Hangout for bisexual and homosexual peeps

[Smallville_Angel]

First, welcome to the forums RyanE. Always so nice to see a nice face around here, and I really hope you stick around.

Any fellow Gleeks going into Glee hysteria about season two's debut next week? It returns here in Australia next week too and I'm so excited. I saw a preview tonight and was so hyped. This season looks every bit as good as the last, and I'm always up for some more Dianna Agron. Whoops, did I just type that?:rotfl: Hoping you're all as hyped as me, otherwise I'll be the creepy little longer:lol:.

Did anyone else watch the Emmy's? I didn't watch all of it, mainly stuck around for a while because I happened to catch the beginning and when I saw 'Glee', I obviously couldn't turn the TV off at that point. I loved the opening - the performance was awesome. That and I must say that I kind of had my eye... opps, there I go again:lol:. Chris Cofler was, naturally, funny as usual, although I was more interested with a certain gorgeous brunette who I never released could not only act but sing (yes, she's not the most talented singer out there, but she was so HOT!:rotfl:). Anyone care to venture a guess? And now for your enjoyment...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WPkDFPmRSqU

[rooting 4 clark]

Let me guess Nina Dobrev? :lol:

I am SUPER EXCITED for Glee!!!!!

[RyanE]

Kind of excited for Glee, I caught a few episodes, and the cast can sing, but the characters are very, very weak for me. But it is fun show, so that is a good thing to have on television.

[Smallville_Angel]

Have I become that transparent Heather? But yes, she did catch my eye (and now she's caught my eye as Katherine; yes, Elena's beautiful, but Katherine, Katherine is sexy:rotfl:;)).

Count down is on for the return of 'Glee'. Bring on September 22nd here in Australia. :D

[rooting 4 clark]

It's the 21st here in the U.S. ans yes Katherine might be a nasty one but she's sexy ;)

[Smallville_Angel]

I do so wish she hadn't smothered poor Caroline in the final scene, though. I can't really stand Caroline, but even she didn't deserve that. I wonder how many friends poor Elena is going to have left by the time the vampire population of Mystic Falls has finished with them all.

http://www.ninadobrev.org/

I was bored... what else can I say? Those of you who know me know I'm nothing if not crazy (and let's be honest, you love me for it:lol::p). Thought I'd share this one with you;).

http://twitter.com/NINADOBREV

YEAH, she has Twitter. And here I was thinking Twitter was the biggest waste of time ever. How terribly wrong I was.:rotfl::rotfl:

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I followed Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder on Twitter and they always put up pictures from the set.

[Smallville_Angel]

What did my fellow Gleeks think of the latest episode? I know I probably stand to be shoot saying this amongst a group of passionate Glee fans such as yourselves, but I was actually rather dissapointed that such a high quality show seemed to have sunk to the level of needing a 'filler' episode. Yes, I was once a Britney Spears fan and I can agree that her music had an influence in the lives of our generation, but I just personally did not feel there was too much to this episode. The idea was far fetched (Emma's boyfriend is the world's dodgy dentist and should be fired quick smart!:lol:) and it appeared that season two's premiere was overlooked as Sam rated no mention and Finn was awarded his place on the football team despite the fact Sam filled his spot as quarterback last week. I did have to laugh at the fact that it appears Brittany remember her full name - was that an oversight on the previous admission that she does not remember her middle name or an anecdote to explain the craziness of the whole episode? I really enjoyed Rachel's performance of Paramore's 'Only Exception' at the end, though. No spoilers though guys - I have to wait until October 20th for new episodes due to Commonwealth Games coverage on the channel that would normally air Glee. So dissapointed about that - here we were, a mere 10 hours behind the US in terms of when we got to see the episode, and now we fall about 3 weeks behind. Not at all impressed with that:lol:.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmCMAqRlWZY

Telephone from last week's episode. So obsessed with that song ever since I found the full version on Youtube!:rotfl:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL8maoIgo40&feature=related

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I give the Britney/Britany episode a 8/10. It felt like a filler, and the plot was kind of lame. The songs and the much needed spotlight on Heather Morris (Britney) were very good though! She can really dance!

Alos, I bought the new Maroon 5 cd titled "Hands All Over". It's so good! Maroon 5 is still doing what they do best: those catchy hooks and sexy lyrics. Check it out if you can.

[Smallville_Angel]

I give the Britney/Britany episode a 8/10. It felt like a filler, and the plot was kind of lame. The songs and the much needed spotlight on Heather Morris (Britney) were very good though! She can really dance!

Alos, I bought the new Maroon 5 cd titled "Hands All Over". It's so good! Maroon 5 is still doing what they do best: those catchy hooks and sexy lyrics. Check it out if you can.

I think the entire point of the episode was to finally give Heather Morris the opportunity to show off her talents because she's often pushed to the background and almost overlooked, simply written off as the ditzy blonde cheerleader who can't remember her own middle name (or so she claimed; still think that was a slip up in last night's episode) and thinks dolphins are just gay sharks. I think if anything was proved it was that Heather Morris can really dance, not so much that she's got this powerful voice like Amber Riley or Lea Michele.

Speaking of Glee, I've been watching season one episodes on DVD and have noticed something that I find somewhat amusing and was wondering if anyone else noticed the same. We all know Santana and Brittany are friends with benefits, there's no doubt there. But has anyone else noticed that during glee club performances in the rehearsal room, there's been two times (that I've noticed) when the girls have locked pinkies before Santana puts her head down on Brittany's shoulder and gives her a rather affectionate glance? Is it possible that for all Santana is an A-grade you know what that perhaps Brittany may have a little more pull with gestures such as that in their 'relationship' (not that you can call it that, but whatever). I just found that amusing because Brittany's written off as a character who is basically a bit of a door mat but it appears she isn't at all:rotfl:.

[rooting 4 clark]

I think the entire point of the episode was to finally give Heather Morris the opportunity to show off her talents because she's often pushed to the background and almost overlooked, simply written off as the ditzy blonde cheerleader who can't remember her own middle name (or so she claimed; still think that was a slip up in last night's episode) and thinks dolphins are just gay sharks. I think if anything was proved it was that Heather Morris can really dance, not so much that she's got this powerful voice like Amber Riley or Lea Michele.

Speaking of Glee, I've been watching season one episodes on DVD and have noticed something that I find somewhat amusing and was wondering if anyone else noticed the same. We all know Santana and Brittany are friends with benefits, there's no doubt there. But has anyone else noticed that during glee club performances in the rehearsal room, there's been two times (that I've noticed) when the girls have locked pinkies before Santana puts her head down on Brittany's shoulder and gives her a rather affectionate glance? Is it possible that for all Santana is an A-grade you know what that perhaps Brittany may have a little more pull with gestures such as that in their 'relationship' (not that you can call it that, but whatever). I just found that amusing because Brittany's written off as a character who is basically a bit of a door mat but it appears she isn't at all:rotfl:.

LOL! I never thought of it that way, but then again Brittany was the one who told Satana to go after Finn in the Madonna episode.

On another note, when is Kurt and his future boyfriend going to meet? I feel that their relationship will be fnew and different for tv, because gay people, bisexual, etc. have the same problems as heterosexual people.

[RyanE]

Yeah, just watched Glee for the first time. I liked the Britney/Brittany episode. Yeah some things went over my head, since I do not know much about the characters, but this was a fun episode.

Question: Does that Rachel girl really need validation like that with her boyfriend (Finn?)? It seems a bit shallow to me.

All in all, it is my first episode, I'll give it an 8 out of 10.

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Question: Does that Rachel girl really need validation like that with her boyfriend (Finn?)? It seems a bit shallow to me.

Well Rachel is conceited but talented, and she's trying to work on it with Finn. She's high class and Finn is slow :lol:

[RyanE]

^^ That makes sense. I think I need to get the first season then, lol.

[JB1986]

I've been busy for awhile, but glad to be back. The "Britney/Brittany" "Glee" episode was pretty good, but I agree that it was kind of a filler episode. I vastly preferred the Madonna episode, that one was such a blast. I loved that Brittany got more focus in this episode, and Britney Spears' cameos were fun. I've kind of begun to enjoy Britney Spears more lately than I used to. Her songs are certainly catchy, and she seems like a very sweet person.

And Heather, I do wanna get Maroon 5's new album. Adam Levine = DROOL. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

I love his voice as well Jeff! *Gets the drool cup back out!*

[Smallville_Angel]

I noticed that Heather and thought it was somewhat amusing - for all Brittany's the ditzy, walk over blonde in so many ways, she seems to wear the pants with Santana. Dare I say I'm hanging out for their rumoured kiss later this season:lol:. It's about time we saw more of them - forget Santana and Puck. He's a user anyway, especially with the fact he has working his way through the girls in Glee club.

