off I'm sure.
Not wanting to cause any trouble here and this will be my last post in this thread..

[Randy G.]

For some that might be slow to get the point, let me break it down for ya' once again.
This is NOT A DEBATE THREAD. :rolleyes: ;)

[TMLS]

Maybe we need to rename this thread to the "Dammit, I'm not posting any more" thread? ;)

And it wasn't my fault this time ;)

[MidgardDragon]

Every time an alternative lifestyle thread gets posted it ends up with no one posting because of the negative comments. So let's please not let this become the "dammit, I'm not posting any more" thread. :( The only way this board will ever be comfortable for homosexual, bisexual, or even just curious folks will be if we let people like Dejected_Angel know we aren't going to take it. I suggest liberal use of the ignore feature and "Report This Post" button.

[Mello Penelo]

I made out with a girl once, but I don't consider myself gay/bi. I don't have a problem with it.

Did you know male snakes have sex with each other for pleasure?

[Randy G.]

Originally posted by Mello Penelo
Did you know male snakes have sex with each other for pleasure?

:eek: Dogs aren't real picky either. I saw a doggy 3-way once.
Male dog A was givin' it to the female dog, while Male dog B was givin' it to Male dog A. :rotfl:

[rooting 4 clark]

I think when some people see something different they get scared. Change is happening everyday, from technology to lifestyles. So, atleast get the facts before you judge something.

Anyway, bi-curious people. Explain that to me, like there straight, or gay, but are curious about being bi??

[Smallville_Angel]

Bi -curious Heather dear:

put simply, it's the curiousity about the same sex - whether it be curiousity about sexual relationships (to be blunt), romantic relationships (with a basis beyond sexual intercourse), feelings for the same sex: I don't feel bi-curiousity can be concretely defined. It varies in definition depending on how you ask and what that person's experiences have been. Many people are ignorant to bisexaulity - they believe you are either heterosexual or homosexual. I myself believe this to be bogus: as a matter of fact, many people pass through a stage in either teenagehood or young adulthood where they identify as either bisexual or bicurious. Being curious is simply that: it doesn't always lead to bisexaulity or homosexuality, and is often pure experimentation. It's harmless (in most cases) and for many, it's all a part of growing up - you might be surprised by how many people do so, and how many of them you actually know.

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Bi -curious Heather dear:

put simply, it's the curiousity about the same sex - whether it be curiousity about sexual relationships (to be blunt), romantic relationships (with a basis beyond sexual intercourse), feelings for the same sex: I don't feel bi-curiousity can be concretely defined. It varies in definition depending on how you ask and what that person's experiences have been. Many people are ignorant to bisexaulity - they believe you are either heterosexual or homosexual. I myself believe this to be bogus: as a matter of fact, many people pass through a stage in either teenagehood or young adulthood where they identify as either bisexual or bicurious. Being curious is simply that: it doesn't always lead to bisexaulity or homosexuality, and is often pure experimentation. It's harmless (in most cases) and for many, it's all a part of growing up - you might be surprised by how many people do so, and how many of them you actually know.
Thanks for replying and feeding my curiosity. I totally agree that I believe everyone goes through being bi curious, because whether we want to believe it or not, everyone gets curious in there life.

[Mello Penelo]

Like I said, I've never considered myself a lesbian or bi, but I've always had a bit of curiosity about it.

I've got a friend who lives in Boston who's gay. He's got a lot of lesbian friends who hit on me when I go down there.

I like boys, but I'm always open to the possibility.

[Smallville_Angel]

Exactly Heather - nice to see you came to that realisation. You truly are enlightened to this - you don't seem at all ignorant and you're willing to accept this part of life. Good on you.

Mello, congrats. on being so honest... being open to the possibility is actually a part of the fun. You just go with the flow and see where you end up. Best wishes to you.

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Exactly Heather - nice to see you came to that realisation. You truly are enlightened to this - you don't seem at all ignorant and you're willing to accept this part of life. Good on you.

Mello, congrats. on being so honest... being open to the possibility is actually a part of the fun. You just go with the flow and see where you end up. Best wishes to you.

Thanks Sheridan! I have no reason to be judgemental or have any negativity towards homosexulas, bisexuals, etc. So when I see people who act like this I look at them, like, 'what caused you to be this way?'

[Smallville_Angel]

Exactly - bothers me a great deal that people are still so naive... it's like you're not even safe being yourself, and that is plain inhumane. Every human being as the right to be themselves - I'm glad we've created a community inwhich (hopefully) people of all sexual oreintations can come together and discuss matters than concern them. Let's hope we can rid this thread of the nuisance users and make it a happy place - I do really like it here, and it upsets me that some people feel the need to harass others.

[Smallville_Angel]

Hello everyone.

I'm going to make sincerest apologises to you all - I haven't been entirely truthful with you, but I now realise here is one place where I can put myself forward with relatively little criticism and hopefully come to befriend people who understand exactly who I am and what I'm going through.

By now you're aware of the fact I'm label free (I think I've mentioned the whole sexuality being fluid theory and the fact that I find labels restrictive). I'm not so sure I've mentioned my partner - she and I met via Mogenic (a website that allows homosexual, bisexual, label free and transgender youth to interact and form new frienships and relationships). It is an internet relationship, and as difficult as it is at times, I've found it so rewarding: I've finally had the courage to stare into the face of who I really am (bisexual, if you insist in labelling). I'm hoping I'll be able to make some new friends here and I want to thankyou for having the courage to start this thread.... kudos to you.