I've been making my way through the season one episodes, and last night I finally made it to one of my favourite episodes of the season... for all the wrong reasons:rotfl:. Dianna Agron = totally perve-worthy in 'Theatricality' ;). I'm not sure what it is about that episode, but she just looks so extremely sexy:rotfl:.

[RyanE]

Hey gang!

I need some advice ASAP, on coming out to your parents. Please message me privately or send me a vistior message. Thank you!

[JB1986]

Brittany is one of my favorite characters. Her "dolphins are gay sharks" line was beyond hysterical. She steals pretty much every scene she's in. :)

I'm listening to Maroon 5's new album right now, and I like it so far. I love Adam Levine's voice. (Sigh.) Oh, and he's totally hot. :D

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[RyanE]

^^ Hunky! I've got this werid thing for arm muscles. Not sure why. But hey why not? :D! Lol.

I like Brittany, but like I said I haven't watched much of Glee, but I wll try to stick with it because it seems to be a fun show, despite some misteps. MOD EDIT

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I just wanted to know if anyone has heard of the 5 gay boys who have committed suicide at various colleges? It is terrifying to hear about this. These boys are being abused, emotionally because they are gay. It is so sickening to see these stories.

[RyanE]

^^ There was the one case at Rutgers (which is an hour from me) in NJ, but I haven't heard about any of the others. What happened?

[JB1986]

Oh trust me, I've heard about them. They had a story about what happened to Tyler Clementi last weekend in USA Today that I read. Heartbreaking. Personally, I hope the person who posted the video of Clementi having sex with another man online, as well as the girl involved in the "prank" get what's coming to them. Sorry, but they have so much blood on their hands, in my opinion. I really can't bear to think too much about it, to be honest. These suicides make me feel like crying.

[rooting 4 clark]

^^ There was the one case at Rutgers (which is an hour from me) in NJ, but I haven't heard about any of the others. What happened?

I'm not sure exactly what happened with the others, but I heard the Rutger's incident is the 5th one this year.

And Jeff, I really do hope they get what they deserve. If he was straight, then they wouldn't need to put a video camera to catch him having sex with a female, because that's "natural". Even, if they did still put a video camera in his room to catch him having sex, he would not have felt the same way when he was exposed. He probably would have been the "big man on campus". This whole thing really sucks!

[RyanE]

I don't think they will be charged with hate crime per say, since the law is more about doing something to a person. Tyler committed suicide, because his trust was betrayed and he was bullied with. And from what I read so were the other kids as well.

As far is what is going to happen to the two who recorded it and put it on the web, from what I have read they are only going to get about 5 or 6 years for invasion of privacy, which is a felony. But these two are definitely going to made an example of, and maybe that will be the linchpin for our government to see that bullying is a real thing and it does happen to everyone.

[rooting 4 clark]

^^
I agree, maybe the government will start to open their eyes and see that what they did encouraged him to probably commit suicide.

[RyanE]

^^ But will that make bullying go away?

I don't think so, but maybe we will have place for kids to go, so they do not end up hurting themselves or taking their lives.

[JB1986]

This whole thing just makes me sad. Normally I don't read People magazine,but I had to pick up this week's issue, because it talked about the dangers of bullying, and the five gay teens who've killed themselves in the past few weeks. Oh, and I just finished watching this Larry King Live episode on Youtube about GLBT teen bullying. Larry King interviewed Kathy Griffin, Wanda Sykes, Tim Gunn, and Lance Bass. It's a little depressing, but worth the watch. Here's Part 1:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnZoERp-T24&feature=related

[Smallville_Angel]

To start on the darker topic, I recently heard of Tyler Clementi's suicide and was distressed to hear that students at Rutgers seemed to think it appropriate and morally and ethically correct to public humiliate a student based on his sexuality. Do these individuals have no moral compass, nothing inside them that tells them that their behaviour is immoral or illegal? This goes beyond an invasion of privacy. It seems Tyler was a vulnerable young man and they took full advantage of this fact. It is disgusting and actually horrifiying to think that they may only face a sentence of 6 years maximum for such a terrible breach of privacy laws. No individual should ever have to face what Tyler faced. Tyler, may you R.I.P.

More on this topic: Elsewhere in the US, 13 year old Asher Brown fatally shot himself on September 13th after months of bullying in relation to his sexuality. Another 13 year old, Seth Walsh, was taken off life support following a suicide attempt on September 19th. Seth also endured years of bullying, and much like Asher's case, school administration ignored pleas for both his parents and him himself to rectify the issues at hand. This also played a role in the suicide of Billy Lucas, 15, on September 9th. These suicides make me wonder how safe it is for a gay child to be attending school in the US. At least in the latter case, if not also with the earlier two, the school administration knew full well the student (in this instance, Billy Lucas) was gay and yet did not to address the years of torment he faced for having the courage to be true to himself. These young men deserve to be remembered for having such immense courage at such a young age and for standing up for themselves in the face of adversity and never backing down nor denying who they are.

I don't know if any of you ever read any posts made on the Autostraddle website, but might I suggest that you stop by because there's some really insightful and thoughtful posts about these tragic suicides and that of 21 year old Jeanine Blanchette and 17 year old girlfriend Chantal Dube, both of whom took their own lives.
http://www.autostraddle.com/statement-from-chantal-dube-61930/
I encourage you also to read this statement for Chantal's devastated family, as it provides a wonderful insight into the young woman Chantal was.

Moving along now onto a lighter topic, although I welcome further discussion of the aforementioned topic. I could not help but notice the credits of the 'Britney/ Brittany' episode of 'Glee' and saw mention of Cheyenne Jackson. I thought, wow, Jeff's going to love this so much. What did you think Jeff? We're now behind with episodes here due to a two week hiatus, so as of next Wednesday, when 'Grilled Cheesus' will air here, we're 2 weeks behind the US, which is dissapointing in some ways because I loved being 10 hours behind because I could jump online and discuss the stories with you all. The first two episodes of season 2 will re-air here later this week before episode 3 airs, so I'll obviously watch both again, although I'm more excited for episode 1. We'll also fall behind by more than a week with 'The Vampire Diaries' now due to a hiatus next week, which I hate because (no pun intended), I was really sinking my teeth into this season. I hate this time of year because a lot of TV series end for summer season and most programmes tend to slow down. On the plus side, 'Bones' season 6 premieres here on Sunday night. Can anyone say Michaela Conlin perve session? :lol: I'm so happy about that one:p.

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That article was powerful Sheridan. I think kids, teenagers, adults-everyone- throws around what the "signs" of being gay, lesbian, bi, transgender are. If you speak a cetain way or if your voice is too "girly" (if you're a male), you dress a certain way, or you walk a certain way, then you're GLBT. Ignorant people than taunt people such as Asher and Seth, and make these kids feel the burden of something that they may or may not be. They were only 13! Maybe they had some inkling as to if they were gay, but they were barely in highschool!

On a better note, I too am anxious for this week to be over because there is a hiatus of the Vampire Diaries here as well. Also, does anyone watch or has seen Life Unexpected? I think it's a great show and the character Cate, played by Shiri Appleby (Liz from Roswell) is just gorgeous!

[Smallville_Angel]

I happened to come across another article about the suicide of a 19 year old man on Oklahoma whilst reading more on the aforementioned individuals. Earlier this month, Zach Harrington took his own life after bravely sitting through a town council meeting which involved debate of whether or not Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender History month should be recognised as valid. Despite the fact the council voted in favour of this month being valid, Zach endured hearing others conspiracies, including that the homosexual population would infilitrate the school system.
http://perezhilton.com/2010-10-11-gay-teen-zach-harrington-takes-life-after-city-council-debate-regarding-lgbt-history-month
I encourage each of you to read this article.

In addition, I unfortunately also read this following article about the suicide of a 19 year old woman due to pressure in relation to her sexuality:
Aiyisha Hassan, a 19-year-old lesbian one-time Howard University student, died on Tuesday in California of an apparent suicide. Reports coming in says she struggled with her sexuality, though it's unclear whether we're dealing with another bullycide or other factors. "She was having a lot of trouble with a lot of different things," says a Howard senior who lived in the same building as Hassan, "but mainly her sexual identity and just trying to express that." A vigil was held Thursday at Howard, organized through Twitter. Details are few, but we'll share them as more information arrives

In light of both of these articles, as well as all aforementioned suicides, I have been thinking of asking each of you to remember these amazing young individuals. I propose a DAY OF SILENCE in which each of us will not post on this thread for a period of 24 hours. I realise that this involves working out time zones as well as the time differences between here (where I live in Australia) and where each of you live in the US. I thought it might be one way we could, collectively, remember these individuals and honour their memories as well as recognising that unfortunately, and tragically, they had been silenced for having the courage and bravery to stand up for themselves and to be true to themselves. I would therefore appreciate it if each of you could consider this idea and if we're all agreeable, we can then work out the time zones so that we can somehow manage to synchorise our watches so that we're all going without posting here for the same 24 hour period.

I also strongly encourage you to check out the Trevor Project website:
http://www.thetrevorproject.org/
In light of these recent suicides, the AMAZING Chris Cofler has posted a video encouraging those facing problems to contact the Trevor Project. I personally think Chris is doing a wonderful job raising awareness of a topic that so tragically, even in this day and age, is often overlooked if not altogether dismissed. If nothing else, this video will certainly give you a whole new respect for Chris.

Lastly, I came across Dianna Agron's Twitter account (I swear I wasn't stalking her) and I came across a quote that she had posted to her account that I thought might be kind of appropriate to give thought to in relation to this post and all those made recently by my fellow members.
"Understanding is attainable least of all by critique" - Rainer Maria Rilke
Also, Chris does make mention of filming the video for the Trevor Project on his Twitter account. Actually, on a lighter note, if you read through the posts of most of the cast members you can really tell that they're all one little tight knit family. And ironically, both Lea Michele and Jenna Ushkowitz are fans of 'The Vampire Diaries' whilst Nina Dobrev, it seems, is a fan of 'Glee.:lol:

[rooting 4 clark]

First off, LOVE your avi Sheridan! :eyes:

Speaking of a Day Of Silence, my university had a day of silence yesterday. It was from 8 am to 5 pm. Those who participated wore shirts that said "Stop the Oppression and Hate", and also wore a card around their necks with more information about why they could not speak and why silence is an important sign, because it is our voices that hurt others.

[Smallville_Angel]

First off, Heather, eyes off Dianna. She's MINE. :rotfl::p I was searching for photos and came across this one and I was thinking 'that's totally going to be my new avi.' I just had to use it because, drool, what better to look at each time I log in here? (Jeff, where are you? I need the drool cup:rotfl:). I came across so many other gorgeous photos in my search, and I'll share a few because I think amongst the more tragic news we need a little pick me up and what better pick me up is there (for the crazy few of us here:p) then some eye candy. Well, eye candy for Heather and I, at least:p. (Just in case you can't tell, it's totally the eyes in these pics. Those eyes... OMG!:rotfl: She is totally sexy, though. Totally sexy.)

http://batchplease.com/2010/09/dianna-agron-instyle-magazine-october-2010/

One word: WOW! The pic. on the main page - my heart just melted.

Also, it's no longer a rumour. It's confirmed. The Brittany/Santana kiss should air here in Australia in the next few weeks (episode 4, 'Duets'). Has this episode aired in the US yet? I'm also eagerly awaiting episode 5, 'The Rocky Horror Glee Show' and can't wait for the soundtrack to be released here on the 26th. And the season 2 (first soundtrack) is suppose to be released before Christmas here, too, so excited about that as well. :D I'm one super happy Gleek right now.:lol:

That day of silence idea sounds great Heather. Any idea how many students participated? It's great to see that an education institute gets on board with such a thing and that students are willing to participate. Mind you, I'm hoping all teachers were sympathetic otherwise those students would have had one hell of a day in class not being able to speak. I heard of a case where something like this was done in a US high school and one teacher, being homophobic, refused to allow her students to participate and sent those who did to the principal's office with the full intent of having them suspended. Get real!!! They deserve a congratulations and a pat on the back for going a full school day without speaking a single word. I know that would not have been at all easy.

[Smallville_Angel]

Continuing from the last mesage, as I can only post 5 thumbnails to any one post

ENJOY!;)

[RyanE]

So I came out to my best friend. And it went really well he is really okay with it, and it was jut my stupid nerves thinking bad things would happen if I told him.

[rooting 4 clark]

Sheridan, the episode of Glee when Brittany and Santana kiss did air here in the U.S. I have to admit it was pretty hot :P Also, I do not know the number of students who participated in the Day of Silence, but campus was full of people wearing the shirts.


So I came out to my best friend. And it went really well he is really okay with it, and it was jut my stupid nerves thinking bad things would happen if I told him.

Congratulations! I have found that it is scary to come out to the people closest to you then to strangers and overcoming that fear is another step towards feeling more comfortable with yourself.

[Super-Supermanfan]

Everyone wear purple Wednesday in remembrance of the kids committed suicide

[rooting 4 clark]

Everyone wear purple Wednesday in remembrance of the kids committed suicide

I recieved this event on Facebook and I am definetly participating!

[Smallville_Angel]

I don't know why but I'm excited about the Brittany / Santana kiss. I think it's because it's such common knowledge that their relationship isn't based solely on friendship, but it's not too often that TV shows delve into much more beyond mere mention of it.

I'll probably participate too, as long as I remember. May need reminding, so could someone please tell me the date again?

[rooting 4 clark]

The day to wear purple in support of the suicides is on Wednesday, October 20, 2010.

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My college is really gun ho about Tyler Clementi. In two weeks, there will be a screening of "Milk" at my school. The title character is played by Sean Penn, and also stars James Franco. Prior to this, wristbands will be on sale and all proceeds will go to the Tyler Clementi Foundation. They are rainbow-colored and have the message "It Get's Better" on them. I am proud that my school is taking initiative.

[RyanE]

^^ Your school sounds awesome. I'm really glad that there are places in our country that do stuff like this. :)

[Smallville_Angel]

'The Rocky Horror Glee Show' aired here mid last week. The episode was nothing short of AMAZING, although I've little doubt that you all know I was simply revelling in the fact that Dianna Agron finally got the attention she deserves (and as much as I think Lea Michele is talented, it's time that someone else got a chance seeing as she takes the solos week after week). I loved the 'Time Warp', and must admit to literally getting a case of the shivers when Dianna belted out her first line:rotfl:. Yes, no need to say it, I am terrible! I am now awaiting the release of the Christmas album (and am feeling that I will be getting into the spirit somewhat early this year). Also, the Brittany / Santana kiss, was, in my opinion a let down in light of the fact Santana just had to say that she needed the 'action' because of the fact Puck wasn't around. When the hell are those two going to admit that their messing around could well be something more? Maybe it's me, but it's clear there's a certain chemistry there.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5t3CWk6dSdE
Also, I swear I was not perving on Dianna. Yeah, who I am kidding? I totally was!:rotfl::lol::rotfl:

[rooting 4 clark]

Last night's Glee was very moving. Not only did it address homosexuality and brought to light bullying, but it spoke about how everyone, male or female gets bullied and made fun of. I won't post any spoilers, because I know it hasn't aired for you yet Sheridan, but there is one moment in the episode that will make your eyes pop out of your head! That's all I will say until you see the episode.

[JB1986]

Sorry, I've been away for so long. I really didn't mean to be gone that long. Anyway, I'm gonna throw myself back in the loop, and say I loved the "Glee" episode about bullying. I think it may be one of the, if not THE best episode. Even though Blaine has only been around for only two episodes, he's one of my favorite characters already. I'm listening to Darren Criss' version of "Teenage Dream" right now. :) And it was nice to have some of the focus off of Finn and Rachel (I love them and all, but I like Kurt and Blaine more. :D) I think I find Darren Criss hotter than Matthew Morrison even (and I still want him bad.) Chord Overstreet is getting all the attention on some of the sites I visit, but it's Darren Criss all the way for me. And yes, one scene in the episode did surprise me, but I won't say which one. And oh yeah...

http://screencrave.frsucrave.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/darren-criss-glee-15-11-10-kc.jpg

:D

[RyanE]

^^ I watched the episode about bullying, and while I have huge problems with it as a story, I agree that as an acting thing Chris Colfer (Kurt's actor) did a fantastic job. I and do enjoy Blaine, their is a lot of easy-going and comfortable-ness that is going on with him that I do like.

That being said, his school is ridiculously PC. Maybe I am being cynical here, but a school like that just couldn't exist in the real world. :( Also I wasn't crazy about the bully being a gay homophobic/bully guy. But I did like that his issues are not going to get resolved anytime soon. That is kind of what happens in real life and it is good to show that to the audience.