Well, hope I can be forgiven for not being truthful straight off - kind of wanted to see what it was like before I revealed the truth.

(Heather: just so you're aware, please do not mention this on my Myspace page as I'm currently in the process of informing my friends: I'd like to tell them at my own pace, rather than having it all revealed and ending up in once huge mess. Thanks, and I hope this doesn't change what you think of me, because I assure you I'm still the same girl you knew before admitting this).

[Chlarkerlover]

Wow! That was really brave of you Smallville_Angel!! I'm sure everyone can forgive you, though you should know that none of your friends will really judge you for being you. :)

I myself believe that where ever you find love that makes you happy and seems right for you, then thats fine. No matter where you find love, its still love. :)

[Smallville_Angel]

Thanks very much Chlarkerlover: my biggest issue is the fact many of my close friends are devout Christians, and I myself being Christian - well, there is a conflict of values that I'm just not ready to deal with yet. I've got a lot of working out to do and I'm getting there slowly, but I've still a long way to go, and this was only really step two. At least if I'm accepted here, I've got a little more faith that the world isn't completely against this lifestyle... it's really quite conflicting with all the viewpoints and whatnot.

[xaosthry]

I had the same problem with religion and my sexuality for a long time, until I realized that I was made this way for a reason. I was given my intuition and my soul was made this way not by my choice, it just is. There can be no way that anyone can tell me that being gay is wrong when its not my choice.
If it was my choice...I'm telling you, life was much easier when I was straight.

[Smallville_Angel]

Thanks so much for the outpouring of support and encouragement - I feel so much better for being honest with you all. I realise I am this way for a reason - and although I realise I'll face struggles ahead, I also know that there's no greater gift than being true to myself, and stripping back that facade and stepping out into the light has made me feel a lot more self confident. Xaosthry, I'm here to talk and offer my support - thanks for being so open and truthful and I was you all the best.

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Hello everyone.

I'm going to make sincerest apologises to you all - I haven't been entirely truthful with you, but I now realise here is one place where I can put myself forward with relatively little criticism and hopefully come to befriend people who understand exactly who I am and what I'm going through.

By now you're aware of the fact I'm label free (I think I've mentioned the whole sexuality being fluid theory and the fact that I find labels restrictive). I'm not so sure I've mentioned my partner - she and I met via Mogenic (a website that allows homosexual, bisexual, label free and transgender youth to interact and form new frienships and relationships). It is an internet relationship, and as difficult as it is at times, I've found it so rewarding: I've finally had the courage to stare into the face of who I really am (bisexual, if you insist in labelling). I'm hoping I'll be able to make some new friends here and I want to thankyou for having the courage to start this thread.... kudos to you.

Well, hope I can be forgiven for not being truthful straight off - kind of wanted to see what it was like before I revealed the truth.

(Heather: just so you're aware, please do not mention this on my Myspace page as I'm currently in the process of informing my friends: I'd like to tell them at my own pace, rather than having it all revealed and ending up in once huge mess. Thanks, and I hope this doesn't change what you think of me, because I assure you I'm still the same girl you knew before admitting this).

Of course I wouldn't tell anyone, its your buisness and decision to tell your friends, and your still the cool person I met here on Ksite, and you are a great friend, no matter what color, shape, or sexuality you are. Your Sheridan to me, and your very brave for telling everybody, so I give you MAJOR KUDOS!!!!

[xaosthry]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Thanks so much for the outpouring of support and encouragement - I feel so much better for being honest with you all. I realise I am this way for a reason - and although I realise I'll face struggles ahead, I also know that there's no greater gift than being true to myself, and stripping back that facade and stepping out into the light has made me feel a lot more self confident. Xaosthry, I'm here to talk and offer my support - thanks for being so open and truthful and I was you all the best.

Well, anyway. Welcome to the Family!!!!

[BeldarofRemulak]

Originally posted by xaosthry
I had the same problem with religion and my sexuality for a long time, until I realized that I was made this way for a reason. I was given my intuition and my soul was made this way not by my choice, it just is. There can be no way that anyone can tell me that being gay is wrong when its not my choice.
If it was my choice...I'm telling you, life was much easier when I was straight.

I think that is one aspect that is not understood by society. Sometimes people are so unwilling to understand that perspective. It took my friend a 1 1/2 to come out to me (mind you I already knew). I think he was so afraid I wouldnt understand, but the only thing I cared about was him, so it didnt matter to me.

BTW, ]is that Gabrielle from Xena in your avi? She and that show rock!

[Smallville_Angel]

Taa to you all - thanks for welcoming me to the family... I really think I'll grow to like it here, although it truly is a pity that we seem to have lost some other really warm and open family members - I would have loved the chance to get to know them. I just hope that the family will grow, rather than diminish in numbers. This should be a safe place where we're free to be ourselves - after all, it was set up with that purpose in mind.

[xaosthry]

Originally posted by BeldarofRemulak
I think that is one aspect that is not understood by society. Sometimes people are so unwilling to understand that perspective. It took my friend a 1 1/2 to come out to me (mind you I already knew). I think he was so afraid I wouldnt understand, but the only thing I cared about was him, so it didnt matter to me.

BTW, ]is that Gabrielle from Xena in your avi? She and that show rock!

It took me forever to come out myself. I had some friends that were openly gay, I would go to a party get drunk and make out with a girl and try to tell everyone "I'm not gay, I was just drunk" hehe
Of course, no one believed me. When I finally came out they were just like "we knew, just waiting for you!"
It was nice, I didn't have any problems with my family...hell my nieces and nephews call me Uncle Deb as a joke.

That is Gabrielle, I love her.

[Smallville_Angel]

Oh, so are we moving onto celeb. crushes now? That being so... Allison Mack... seriously, hooked, although I'll blame that on my friend Helena! LOL - anyone, good that your family took it so well - hope mine do too. Not ready to come out yet, but we'll see what the future holds.

[rooting 4 clark]

Celebrity crush for me....Rose McGowan and Shannon Dorety(I'm not sure how you spell it, but she's Prue from Charmed) and I can't forget Tom Welling! LOL!

But my friend, who is bisexual, if labels are needed to explain my point, always says I'm hot or whatever, and I just take it as a compliment.

[Smallville_Angel]

You are a beautiful young woman Heather, and don't you ever forget it. Thanks for everything - now, how about we try to draw some members back in? I really feel I'm losing out not getting to know some of the original members here and it sucks... I'd like to pay major kudos to those who started this thread... I mean, I finally feel as though I don't have to be completely scared about who I am, and that relief, well, it's enormous.

[TMLS]

Welsh Dragon, who started this, doesn't visit here anymore but I'll pass the kind words on. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

Give Welsh Dragon a hello from me to, and a thanks for starting this thread! Kudos to Welsh Dragon!

[xaosthry]

Hello to you others, glad to see this thread coming up more.


Oh, yeah other than Renee O'Conner, Allison Mack is surely on my top obsessions. Right up there with Kate Winslet and Gillian Anderson.
I would seriously consider going straight for a night for Tom Welling, that's for damn sure.

[Smallville_Angel]

Oh, acutally, truth be totally known, I watch Smallville both for the storylines and the talent, if you catch my drift. I'm not simply perving on Tom and Justin... my eyes occassionaly wander to Allison and Kristin, and sometimes Erica... well, if they weren't so good looking I'd have no reason to.

And please do pass on my major kudos to Welsh Dragon - I'll get back to my homework now!

[Mello Penelo]

I went to a party earlier tonight. I kissed a girl there. :p Still not really my thing, but it was really hot.

[rooting 4 clark]

Yea kinda of hard to keep the eyes off of Erica Durance's "twins" sometimes. *peaks over* lol! But she is a gorgeous woman!

[Smallville_Angel]

Heather, you naughty girl!!! Jokes... although I would advise a sneaky perve on Allison every now and again... in my mind she'll always be most beautiful than Kristin and Erica combined.

However, if you must... you'll see that Erica is all round gorgeous:
www.flickr.com/photos/fotos8smirk/472719406/.. browse through... thought I'd simply let you know and now back to my homework.

[rooting 4 clark]

Allison Mack is gorgeous looking as well, I loveher hair, especially her season 1 hair do!

[constantine]

I have to admit, if I were to have a giant sized mancrush, it'd probably be on John Glover. In fact I think I already do...>.>

I've always gone for older partners though, when I've looked for something a little more in depth.

I always kind of had a thing for annette o'toole and in the star trek universe, kate mulgrew. yum. to see that woman in leather...*cough*

[Smallville_Angel]

Glad to see you here constantine... always happy to welcome people to this thread! Feel free to stick around... the more the merrier.

Heather... what do you mean gorgeous. One word girl: sexy!!! Yes, that's the only word to describe Allison (well, at least her physical attractivness.... there's also that personality and intelligence).

[constantine]

Welcome me? I pop up every so often :p

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Glad to see you here constantine... always happy to welcome people to this thread! Feel free to stick around... the more the merrier.

Heather... what do you mean gorgeous. One word girl: sexy!!! Yes, that's the only word to describe Allison (well, at least her physical attractivness.... there's also that personality and intelligence).

How about gorgeously sexy(ok not a real word, but you get my point)

And welcom constantine :)

[constantine]

thank ya, thank ya.

[Smallville_Angel]

Bingo Heather... and feel free to keep dropping by constantine. Wish we still had the others around... oh well. Anywayz, what to discuss.... seriously, my mind is buggered for idea... either of you got any bright ideas?

[Smallville_Angel]

Heather - am bored out of my brain so decided to go to Allison Mack online to check out the latest blog and came across these three hot pics... now after you see these, trust me... you'll love her as much as I do (and I'm obsessed ATM... sure, a little nutty, but don't blame me... it was a friend who got me hooked)!!!


http://i218.photobucket.com/albums/cc219/enigmaangel15/am-dana-081.jpg

http://i218.photobucket.com/albums/cc219/enigmaangel15/am-dana-071.jpg


http://i218.photobucket.com/albums/cc219/enigmaangel15/am1.png

OMG... those eyes in that last... my heart totally melts. :)

Also, see allisonmackonline.com for more pics. from the photo shot I took these ones from.

[Mello Penelo]

I don't know if it was just me, but I'm not the biggest fan of her new photoshoot.

[Smallville_Angel]

Oh, well I actually found it refreshing - it gives Allison a whole new look and well, o.k., it comes down to I've never seen her look sexier... but seriously, let's not open that can of worms again, because rest assured you're all sick of hearing about my obsession.

So, Mello, how have you been???

[Randy G.]

Oh wow! I love Alli's new pics. She's so beautiful.
Thanks for sharing those Smallville Angel. :)

[Mello Penelo]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
So, Mello, how have you been???

I kissed a girl at a party last week. Other than that, just work and school. :\

[rooting 4 clark]

Sheridan she does look extremely sexy in those pics!!!! They should use those pics for her season 7 images!!