And one more thing, Blaine is adorable. :D :D

[MannaBanana]

^^ I watched the episode about bullying, and while I have huge problems with it as a story, I agree that as an acting thing Chris Colfer (Kurt's actor) did a fantastic job. I and do enjoy Blaine, their is a lot of easy-going and comfortable-ness that is going on with him that I do like.

That being said, his school is ridiculously PC. Maybe I am being cynical here, but a school like that just couldn't exist in the real world. :( Also I wasn't crazy about the bully being a gay homophobic/bully guy. But I did like that his issues are not going to get resolved anytime soon. That is kind of what happens in real life and it is good to show that to the audience.

And one more thing, Blaine is adorable. :D :D
How come? Its a pretty common story line, and a pretty common problem as well. Some people have such a hard time coming out they take it out on the gay people who are out as a way of punishing themselves. Im enjoying the storyline.

And your right, this whole show is very stereotypical. Nothing was like this when I was in school. But its a way they can tackle issues, so im happy with it.

[RyanE]

How come? Its a pretty common story line, and a pretty common problem as well. Some people have such a hard time coming out they take it out on the gay people who are out as a way of punishing themselves. I'm enjoying the storyline.

And your right, this whole show is very stereotypical. Nothing was like this when I was in school. But its a way they can tackle issues, so im happy with it.

It wasn't the bullying I have issue with. Given what has happened, we need to address that more than ever. But for me the bully being a closeted homophobe jerk, was something that I have seen a lot. And you are right the show is a bit stereotypical (for everyone really), but they do tackle issues.

Also maybe this is me, but I kind of like Blaine a little bit better than Kurt, in terms of character. I think the writers are using that character as mouthpiece for the show. Not that it is a bad thing (issues that need to be addressed), but I feel like I don't really know much about Kurt, and that makes him feel less real to me. Where as Blaine, I don't know anything about him, but he feels a bit more real than Kurt does right now.

Still I am glad this show is around, because it is a fun show to watch.

[abbaspice1]

Hi everyone!

As far as the privae school being PC--they do exist. But they are usually private. It seems that a number of privae schools go to the extremes-- the are very PC or very anti-everything but those who are like me (in my state, they ae know as private, conservative protestant schools).

Of the two, I would rather go to a private PC school. Even though I am Christian, I can't stand most of the Private Right-Wing schools here in NC.

[Smallville_Angel]

JEFF!!! I've missed you and your craziness! :p It does not really surprise me that you are going a bit ga-ga over Darren Criss. Dare I say I kind of am too? I think it's time for Kurt to have a love interest and Blaine is such a sweet person. I am currently thinking I might get back into writing in my journey diary, when I began way back when I first started thinking I was bisexual. I want to run with the whole 'courage' idea that Blaine introduced to Kurt because I found that really inspirational and cute;). Talking of 'Glee', I am listening to the new soundtrack (volume 4), thankful to be alone so I can swoon over Dianna's voice. I swear I am in love with that girl!:rotfl: Her voice on 'Lucky'; I'd do almost anything to have been in Chord Overstreet's position in that scene. That scene and those in which Sam kisses Quinn (how I'd love to kiss her;)). I'm now listening to 'Marry You' and swooning!

Asides from the fact I've made it too obvious I am in love with Dianna, I actually feel really comfortable with my sexuality right now and have developed strong feelings for this girl. Pity she does not feel the same way about me. Would it be totally pathetic to say that right now I am listening to 'Just The Way You Are' and thinking of her?:\ I honestly do disgust and worry myself sometimes:p.

Hope you all had an amazing Christmas, too. Belated Merry Christmas to you all.

[rooting 4 clark]

I also picked up Glee: Volume 4 and I too am in love with it Sheridan! :)

I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas and got everything they wanted.

Also, did everyone hear about Don't Ask Don't Tell being repealed?! I was over the moon when I heard about it!

[Smallville_Angel]

I did hear about 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' being repealed, and pardon my complete ignorance for asking, but could someone please explain exactly what the 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' ruling is anyway? I have some knowledge of it, but not really enough to understand how is affects individuals serving in the US Armed Forces. I guess not having such laws here in Australia I am unaware of how such things work there in the US.

[jon-el87]

I did hear about 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' being repealed, and pardon my complete ignorance for asking, but could someone please explain exactly what the 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' ruling is anyway? I have some knowledge of it, but not really enough to understand how is affects individuals serving in the US Armed Forces. I guess not having such laws here in Australia I am unaware of how such things work there in the US.

Have you ever seen Stripes? In the recruitment office scene, the two main characters are asked by the recruiter, if either one of them is homosexual? Which was a standard question, at the time. When the Clintonadministration came into the White House, they wanted to remove this, making it possible for homosexuals to serve (openly), in the U.S. military. But, congress overrode them. And "Don't ask, Don't tell", became an eventual compromise. Recruiters were no longer allowed to ask recruits, if they were homosexual (Don't ask). But, at the same time, gay servicemembers weren't allowed to be open, with their sexuality (Don't tell). So, if their sexuality were made public, they'd be given a dishonorable discharge (making the whole thing, an empty victory, really).

[Smallville_Angel]

Have you ever seen Stripes? In the recruitment office scene, the two main characters are asked by the recruiter, if either one of them is homosexual? Which was a standard question, at the time. When the Clintonadministration came into the White House, they wanted to remove this, making it possible for homosexuals to serve (openly), in the U.S. military. But, congress overrode them. And "Don't ask, Don't tell", became an eventual compromise. Recruiters were no longer allowed to ask recruits, if they were homosexual (Don't ask). But, at the same time, gay servicemembers weren't allowed to be open, with their sexuality (Don't tell). So, if their sexuality were made public, they'd be given a dishonorable discharge (making the whole thing, an empty victory, really).

Thanks so much for that insight John. I must admit I feel a little stupid not knowing, but being an Australian citizen living in Australia, I really have very little knowledge of Don't Ask, Don't Tell. I think it is absolutely disgusting that gay service members were not able to open about their sexuality; since when has an individual's sexual orientation affected the way they have strived to protect their country and its citizens? I truly believe that it does not matter if you're gay, you still have a right to defend and protect without having to lie about who you are. Denying that part of your identity can be painful and I can only imagine how some service members must have felt not be permitted to be completely honest about how they are. Yes, it does not affect the way one serves, but should one have to lie about how they are simply to appease the government and the armed services themselves?

Also, did anyone else hear about Elton John and his partner becoming parents to a baby boy on Christmas Day? Talk about a well kept secret.

[RyanE]

Have you ever seen Stripes? In the recruitment office scene, the two main characters are asked by the recruiter, if either one of them is homosexual? Which was a standard question, at the time. When the Clinton-administration came into the White House, they wanted to remove this, making it possible for homosexuals to serve (openly), in the U.S. military. But, congress overrode them. And "Don't ask, Don't tell", became an eventual compromise. Recruiters were no longer allowed to ask recruits, if they were homosexual (Don't ask). But, at the same time, gay service members weren't allowed to be open, with their sexuality (Don't tell). So, if their sexuality were made public, they'd be given a dishonorable discharge (making the whole thing, an empty victory, really).

Not allowing gay people to serve (openly or not) has been with the Army, to the best of my knowledge, since World War II. In the 60's if a draftee wanted to dodge getting into the Vietnam war they could say that they were gay, and sometimes (not always) that would get them out of serving.

As far as DADT goes, the opposition says that turning over the ban would undermine the troops' morale and fighting cohesion. Which is BS! And it is pretty much the same argument that was used when the army became segregated back in 1947, and when women were allowed to serve in the 70's or 80's (not sure when).

My opinion on it is, why do we even have the ban in the first place? For me being gay means that I can tell whoever I want (btw I AM GAY!!! :) ) and they can judge me however they want. So why does the Army care who I sleep with? Shouldn't they be more worried about how I fight bad guys? And the same would go for the other guys in my unit. Who btw, I am sure are more worried about killing the bad guys than who tier buddy is sleeping with.

Anyway, that is my rant. :)

Hope everybody had a great holiday!

[rooting 4 clark]

The DADT is supposed to take about a year to fully be in effect so let's see how that goes.

Also, Sheridan, that is a well kept secret! Congrat to Elton and his partner! :D

[Smallville_Angel]

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Welcome to 2011. Hope that 2011 is a wonderful year for you all full of great memories and even more craziness around here than 2010 brought. Looking forward to another insane year with yuo all:rotfl::p

[Smallville_Angel]

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Welcome to 2011. Hope that 2011 is a wonderful year for you all full of great memories and even more craziness around here than 2010 brought. Looking forward to another insane year with you all:rotfl::p

It's the new year and you've all disappeared! Where are you guys? I miss you! C'mon, we've got another year of insanity ahead of us and I can't keep this party going without you guys (and some new faces):lol::D. So how shall we kick off the new year around here? You all know what I propose (can anyone say celebrity crushes:rotfl::p), but what is on your mind right now?