[Smallville_Angel]

No worries Randy and Heather. Love your avi. Mello - thought it your old avi. may have been risque and would have hated to see your booted cos of it. Anywayz, what you all been up to? Hope school and work are treating you well Mello.

[Welsh Dragon]

Thanks for the kind thoughts folks.

Wow, never thought I'd post here again. Who'd have thought K-Site would turn out to be so gay? ;)

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Welsh Dragon
Thanks for the kind thoughts folks.

Wow, never thought I'd post here again. Who'd have thought K-Site would turn out to be so gay? ;)

LMAO!!!:rotfl: :rotfl:

[xaosthry]

Its growing like mold. Contagious as well.

[Smallville_Angel]

Well, I figure that I might as well be true to myself and to you all as well: here, I'm accepted for who I am and loved for that. It's giving me strenght and courage to lead a life I live so completely... plus, nothing bets that feeling of being able to hold my hold high and take pride in who I am. Thanks to you all - you've given me the most incredible gift: the strenght and courage to be so true. Anyone who tells you you are anything less than incredible people deserves to have their butt kick - you're my life line in some ways. You all rock my world!!

[rooting 4 clark]

I'm glad that you can open up and be yourself here Sheridan! I can be myself here too, this thread is great to just.."be"!

[Smallville_Angel]

Where'd you all go???

[Smallville_Angel]

http://i218.photobucket.com/albums/cc219/enigmaangel15/y1p4CE3hYUGgMaq0IjjCNJ4MAxhAl29M3dc.jpg

O.K. So you've got why I'm addicted to Allison, but this pic. of Kristin sure as hell got me crushing on her once again. It's the eyes once again... what is it with me and the eyes???

[Smallville_Angel]

No idea where in earth you all went, but if any of you are stilla round, I suggest you consider visiting
http://www.comingoutsupport.com

This website was set up by a fellow member and is aimed at providing a support network for homosexual and bisexual people and allows them to share their coming out stories with others. You don't even need to become a member - simply type up your story (your name is not used in the publication of these stories) and you're good to good. Alternatively, you're free to comment on others stories if you can relate, and your free to use a nickname for this if you don't anyone knwoing your identity.

Give it thought and hope to see some of you there - I think the aforementioned member would sincerley appreciate seeing more people using this site.

[rooting 4 clark]

I'm still here,lol! But school has been crazy this week, but I couldn't forget about this thread. I cheked out the website and, have read some of the stories. I think those who have shared there stories are amazing people in my eyes. The story I can really relate to is Going into the Closet.

Thanks for the link Sheridan, and I think everyone here should check out the site-gay, bi, bi-curious, hell even straight.

P.S. Kristen Kreuk's eyes are soo delicious in that pick. Tom Welling is one lucky SOB to be in SV with KK, Allison Mack, and Erica Durance.

[slayer]

so out of all the time i've been at ksite, i've never visited the watercooler and now look what i found! i heart you guys and i've only been here for two seconds! :lol:

the name's Amanda btw, and i was deeply confused....and now i am just over it and i live how i want :lol:

[Smallville_Angel]

Welcome Amanda - so happy to see you here. It's always good to drop by and chat, and if you're feeling confused, this is the place.

And Heather, talk about slow to make that realisation. I'll e-mail you more about it, if you have any questions.

Oh, and Sarah, go away! It occurs to me you enjoy stirring, and I swear that if my Lois Lane comes out again, I'm going to get really bugged... it bothers me you're like this because I'm sure you're an otherwise decent person.

[Hero1990]

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[MidgardDragon]

First off, that's the biggest piece of trolling I've ever seen. Secondly, lots of homosexual people aren't a disappointment to their friends and family at all. As the lifestyle becomes more accepted so do they. I've known homosexual people with the most supportive and kind friends and family ever. Alternately I know heterosexual people who's friends and family are more disappointed in them then anyone and are completely unsupportive in everything they do.

2 Posts huh? Somehow I think you won't be lasting long.

[Hero1990]

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[j03superbat]

Originally posted by Hero1990
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A few? That doesn't make it a fact.

[Hero1990]

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[MidgardDragon]

Ah, here we go again. As long as both males and females exist we can still repopulate, even if the whole world is gay. We have such amazing technology now that you can have a kid without ever meeting the father. For two males they can easily adopt (well, they should be able to, at least, sometimes this is a problem because of ignorance on adoption agencies parts, though), as there are millions of kids out there without a home that would be perfectly happy with two dads.

[Nospam]

Originally posted by Hero1990
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I think any child would be happy to be loved by two parents regardless of the parent's sex and orientation. Children need love and discipline not ignorance and dogma.

Your comment simply echoes the irrational fear of social conservatives that children raised by homosexuals will somehow be "infected" by homosexuality. Such attitudes belong in the dung heap.

And I don't think the human race is any danger of depopulation due to gay parenting.

[Mello Penelo]

Originally posted by Hero1990
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Love is something that a child can feel from his/her parents, regardless if they're homosexual or heterosexual.

It's bad enough there are a lot of kids who are in single-parent families. I'd choose two gay parents over one parent any day.

[xaosthry]

Originally posted by Nospam
I think any child would be happy to be loved by two parents regardless of the parent's sex and orientation. Children need love and discipline not ignorance and dogma.

Your comment simply echoes the irrational fear of social conservatives that children raised by homosexuals will somehow be "infected" by homosexuality. Such attitudes belong in the dung heap.

And I don't think the human race is any danger of depopulation due to gay parenting.

Thank you.
Plus, its not like gays are going to ruin marriage. Half of marriages end in divorce, and kids are being neglected on a daily basis. Gay's are not going to be the end of society.

[Tabbymarie]

Hi! Everyone!!! I see Smallville_Angel already posted the link to comingoutsupport.com but I'll post it again (with permission from Craig, of course!)

http://comingoutsupport.com/wp-includes/images/banners/comingout250x90.png (http://www.comingoutsupport.com)

I've never been to this thread, and nor have I ever really outted myself in the Smallville fandom before now, although I think shirkie's done that for me here, not sure.

Either way! Standing up with the lesbian fans! Hi All!

If any of you ever have any questions or need some support, and don't know who to talk to, you're more than welcomed to email me for questions or advice or just an ear. :) I'm always available and can relate, most of the time.

[Katrinafor President]

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[Mello Penelo]

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[constantine]

Originally posted by Katrinafor President
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[Mello Penelo]

Originally posted by ~R@iN~
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[constantine]

Originally posted by Katrinafor President
You like boys.....

No, I like men, and funnily enough, women too.

[~R@iN~]

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[Randy G.]

[Mod Note:] Let me stress again, that this is NOT a debate thread.
You may notice that negative remarks, flaming, and discriminatory insults are getting users Banned left & right,
and only end up being edited out by Moderators.

I highly suggest a refresher course on the KryptonSite Rules, before you consider (Bashing) posting in this thread.

[slayer]

wow. i love that it's my second visit to the thread and i missed all the excitement. bashing is so not cool.

[TMLS]

Originally posted by Randy G.
[Mod Note:] Let me stress again, that this is NOT a debate thread.

Of course it is, how are we meant to discuss things without debating them? What a ludicrous statement, Randy. I thought better of you!

If people are comfortable about being Gay then that's great but they should be prepared to discuss why if they're talking about it in an internet forum. And it's about time we had a "straight forum" on here too - positive discrimination is still discrimination.

[rooting 4 clark]

Wow I have missed alot! I was just coming here to say that I have finally admitted to myself that I am a bisexual, and proud of it!!! I also got my first girlfriend the other day, so that is going really well. But bashing isn't cool, but you have to know that a debate will come out either way.

[slayer]

Originally posted by TMLS
Of course it is, how are we meant to discuss things without debating them? What a ludicrous statement, Randy. I thought better of you!

If people are comfortable about being Gay then that's great but they should be prepared to discuss why if they're talking about it in an internet forum. And it's about time we had a "straight forum" on here too - positive discrimination is still discrimination.

:eek: :rotfl: :rotfl:

this is true :lol:

[constantine]

Originally posted by rooting 4 clark
Wow I have missed alot! I was just coming here to say that I have finally admitted to myself that I am a bisexual, and proud of it!!! I also got my first girlfriend the other day, so that is going really well. But bashing isn't cool, but you have to know that a debate will come out either way.

Wow. How'd that happen?

[Tabbymarie]

If people are comfortable about being Gay then that's great but they should be prepared to discuss why if they're talking about it in an internet forum. And it's about time we had a "straight forum" on here too - positive discrimination is still discrimination.
Having a member-started thread about alternate sexual orientations is not discrimination. It's discussing alternate sexual orientations. Refusing to allow the "common" orientation to be IN this thread and discuss WITH those that express their desire for an alternate orientation WOULD be discrimination, however I haven't seen that to be the case.

TMLS If you have a problem with the way the site is ran, please take it up with Kryptonsite.

[TMLS]

Whoops. I appear to have missed the winking smiley off my post. My bad.

[Smallville_Angel]

Originally posted by rooting 4 clark
Wow I have missed alot! I was just coming here to say that I have finally admitted to myself that I am a bisexual, and proud of it!!! I also got my first girlfriend the other day, so that is going really well. But bashing isn't cool, but you have to know that a debate will come out either way.

Heather beautiful, I'm so proud of you. I congratulate you on having the courage to come out to us... bless you and best wishes with your girlfriend. If you want to chat, drop me a line cia PM and I'll send you my email address... don't believe you have it yet.

[constantine]

Hmmm...I was thinking today, it's time to break out the christmas tunes ready for the holiday season.

[Mello Penelo]

I've been listening since mid-October. Anyway, back on topic. :p

[constantine]

This is on topic. This is a hangout. I'm thinking of going for a jazz christmas this year

[Smallville_Angel]

I think I'll stick to the traditional stuff this year - yeah! Carols begin early December - I love this time of year so much. No idea what the family is doing for XMAS, but who cares??? I'm happy as long as it's spent with family, I go to church XMAS eve (too busy XMAS morning) and there is plenty of delicious food to go around. Oh, and are the Americans counting down to Thanksgiving?

[constantine]

I think I might have a word with craig, see if he'd be interested in some of us doing a batch of kryptonsite branded xmas wallpaper. And to be honest, I try not to get caught up in the season, but I find a lot to look forward to when my nephews and nieces are around - they're all under five, so it's all very magical for them and they get a real kick out of me dressed as santa.

[Smallville_Angel]

Aren't you the sweetest, dressing up as Santa for your nieces and nephews? They're lucky you're willing do to that for them.

[Mello Penelo]

I never really gave it much thought before I saw this thread. Since reading what you guys have to say, I've started sort of "picking" those of my female friends I'd spend the night with.