[RyanE]

^^ Celebrity crushes could be fun. And the only excuse I have for not being on here is school. Which is starting to kick my butt with all of this assignments. Lol.

[rooting 4 clark]

I have just been catching up with friends and cathcing up on sleep lol My winter break comes to a close tomorrow and I will be moving back to my dorm on Friday. I am excited to get back to classes and see my friends though.

Besides crushes, Jane Lynch and Chris Colfer pciked up Golden Globes and Annette Benning picked up a Globe for her role as a lesbian mom in the movie "The Kids are Alright". Great movie!

[RyanE]

^^ I haven't seen that yet. I've heard very mixed things on it, so I think I'll wait a bit. Also the Globes this year kind of stunk. Ricky Gervais was an okay host, but a lot of his jokes were pretty mean-spirited. It is one think to make a mean-ish joke in fun, if the person is in on it, but it is another to make one that just knocks people down.

As far as celebrity crushes go, I am totally into Joesph Gordon Levitt right now. He was in Inception. He played the character of Arthur. He has been a bunch of films and television shows, plus he is a great actor as well.

[rooting 4 clark]

I have yet to see Inception. I heard it really screws with your head lol. Also, the GLADD awards are coming up. Glee, True Blood and United Staes of Tara were nominated.

[RyanE]

^^ Not too much, just pay attention and you will be fine. :)

As for Glee, on the new Entertainment Weekly there is a huge article about gay teenagers which left me a bit mixed. On one hand I am happy there are gay teens in all forms of media, but on the other I'm kind of annoyed by it. Mainly because it seems to be that article made a deal about them being gay, rather than being people/characters/etc first.

Yes, I am gay, but that is not the only thing that I have going on. A lot of news media only seem to focus on that though, both in real life and with television shows.

Sorry if it seems a bit ranty.

[Smallville_Angel]

Did anyone else happen to see the red carpet fashion at the SAG (Screen Actors Guild) Awards yesterday? If so, did we see the girls from Glee? Wow, don't they scrub up well? I, naturally, had my eyes primarily on a certain stunning blonde who looked sexy as hell, but all the girls looked so gorgeous. Lea Michele is just lucky she didn't lose her jewellery during the night, because Tiffany & Co. would have had her dead had she misplaced the stunning diamonds she was wearing (worth approx. $1 million U.S.).

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1352103/SAG-Awards-2011-Glees-Lea-Michele-Dianna-Agron-Heather-Morris-red-carpet.html?ito=feeds-newsxml

Also, last night all new episodes of Glee launched here following Summer hiatus period. We began where we left off (part way through season 2) with episode 9, 'Special Education'. Boy, was I in for a treat:rotfl:. Stuff Quinn and Sam getting all lovey-dovey during their performance of '(I've Had) The Time Of My Life'. Was it just me or did Quinn look spectacular under that lighting?!:p Just a thought for writers and producers: we need more of that! Anyone time I can sit there and be totally transfixed with the beauty that is Dianna Agron, you certainly won't be getting any complaints out of this fan:lol:.Now I am eagerly awaiting 'A Very Glee Christmas' next Monday night because I cannot wait to see Kurt and Blaine duet on 'Baby, It's Cold Outside' (I want to see a little flirting between those two... it's clear Kurt is totally sweet on Blaine!). Plus, with Christmas over, I guess a little Christmas spirit a few weeks late wouldn't go astray (I'm still listening to the Glee Christmas album, too).

[rooting 4 clark]

I'm glad your Glee hiatus is over Sheridan. We're on hiatus here until February 6th when Glee will have a special episode after the Superbowl.

[Smallville_Angel]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Wtkmz1SW5L8

I just died and went to Heaven! That song will never be the same after having heard the amazing vocals of Dianna Agron. I watched a bit of 'Dirty Dancing' last night and let's just say the entire time my mind was on this moment:rotfl:

Anyway, hope you are all geared up for 'The Sue Sylvester Shuffle'. 'A Very Glee Christmas' airs here tonight, and I'm so happy that we're back to routine, a mere one episode behind the U.S. now. I am also eagerly awaiting March 30th, which is the expected release date of season 2, part 1 here in region 4 (featuring the first 10 episodes of the season, so all episodes from 'Silly Love Songs' and beyond will be on part 2). I feel so sorry for you guys, having had 'Glee' out for two months - we were lucky that because we feel so far behind you all in the US, it was only out for about 5 - 6 weeks before the rest of season 2 premiered.

I also believe that Dianna Agron made an appearance on the 'Tonight Show' a few nights ago. If anyone could give me a link to this footage (Youtube has now decided to crash on me :( - argh, I hate technology sometimes), that would be wonderful. I'll send you a big virtual hug and kiss for doing so:lol:.

[rooting 4 clark]

Glee had a special episode premiere after the Superbowl here in the U.S. The main musical number was fantastic!!!

On another note, it has been confirmned that Anne Hathaway will play Kurt's lesbian auntg on Glee. Now, that's an episode I'm dying to see! It still amazes ne how this show shines light on the many problems facing teens and young adults today, such as obseity, "coming out", etc.

[JB1986]

Okay, okay, I've been away away for far too long. I loved the "Glee" superbowl episode. I wouldn't be caught dead watching the Superbowl, but I saw the last few minutes of it so I wouldn't miss "Glee." I was thrilled Chris Colfer won the Golden Globe. He really does deserve it, he's the heart of the show in my opinion. And Anne Hathaway as Kurt's aunt? Awesome! She's one of my favorite actresses. I love her, she's so cool, and a big advocate for gay rights. Can't wait for that! I was also thrilled Natalie Portman won for "Black Swan." If you guys haven't seen "Black Swan" yet, I highly recommend it. It is such an amazing film. One of my new favorites. Natalie Portman's performance is flawless. I also loved "Inception." That movie was amazing as well. I'm hoping "Toy Story 3" wins Best Picture, but I'd be thrilled if either "Black Swan" or "Inception" won as well. :)

And I'm thrilled DADT was repealed. It's about darn time.

Has anyone seen the "Teddy's gay" storyline on the new "90210?" I admit, I don't watch the show (I've recently fallen in love with the first four seasons of the original "Beverly Hills, 90210") but I caught this storyline on Youtube. I like the way they did the story. And Trevor Donovan who plays Teddy is just gorgeous. His lips look very kissable.... Okay, I need a 7-11 Big Gulp drool cup, LOL. :p Anyway, here's part 1 (the rest are on Youtube.) Teddy starts off as somewhat mean and scared, but he comes around. :) :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMBHAQ3hC0s

Oh, and here's Trevor Donovan (I'm bad I know, but I can't help myself. I have eyes, after all :D) :

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3508/3963323986_25903c3469_o.jpg

[rooting 4 clark]

I don't follow 90210 or the original one, but my friend is obsessed and had always hoped they would have Teddy come out. My friend sure got his wish. But I must say, he sure is a looker ;)

I saw Black Swan and it was brilliant! I will definetly be buying that on DVD.

I loved the Valentine's Day themed episode of Glee last night! I won't spoil it for anyone who hasn't seen it, but I would feel so special if the Blaine and the rest of the Warblers(spelling?) performed at a certain place for me.

[JB1986]

I admit, I've only watched Teddy's story on "90210." I have no idea what the heck else is going on. :lol: And I can't help myself, Trevor Donovan is gorgeous. :p

I liked the Valentine's Day episode of "Glee." Blaine and the warblers can come visit me at my job and sing whenever they want. I can understand Kurt not being big on Valentine's Day, though. I don't really like it, either. I know I'd feel different if I weren't single. Oh well. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

The thing I like most about V-Day is that after February 14th, all the chocolate goes on sale ;) :lol:

[jon-el87]

^^ Not too much, just pay attention and you will be fine. :)

As for Glee, on the new Entertainment Weekly there is a huge article about gay teenagers which left me a bit mixed. On one hand I am happy there are gay teens in all forms of media, but on the other I'm kind of annoyed by it. Mainly because it seems to be that article made a deal about them being gay, rather than being people/characters/etc first.

Yes, I am gay, but that is not the only thing that I have going on. A lot of news media only seem to focus on that though, both in real life and with television shows.

Sorry if it seems a bit ranty.

Yeah, I remember an interview with Scissor Sisters, a few years ago, on swedish television. It was like 15-20 minutes long and all the interviewer asked, was about the members sexuality. Isn't there more important questions to ask? Like: How did you all meet? What got you interested in music? And questions about their journey, in the music industry?

[JB1986]

Yeah, I remember an interview with Scissor Sisters, a few years ago, on swedish television. It was like 15-20 minutes long and all the interviewer asked, was about the members sexuality. Isn't there more important questions to ask? Like: How did you all meet? What got you interested in music? And questions about their journey, in the music industry?

Yeah, I agree with this. If an actor or musician is gay, it seems to be that's all they're seen as. Whatever their talent is comes behind them being GAY. It is kind of annoying. I'm sure there are exceptions to this of course, but they're few and far between. But I do love the Scissor Sisters. Jake Shears' voice is so different and distinct.

Heather, I also love discounted candy too. I'm thinking of possibly watching a nice violent slasher movie on Valentine's Day, like "The Texas Chainsaw Massacre" or something, LOL. Now there's a plan! :rotfl::rotfl:

[rooting 4 clark]

Heather, I also love discounted candy too. I'm thinking of possibly watching a nice violent slasher movie on Valentine's Day, like "The Texas Chainsaw Massacre" or something, LOL. Now there's a plan! :rotfl::rotfl:

LOL! Maybe I'll watch "My Bloody Valentine" :rotfl: :rotfl:

[JB1986]

LOL! Maybe I'll watch "My Bloody Valentine" :rotfl: :rotfl:

Excellent! Sounds like a plan to me. :lol:

[jon-el87]

Happy Valentine's Day!

[rooting 4 clark]

Happy Valentine's Day everyone! If you do not have a husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend, then remember that your valentine can be another loved one....or your valentine could be a box of chocolate :lol:

[JB1986]

Happy belated Valentine's Day. My valentine was a seafood dinner, and a snack of Jalepeno chips before bedtime. At least I didn't spend the whole day moping (I only did that for the first few hours.) :lol:

[rooting 4 clark]

I spent Valentine's Day playing practical jokes on my friends LOL!

[jon-el87]

Watched the QX gala last night. Joel Burns was given an honorary award, for the "It gets better" campain and he told a very touching story, about what happened after it got started: He recieved a letter, that was what was left of a suicide note and on it, it said that it was all that was left of a suicice note, that the sender had intended to leave for his or her (gender wasn't given) roomate, before commiting suicide. But, after having seen Joel's Youtube video, had decided not to go through with it and was going to keep on living.

I started to cry, when I heard this. Hopefully, there are and will be more of this kind of stories, that have got such a happy ending to them.

[rooting 4 clark]

Watched the QX gala last night. Joel Burns was given an honorary award, for the "It gets better" campain and he told a very touching story, about what happened after it got started: He recieved a letter, that was what was left of a suicide note and on it, it said that it was all that was left of a suicice note, that the sender had intended to leave for his or her (gender wasn't given) roomate, before commiting suicide. But, after having seen Joel's Youtube video, had decided not to go through with it and was going to keep on living.

I started to cry, when I heard this. Hopefully, there are and will be more of this kind of stories, that have got such a happy ending to them.

That campaign was great and helped a lot of people. It made me happy to see celebrities get involved and help some people come back to life.

[JB1986]

I love that campaign too. Alot of the videos were really good, and really touching. I for one am so glad this campaign has been so successful, and I hope it has reached those who need help.

Did anybody see Tuesday night's "Glee" episode? Honestly, I was kinda "meh" about it. There was some hoopla online about <SPOILERS AHEAD> Blaine kissing Rachel, and questioning himself. The story was okay I guess, but Kurt, Blaine, and especially Rachel came off somewhat poorly in this episode. Kurt's views on bisexuality were of course wrong and a little bit offensive, but Blaine questioning himself felt a little forced in my opinion. But I wanted to smack Rachel. She knows Kurt likes Blaine, yet goes after him anyway?! If one of my friends did that, there would be trouble. Oh well, at least the always awesome Brittany did a good job with Ke$ha's "Tick Tok." What do you all think?

[rooting 4 clark]

I agree Jeff. Blaine thinking he was bisexual and wanting to experiment was a curveball that was more random than plot worthy. I was a bit dissapointed in Kurt for criticizing Blaine though. As a bisexual, some days I feel I'm more attracted to guys than girls, but at the end of the day there is no denying that I am attracted to both and have been in relationships with both. On another note, Rachel going after Blaine was a bit weird and harsh because her and Kurt have this new friendship. In the end, "Blame It" and" Tick Tok" were good performances. Speaking of "Tick Tok", Ke$ha's Get Sleazy tour will make a stop at my University in April. The concert was sold out within 3 days, when ticket sales were supposed to last for about 3 maybe 4 weeks.

[JB1986]

I also hated Kurt's comments on bisexuality. I know alot of gay people feel that way about it (and yeah, I did the claiming to be bisexual thing too. In my defense, I was really confused and a little bit scared at the time. I do apologize. :( ) But I hate the whole "bisexuality doesn't exist" argument. Of course it does. Hell, everytime I watch "Buffy The Vampire Slayer" even *I* marvel at Sarah Michelle Gellar's beauty. I kinda consider myself to be 97% gay, and around 3% straight. Totally gay, but I can't lie when I find a woman beautiful. I don't get the whole "pick a side" thing. Sigh, it's so irritating. Everybody is different. Can't we just accept each other and all get along? :)

Anyway, I hate being critical of "Glee." I LOVE the show, but some episodes I just don't like. "Brittany/Britney" was terrible (except for Brittany, of course. I swear she saves even the worst episode. I love her. :) ) "Rocky Horror Glee Show" was okay I guess, but far from great. And "Blame It On The Alcohol" was terrible. But on the flipside, I loved "A Very Glee Christmas," (again because of Brittany), "The Sue Sylvester Shuffle" (Sue's drawing of the cannon saying it misses Brittany is hysterical) and "Never Been Kissed" is the best episode of the entire series in my opinion. Am I being too critical? :confused:

Over in "90210" land, my dear sweet adorable and gorgeous Teddy didn't get much screen time this week. But his friends taking him to a gay bar was kind of fun. I can't wait for him to start dating his new hot boyfriend. Hopefully this will happen soon. If they could drop the other boring stories from the episodes and focus on Teddy, I'd be a happy camper. :)

Just one more thing and I'l wrap-up this novel I seem to be writing here. :lol: Lately whenever I read something in the news about gay rights being taken away, or discrimination and what not, I can't help but get depressed. Seriously, I've just been trying to avoid hearing anything bad for awhile now. Like they're trying to ban gay marriage in Iowa, which sucks. I'm happy being gay,and I hate reading about people who are against it. I know I can't realistically hide from the news, but I don't need to depress myself everyday. It just depresses me. Am I alone here? It's just been bothering me.

[jon-el87]

This is just sick. In Sweden a six year old boy, was recently stabbed, because he wore a pink T-shirt (thankfully he survived). He had apparently been bullied, called a girl and homo, because the color of his clothes and because he took ballet lessons.

[rooting 4 clark]

I also get a bit down whenever I read, see or hear about anti-GLBT news, Jeff. I just do not understand how people can be so rude and blind. I actually thought that apart from the Brittany music numbers that "Britney/Brittany" was not the best epiosde of Glee.

I couldn't agree more about the six year old boy in Sweden. That is sick and terrible. It's just a color, and many males take ballet and are heterosexual. It is people such as these in Sweden that are truly ignorant.

[JB1986]

This is just sick. In Sweden a six year old boy, was recently stabbed, because he wore a pink T-shirt (thankfully he survived). He had apparently been bullied, called a girl and homo, because the color of his clothes and because he took ballet lessons.

That poor kid. I really hate people sometimes. I hope he's doing okay. :(

[Smallville_Angel]

'Blame It On The Alcohol' airs here tonight, although I had heard previously that Kurt's views on bisexuality were offensive and controversial. I find it hard to believe that a programme such as 'Glee' would allow the airing of such views given have forward it has been with the issue of Kurt's sexuality, and to a lesser extent, the flirtation between Santana and Brittany. That said, I hope that such views do not offend too many people, although having not be privy to any clips from this episode (I avoid spoilers as much as I can), I am hoping that such views will not see my respect for Kurt as a character fly out the window. That said, I am personally hoping to see Kurt slap Rachel across the face for going after the man he has feelings for. Drunk or not, Rachel's character is being diminished in my opinion by the fact that she is becoming much too inclined to stuff around with a guy's feelings (hello Santana:lol:) and swear blind she's in love when by the next episode, she's totally forgotten the guy and is crushing on someone totally new. Thank God Mercedes saves the show in that way - I love that she is an independent, sassy woman who manages to not only survive without a guy in her life, but will not allow any guy to treat her like crap. She's actually the saving grace in that way, because let's face it: Rachel allows herself to be treated like crap, then for some stupid, immature reason hooks up with Puck and then wants Finn back. Quinn cheats on Finn and then on Sam (I'm beginning to like Quinn less and less). Santana is a man eater, pure and simple, Brittany is secure in her relationship with Artie, but she's already had flings with countless members of the football team. Tina's so OTT in love with Mike it's sickening (did anyone else cringe during her performance of 'My Funny Valentine'? I couldn't help but do so!). I feel kind of sad that Glee is portraying a whole group of truly insecure teenage girls, some of whom feel the need to validate themselves through their relationships with the opposite sex; perhaps I'm too old fashioned on the topic, but IMO, that's hardly a good role model.