I'm not a lesbian, but I'm thinking I want to give the physical part a shot. It's kind of exciting, come to think about it. I've kissed a couple of girls and I love how tender it is compared to guys.

[Smallville_Angel]

Never kissed either sex, but I must admit, women seem to know what to say and when to say it (which works well because sometimes guys have the habit of saying the worst things at the worst time... e.g. telling you to stop *****ing after your "friends" begin spreading rumours behind your back etc.). Women understand things guys will never get, which makes for deeper conversations and a feeling of deeper connection a lot of the time, too.

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
I think I'll stick to the traditional stuff this year - yeah! Carols begin early December - I love this time of year so much. No idea what the family is doing for XMAS, but who cares??? I'm happy as long as it's spent with family, I go to church XMAS eve (too busy XMAS morning) and there is plenty of delicious food to go around. Oh, and are the Americans counting down to Thanksgiving?

Yea, I can't wait until Thanksgiving, I love me some turkey,lol!

But usually when you have a relationship with the same sex, they understand you better.

[Smallville_Angel]

That's because only women will ever truly understand the way a woman's mind works, Heather dear. And besides which, they don't get moody if you're feeling all sentimental and moody yourself, so that's most definately a plus.

[constantine]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Never kissed either sex, but I must admit, women seem to know what to say and when to say it (which works well because sometimes guys have the habit of saying the worst things at the worst time... e.g. telling you to stop *****ing after your "friends" begin spreading rumours behind your back etc.). Women understand things guys will never get, which makes for deeper conversations and a feeling of deeper connection a lot of the time, too.

My personal theory is that men tend to get better at that with age; I know when I was 18, I was a real jackass...And I mean a really big one. But yeah. It's swings and roundabouts, because women can be just as bad.

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by constantine
My personal theory is that men tend to get better at that with age; I know when I was 18, I was a real jackass...And I mean a really big one. But yeah. It's swings and roundabouts, because women can be just as bad.

True, some woman are really b!tchy and can get jealous, sometimes over the stupidest things.

[Mello Penelo]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Never kissed either sex, but I must admit, women seem to know what to say and when to say it

Which is what made me so curious about trying it.

[Nospam]

Originally posted by Mello Penelo
I'm not a lesbian, but I'm thinking I want to give the physical part a shot. It's kind of exciting, come to think about it. I've kissed a couple of girls and I love how tender it is compared to guys.

I think you just haven't found the right man yet. As Constantine rightly points out, men need time to mature.

My sister is a lesbian, and when we talk she complains about all the same things with her female partner as any heterosexual couple would. Then we laugh because people complain about the silliest things.

[Mello Penelo]

Originally posted by Nospam
I think you just haven't found the right man yet.

Umm, I have. I'm just not willing to move to California.

[constantine]

Originally posted by Mello Penelo
Umm, I have. I'm just not willing to move to California.

But I'm not in california...

[Mello Penelo]

Then that should tell you something. :p

[xaosthry]

Originally posted by Nospam
I think you just haven't found the right man yet.

If I had a dime every time someone told me that.
Then again, my response. Better men have tried....and failed.

[Mello Penelo]

Like I said, I like boys. A lot. I love having sex. It's great.

But I also said that because of this thread, I started thinking more about giving the physical part a shot with a girl. It really intrigues me. I've even been looking at my female friends wondering what it would be like. And sort of "picking" them.

I'm still very nervous about it though. A lot of times I think, "why am I thinking about this? I like guys." But I've always been open to new experiences. I don't think I'll do it anytime soon, but I have thought about it.

[Smallville_Angel]

Heather dear, for all women can get *****y, I've yet to met a women who treated me as my previous male crushes have... believe me, until you know that pain and angst (and I really hope you never do) you do know how easy it is to have that desire to turn your back to males (even for the shortest time). But I do feel so much better of for this, and as I've said time and time again, it does boil down to be true to yourself.

[constantine]

Originally posted by Smallville_Angel
Heather dear, for all women can get *****y, I've yet to met a women who treated me as my previous male crushes have... believe me, until you know that pain and angst (and I really hope you never do) you do know how easy it is to have that desire to turn your back to males (even for the shortest time). But I do feel so much better of for this, and as I've said time and time again, it does boil down to be true to yourself.

What, and guys don't get the same treatment? Women can be a thousand times more hurtful than men, purely because society teaches males that it's unacceptable to a degree to bare our emotions in the open in the same way women do. I took the choice to be asexual for a reason - I'm tired of being hurt by people...My ex wife went ahead and did the two things I never asked her to for pete's sake.

It simply isn't fair or right to play the "lesbianism is good, because men are such bastards" card, because above all else it's an unfair generalisation.

[Smallville_Angel]

Excuse you buster... was I? Hello, bisexual here.... hardly said all men are bastards... but I do so dislike men who put words in my mouth. Never said you were anything short of decent, did I? Sorry if I'm fiesty, but that's me... and yes, it may have sounded as though I was generalising, but not my intention. However, if you'd rather believe it, I'll leave... just makes me feel like I've slipped back into fighting with Sarah, and do I ever hate that!

Heather, I understand where you're coming from... both sexes are capable of being harsh, but I'll simply put forth from my own personal experience, some males do not tend to be as caring simply because they do not know what runs through a female mind and therefore can't be sensitive to it. I'll admit, I know some really sweet guys, but alternatively, I know a lot more guys who act sweet but are far from it. I think it's a matter of weighing it up, and realising, yes, not all men are like that, but sadly a lot are.

Oh, and I'll take back my use of the word bastard, cosnidering its meaning. Hardly appropriate, and rather rude. My apologies guys.

[constantine]

edited: bollocks to it. I don't really know any of you, so it really isn't worth the fuss

[rooting 4 clark]

All I'm gonna say is that both sexes can be b!tchy, mean, hurtful, and all the other emotions, but when it comes down to sexuality and what your sexual preference is, then choosing the same sex as you or the opposite sex can be challenging because we all know what our own sex is like. We also know our assumptions of what the other sex is like, so in the end it comes down to how much trust can you put in that person, no matter if your bi, straight, lesbian, etc.

[Smallville_Angel]

You all dissappeared once again - I'm I the only one lucky enough to have a long holiday in which to kick back, relax and catch up on my life (really, uni. deprives me of my writing, free reading and most other creative endevours). Well, hope you're all well and enjoying life... um, what to discuss... anyone suggest a topic??

[rooting 4 clark]

Um..what do you look for in a girl or guy?

[Smallville_Angel]

Personality and intelligence over looks every single time Heather.... looks are of course the added bonus, but providing the person uses the brain inside their head and has personality plus, I really don't care all that much about looks... although I have noticed lately that I tend to be liking the girls with brown or hazel eyes.

[rooting 4 clark]

Same here Sheridan, if you don't have a good personality, what are looks really any good for? I mean yea there good for being eyecandy, but nothing else. But I like green eyes and hair color doesn't matter, and someone who is funny.

[Shadow116]

Hey Sheri just decided to drop in,see how you are, and meet some new friends.

So how is everyone, I am John or J.D. take your pick lol. I'm a straight guy but worry not I am open to anyone really. And yeah lol also I am pretty geeky and odd lol.And I am a Christian also :).

And I also gotta rant on how most muscular boneheaded guys make the rest of us nicer guys have a bad rap just because we're guys.

Anyway I also have a gf here,Amy and want to be a writer.

Sorry I made this little sum up of me so long or annoying lol.

[Smallville_Angel]

Howdy J.D... thanks for dropping by... so happy you're so accepting and willing to make some new friends here... trust me, all in all, they're a pretty nice bunch. You occassionaly get a few who aren't so friendly, but otherwise, great people and always open to new discussions.

Heather dear, you got up on A.M's latest blogs? All posted, if you want to dop by to read them... I still haven't gotten around to it... naughty me... usually one of the first to drop by and comment.

[Shadow116]

No prob and really I just hope people accept me here. I'm just here to make some new friends.

But thanks for the warm welcome Sheri :).

[rooting 4 clark]

Really? I'm going to check now!

[Randy G.]

I hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving! ;)

[rooting 4 clark]

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!!

[Smallville_Angel]

Happy Thanksgiving...

How'd Macy's Parade go??? Wish they'd televise it worldwide... would so love to watch it!

[Shadow116]

Macy's Parade went very well this year as always Sheri.

Oh and I wanna say hi to everyone else :).

Hi I'm John,rest of my "intro" is a few earlier posts lol.

And I hope Thanksgiving went well for everybody.

[rooting 4 clark]

Thanksgiving was great for me. I have so much food left over!

[xaosthry]

Originally posted by rooting 4 clark
Thanksgiving was great for me. I have so much food left over!

That's the best part. Food for days.

[Mello Penelo]

We gave most of our leftovers to the homeless shelter.

[Nospam]

Originally posted by Mello Penelo
We gave most of our leftovers to the homeless shelter.

I give a yearly donation to the local homeless shelter here in Calgary, which includes a Thanksgiving meal. Also, just about all of the local supermarkets here have donation bins for the food bank. I make sure I throw in a few boxes of Kraft Dinner and soup. I would never subject the needy to my cooking.

I think it is money well spent. The housing situation in Calgary is appalling. :(

I find it kind of interesting that Americans observe their Thanksgiving so late in the year as Canadians celebrate Thanksgiving on Columbus Day, waaaaay back in October. That wasn't always the case, as like the United States the date for Thanksgiving in Canada moved around a lot until someone finally pinned a date on the calendar.

[Randy G.]

I don't have much myself, but around this time every year, I give my spare change to the Salvation Army bell ringers. I also try to buy a whole case of cans of soup, to give, as well as some sweaters that no longer fit me.
Whenever they put up the "Angel tree"every year, I get a kids name & buy them a toy. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

In my school, we have to bring in a canned food and we send it to the homless.

[Mello Penelo]

Wait, you have to do it? When I was in high school, it was optional. Some teachers might have given some extra credit for doing it, but we most certainly weren't required to do it.

[Theshadow129x]

Same with me when I was in high school. I always did it though to get the extra credit.

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Mello Penelo
Wait, you have to do it? When I was in high school, it was optional. Some teachers might have given some extra credit for doing it, but we most certainly weren't required to do it.
Yup, you have to do it, and they check your name off on a list. I f you don't bring one in, you get a demerit.

[Mello Penelo]

That's horrible. I would take a demerit just to prove you shouldn't have to. Then I'd donate to the shelter itself, apart from the school.

[Mello Penelo]

Well, I sort of gave it a shot with my friend Jessica this afternoon. She's one of the girls I've kissed before, but she's not a lesbian (and neither am I). I was at her house, and we were watching G4 in her room and saw Oliva Munn do the "Lesbionic Woman" sketch.