Anyway, moving off the Glee chatter and onto something much more positive I just had to share with you all. I don't know if this story has been raised by the US media, although I must say I'd be disappointed if it didn't get a look in. On January 3rd, Brisbane (the capital city of the state of Queensland, for those of you wondering) couple Rosemary Nolan and Melissa Keevers welcomed quintuplets. The couple already have one daughter, aged 2, and will be given assistance to raise their children as obviously, with 6 kids under 2, they'll have their hands full. I just think it's pretty amazing that a lesbian couple has not only been permitted to use artificial insemination, but that 5 precious little lives came from that gift. The quintuplets were born at 27 weeks and 4 days, each weighing less than 1 kilogram (approximately 2.20 pounds), but each is healthy, happy and both mums are overjoyed. Such a happy story:D.

Well, 'Blame It On The Alcohol' finished about 10 minutes ago, and I must said, as sad it is it to admit it, I agree with the majority. This episode was nothing if not weak and yes, I feel as though it had little story in relation to New Directions journey towards Regionals. O.K., the episode was meant to have a message behind it, but frankly, can I say that Quinn's sexiness took a major hit in my eyes, a drunk Rachel is nothing but pathetic and indeed, in Finn's words, and Blaine questioning his sexuality, well, I kind of understand why Kurt hit out at him. That said, I don't agree with Kurt's comments on bisexuality and could begin a whole rant on that, but then you'd be here all day reading what I had to say. I don't know what on earth is happening, but does anyone else feel that our favourite show is taking a major hit here with tacky storylines, crazed plots and "filler" episodes scattered left, right and centre through out this season?

[JB1986]

Anyway, moving off the Glee chatter and onto something much more positive I just had to share with you all. I don't know if this story has been raised by the US media, although I must say I'd be disappointed if it didn't get a look in. On January 3rd, Brisbane (the capital city of the state of Queensland, for those of you wondering) couple Rosemary Nolan and Melissa Keevers welcomed quintuplets. The couple already have one daughter, aged 2, and will be given assistance to raise their children as obviously, with 6 kids under 2, they'll have their hands full. I just think it's pretty amazing that a lesbian couple has not only been permitted to use artificial insemination, but that 5 precious little lives came from that gift. The quintuplets were born at 27 weeks and 4 days, each weighing less than 1 kilogram (approximately 2.20 pounds), but each is healthy, happy and both mums are overjoyed. Such a happy story:D.

I haven't heard about that yet. Then again, I haven't been paying much attention to the news lately. I know ignorance isn't bliss and whatnot, but like I said a few weeks ago, it's so depressing. But wow, that's the kind of news I like to hear. Good for them! I wish their family nothing but happiness. :)

We completely agree on "Blame It On The Alcohol." I get the "alcohol is bad" message and all, but I've seen that storyline done several times before on other teen shows, and many times done a million times better. And I agree, I think they're going a little too far with "out there" storylines and filler episodes this season. It kills me to say this, but even Sue Sylvester is getting to be a little much. I still like the character, but some development wouldn't hurt. They have a killer Kurt storyline, (even though I still want to smack him on the head for his comments on bisexuality) and it's being wasted on too many other boring filler storylines. Personally, I don't care anymore about Sam/Quinn, Rachel/Finn, and if they're cheating on anyone this week. Blaine, Kurt (if they can repair them this week after the previous episode's debacle), and Brittany are the best characters on the show right now. I still love the show, I just hope they can get it back on track in the upcoming episodes. Oh well, at least I still have my darling Teddy on "90210" (or sex on a stick as I call him :rotfl:) to help fill the void. I don't care a whole lot about the other storylines on that show, but the Teddy storyline is just wonderful. :)

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Sheridan that is great news! I;m glad thats these women are allowed to bring children into this world, no matter what their sexual orientation is.

Also, the Glee episode "Sexy" aired here on Tuesday. I thought it was a good episode. I don't want to post spoilers, but I actually felt bad for Santana in this episode. I really want to see how this Santanna plotline flows throughout the rest of the season. The teachings on sexual education, romance and love was a big factor that made several characters think about where they stand in their lives right now.

[JB1986]

I really loved the "Sexy" episode. Everything that they did wrong in the last episode they did right in this one. There was a positive message in this episode, and they did it justice I think. Wow, I did not see the Santana storyline coming, but it was terrific. I actually felt bad for her at the end of the episode. I'm really looking forward to seeing where they take her character the rest of the season. And I loved Burt's sex talk with Kurt. I guess I'm like Kurt a little bit. I like romance, and I don't want to have sex just to have it, you know. Maybe that makes me weird, but then again I'm weird anyway. I'd personally rather have sex with the right guy, not just any guy. I'm surprised this episode made me think too. I loved the performance of "Landslide," and the Celibacy Club performing "Afternoon Delight" cracked me up. The person I was watching that part with looked at me like I was crazy. I had to explain that it's the Celibacy Club singing a song about having sex in the afternoon. That's comedy gold. :rotfl:

[Smallville_Angel]

"Sexy" finished airing here in Australia about an hour ago. Whilst I will admit to feeling that the majority of the story was second rate, I will admit to sitting there, biting my lower lip during Santana's more vulnerable moments for fear a tear might trickle down my cheek. You've all heard my harsh words about Santana, and you all know I cannot stand her as a character, but now, I can see myself softening to her because that vulnerability, the raw emotion she conveyed to both Brittany and Holly was heart breaking insofar as it is clear that she is one very confused and scared young woman, and yes, I think she might have a point when she said she was a ***** because she had all these feelings she couldn't express. I found the performance of 'Landslide' to be rather moving - poor Santana sitting there with tears forming in her eyes, that sad look on her face (I'll admit it: I teared up rewatching it on Youtube).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K0N29AjQz2o

I hope that this story continues through because I would be very disappointed to see it end so abruptly, especially after we were introduced to this vulnerable, hurting girl who is begging for answers and only wanting to be loved. I guess you could say the story struck a chord with me, having been the sexually confused teenager at Santana's age, being terrified of what people might think and say behind my back if I had the courage to be honest with myself.

"Wow. Whoever thought that being fluid meant you could be so stuck" - damn, did that line hit home for me. I must applaud Naya Rivera one a flawless performance, though. She really did bring to life the panic, the fear, the anxiety, the tears that come with questioning your sexuality and finding answers, whether they be the answers you're looking for or ones that leave you hurting more than ever. And this made me question: why is it we need to 'come out' when we're simply trying to be honest with ourselves? Why is it that we, are homosexuals and bisexuals, are open to such vulnerability and raw emotion in our "journey" and our exploration when those of us who are heterosexual are accepted, without question and without such exposure to hurt and pain? I thought we might be able to discuss because this episode certainly made me curious about such things.

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And this made me question: why is it we need to 'come out' when we're simply trying to be honest with ourselves? Why is it that we, are homosexuals and bisexuals, are open to such vulnerability and raw emotion in our "journey" and our exploration when those of us who are heterosexual are accepted, without question and without such exposure to hurt and pain? I thought we might be able to discuss because this episode certainly made me curious about such things.

It just has to do with people not willing to acccept that being bisexual or homosexual is natural. Heterosexual people never have to say "Mom, Dad, I'm straight and this is my boyfriend/girlfriend." On this topic, I will reveal to you all that I have been seeing someone for about 3 months. She has never been with a girl, but she does not define herself by labels. Rather she defines herself by the person she loves. She said she does not know if she can call herself a lesbian, because she is still attracted to men, but she said she does not know if she is bisexual. All she knows is that she loves me and has never felt this way about a man, but she cannot tell her parents about us, because they do not approve of homosexuality or bisexuality. For her to do that would cause her to have her own Santana moment. So, I repeat your question Sheridan: why do homosexuals or bisexuals or people who just happen to fall in love with their own sex have to have emotional and vulneral journeys?

[JB1986]

Wow, that's a really good question. It may have something to with that heterosexuality is very much considered the norm. And let's face it, from birth we are assumed to be straight. Our parents usually make big life plans for us that usually involve getting married to someone of the opposite sex and having kids. Many of us unfortunately are raised to believe that being gay is wrong for whatever reason, whether it be that it's "gross," or that it's against someone's religion. Along the way, we realize that we might like members of the same sex. And for alot of people it's scary. I personally very much liked the feeling I got when I looked at other guys, but it sure as heck was scary as well. The only thing I knew was that I felt I had to keep it a secret, and I was pretty ashamed of it. Plus it was hard to not be like "well, I'm already kind of an outcast. I'm really socially awkward and weird, but lets just add on liking guys. Sheesh. :( "

Sorry, I got off track. I think the journey has alot to do with parental & social pressure, mixed in with fear when we go against what's considered the norm. Frankly it sucks. It sucks that at a time when getting your first crush, and that rush of "special feelings" should be exciting, and for many homosexuals and bisexuals it's not. It sucks that you have to risk having everybody you love hate you. It sucks that most everyone else doesn't have to say "I'm gay, and this is my boy/girlfriend" and worry about what everyone is thinking about them. It sucks having to worry about getting beat up for being gay/bi. I can't really come up with anything more eloquent than "it sucks." I honestly kind of wish I could tell my teenage self that it's okay to be gay, and give my teenage self some encouragement. It might sound weird, but maybe hearing that at age 13 would have helped me a little. Maybe I would have been happier. I would still have been weird (I *AM* still weird :lol:) but I might have been happier.

I hope that answers the question. I really like myself so much more since I went on the "journey." I'm getting more to the point where I don't really care a whole lot what people think about me. I heard that a gay person has to decide whether or not to come out everyday, and this is true. I've just decided to assume that everyone I meet knows I'm gay. And I also assume they'll have no problem with it. I'll usually just comment on if I find a guy attractive, that I want to go to Pride this year, or something like that. They get the message, and I'm just living openly by not hiding who I am and being myself, just like everybody else. I really hope this makes sense, guys. It's almost 1:00am here, and I should be getting to bed. Good night! :)

[Smallville_Angel]

I am happy to see that my questions has created a very healthy and in depth discussion amongst you all, and I appreciate the input. It provides me with a great deal to think about because I am in the situation where I am trying to educate myself because I think my own perspective might be horribly black and white, and I want to broaden my mind because obviously my own experience is very different from that any of you have been through.

Firstly, congratulations on your new relationship Heather. I hope you and this lucky girl are very happy together. I find it rather ironic that you mention that for your girlfriend to come out to her parents, she would have her own Santana moment. Whilst I'm not ready to come out to my parents, I will admit to feeling as though I'm filling Santana's shoes lately because I could relate to where Santana was coming from in last night's episode insofar as being fluid can indeed make you stuck. I am stuck at the moment, because I have a crush on this girl and unlike Santana, I don't have the courage to be honest, do I? Santana, despite the tears and the vulnerability made spilling your guts like so easy, and it isn't. The girl I like likes women, too, but that problem is I honestly don't think she wants anything more. Then again, I have kind of been the Santana of the situation previously, and I've met one or two Brittany's along the way, so I guess I should not be too surprised:lol:.

Much like you Jeff, I wish I could tell my teenage self it's o.k. to be attracted to girls. I was one unbelievably confused, hurting and angry 16 year old. The first girl I ever had feelings for - boy, did I treat her like crap. I was too ashamed to be upfront with her and tell her that as much as I liked her, I didn't have the courage to take the leap and wind up in a relationship with a woman. In my case it hardly helped that I didn't have much of a romantic history and feelings for another where, for the most part, new, exciting but also scary for me because I had no idea how to deal. I guess I also relate to Santana because I believe sexuality is fluid; there is two ends to the spectrum - the heterosexual and the homosexual and I "flow" between both, almost as though I stand on middle ground. This will make you laugh, but I was thinking the other day, and I kind of see it like this. Imagine a rectangular or square container filled with fluid such as water. If you tip the container to the left, the water will flow to the left, and vice versa. Now, if you sit the container on a solid surface and do not tip in, the water sits evenly across the container, right? Well, if one end of said container is heterosexuality, the other homosexuality, I represent the container sitting on a solid surface, not being tampered with. Somedays however, I feel as though the container has been tilted one particular direction, so that I might define myself as having heterosexual feelings (primarily attracted to males) or homosexual feelings (primarily attracted to females). I hope that makes sense, and I know it sounds so nerdy, so have a few laughs because I know that's possibly the geekiest way to explain it:rotfl:.

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This will make you laugh, but I was thinking the other day, and I kind of see it like this. Imagine a rectangular or square container filled with fluid such as water. If you tip the container to the left, the water will flow to the left, and vice versa. Now, if you sit the container on a solid surface and do not tip in, the water sits evenly across the container, right? Well, if one end of said container is heterosexuality, the other homosexuality, I represent the container sitting on a solid surface, not being tampered with. Somedays however, I feel as though the container has been tilted one particular direction, so that I might define myself as having heterosexual feelings (primarily attracted to males) or homosexual feelings (primarily attracted to females). I hope that makes sense, and I know it sounds so nerdy, so have a few laughs because I know that's possibly the geekiest way to explain it:rotfl:.

Thanks Sheridan :)

I understand your container theory. Now that I am in a relationship with a girl, I feel as if my container is tipped, but some days I may see a male and say to myself that he is attractive and the container tips to the other side. Everything is just so complicated :lol:

[JB1986]

I understand the container theory. Although in my case, the container is primarily tipped to the gay side, with maybe a few drips here and there to the straight side. But I totally see where you're coming from. I also completely understand that it's hard to spill your guts. I hate doing it. If it's something that I'm truly nervous to tell someone, I get all nervous and talk way too fast. Then all the attention is on me, and I hate that. I don't like rocking the boat, which makes spilling my guts frankly suck.

I have some confessions to make. I swear sometimes I give off a "don't talk to me" vibe. I don't know quite what it is, but sometimes it feels like I can't meet somebody because I give off a "don't talk to me" vibe or something. I don't mean to, I guess I just do. I don't get it, and I wonder how I can stop giving off that vibe. Just something I need to work on, I guess. i know I'm kind of a loner and an introvert, which probably doesn't help me. Ugh, I hate thinking about stuff like this too much. It makes me feel sad. :(

For some reason I was thinking about my childhood today. I don't know why exactly, but now I can't get it out of my mind. It's okay to laugh at me for this, it makes me laugh sometimes too. Now, I had some regular boys toys like army men and whatnot, but I have to reveal it sometime, I had a few Barbies. I also had a pair of "Beauty And The Beast" shoes that I proudly wore to my Kindergarten class. I did get made fun of a little bit, but I didn't care. I liked them, I wore them. It makes me laugh now, but man I was confident and knew what I liked at that age. Don't ask me what made me think of that or why I'm even sharing it. I guess I'm feeling nostalgic right now or something. Who knows?

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For some reason I was thinking about my childhood today. I don't know why exactly, but now I can't get it out of my mind. It's okay to laugh at me for this, it makes me laugh sometimes too. Now, I had some regular boys toys like army men and whatnot, but I have to reveal it sometime, I had a few Barbies. I also had a pair of "Beauty And The Beast" shoes that I proudly wore to my Kindergarten class. I did get made fun of a little bit, but I didn't care. I liked them, I wore them. It makes me laugh now, but man I was confident and knew what I liked at that age. Don't ask me what made me think of that or why I'm even sharing it. I guess I'm feeling nostalgic right now or something. Who knows?

Those shoes sound cute Jeff :) Maybe, it all starts during childhood and parents may noitice and thats why they put us into certain activities that some children when they grow up say they only did it cause of their parents. However, parents don't understand how their child could be gay when they had them in all the "gender appropriate" sports and activities. They have to face that we will be who we are meant to be.

[JB1986]

Thanks Heather. They were cute shoes. They were white tennis shoes with purple on the soles, velcro straps, with Belle and The Beast on them. Yeah, I remember them well. And I completely agree with you about parents pushing kids into "gender appropriate" activities. I kind of liked all sorts of toys and movies when I was a kid. Of course there were the Barbies, but I also had a race car track, a train set, "Jurassic Park" dinosaur toys, plus my crayons (I loved to draw.) Thankfully my parents didn't force many