We started talking about sex with another girl, mainly from talking with you guys in this thread and how I felt about considering it (since I'd never really thought about it when I was with my ex-bf Thomas). When we started kissing each other on the bed, she put her hand up my shirt. Her hand was there for about a minute and I realized I wasn't ready to try it.

We ended up watching 10 Things I Hate About You.

[Smallville_Angel]

First off Mello, must say I'm adoring your avi... always get a good laugh out of seeing it. Secondly, glad to see that you've decided you're simply not ready for any form of a "romantic" relationship with another woman yet - no point rushing it and it's best to simply let it come naturally rather than forcing it because you're a little curious - would hate to see you do anything you'd later live to really regret (not that I'm saying you would - you seem like the sort of person who wouldn't go along with anything you didn't want to do). Anywayz, just take it slowly and best wishes - oh, and how much does 10 Things I Hate About You rock?

Anyway, glad to hear you all had a good Thanksgiving - for me, ot was just another normal day as we don't celebrate it here in Australia - pity that, but we have other celebrations that you guys don't get in on. Hope none of you ended up over-eating... oh, and the can drive idea is so smart. We have a similiar idea at my old high school, except we'd bring stationary in and it would go to the children in third world countries who were unable to afford any sort of supplies required for school. Always thought it was a smart idea!

[Mello Penelo]

I'm not against a can drive. I'm against it being mandatory. I think everyone should, but no one should be required.

[Randy G.]

The mandatory thing doesn't sound right. People don't respond well, if they feel like they're being forced to do something. If anything, they should offer some kind of incentive, like movie passes, or a CD, for whoever's class donates the most. Everyone should want to help out, but sadly, people tend to ask, "What's in it for me?"

[rooting 4 clark]

Yea, I'm part of student council in my school and I told my principle that it shouldn't be mandatory (the can drive), and she took it into consideration, and announced that it is now optional. So, because of you guys I made a difference. :)

Mello Penelo: I was bi-curious, but now I have fully acknowledged myself as a bisexual. So, being curious is great, natural, and part of life, but I'm glad that when things were about to get "hot and heavy" that you stopped it, because, like Sheridan said you don't want to regret things.

[Mello Penelo]

I watched a lesbian porn tonight. :lol: It was pretty hot.

*embarrassed* :\

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Mello Penelo
I watched a lesbian porn tonight. :lol: It was pretty hot.

*embarrassed* :\

Don't be embarrassed, if its hot its hot, you can't help what you feel :)

[xaosthry]

Lesbian porn is alright, if you get a good one. Most of the time I feel that they are usually made by guys for guys. They don't have enough imagination.

[Nospam]

Originally posted by xaosthry
Lesbian porn is alright, if you get a good one. Most of the time I feel that they are usually made by guys for guys. They don't have enough imagination.

I know! Whenever I've watched lesbian porno scenes I almost always say, "I could do better than that" or "I wouldn't do it that way."

[Mello Penelo]

Originally posted by xaosthry
Lesbian porn is alright, if you get a good one. Most of the time I feel that they are usually made by guys for guys. They don't have enough imagination.

It was just one that came on Cinemax late night. I couldn't sleep, so I was changing the channels and there it was. :lol:

[rooting 4 clark]

Originally posted by Mello Penelo
It was just one that came on Cinemax late night. I couldn't sleep, so I was changing the channels and there it was. :lol:
LMAO!! Cinemax, yup, if you want something dirty, always turn to Cinemax.

[xaosthry]

Skinamax is alright. Some of its even better than the hard core stuff.

I want to direct lesbian porn. At least that way it would be done right.

[Mello Penelo]

I'm sure there's lesbian porn out there for real lesbians.

[rooting 4 clark]

This thread sure has come a long way,lol!

[Mello Penelo]

I had to go to the gyno today. :( My period came back over two weeks early. Which is really, really weird. I have been spot-on since I was a little girl.

She said she found a cyst. :(

[Smallville_Angel]

Mello, best wishes, but don't panic. Cysts are perfectly normal and can be removed without much trouble. If you're still stressed and worried, discuss it with your GP - that's what they're there for. Just try to keep cool and if you're really worried, do something to take your mind off it - all the best and hope everything works out for you.

Anywayz, back on topic... do any other users here know of Mogenic?

[Chlarkerlover]

I've never heard of it.*shrug*

Is this somewhat on topic? I was watching a mad tv sketch the other night, about two men watch a football game. Everytime the guy's team would score a goal, the guys would start to make out, freaking about how they might be gay. After the shock, I relized something.

I thought it was very, very hot. I've told some of my guys friend's this, and they seem to think it makes since, seeing as some guys think two girls together is hot.

Sorry if that's off topic, but I couldn't think of anywhere else to post it.

[Mello Penelo]

Yeah, guy on guy is grody to me.

But I do see the double-standard that girls can make out and it's "awesome," but when guys do it, "they're going to hell."

[Chlarkerlover]

It was so much going to hell as "disgusting and wrong" is some guys take on it. However, the one I told thought it was understandable.

[Mello Penelo]

I hate waiting for test results. :(

[Nospam]

Originally posted by Mello Penelo
Yeah, guy on guy is grody to me.

But I do see the double-standard that girls can make out and it's "awesome," but when guys do it, "they're going to hell."

I think it is more disgusting when my friend's dog licks his own balls.

He really goes at it, too.


Originally posted by Mello Penelo
I hate waiting for test results. :(

I wouldn't worry too much. My sister had cysts removed and they proved to be benign.

It happens.

[Mello Penelo]

Wait... The dog licks his own balls or the dog licks your friends' balls? :confused: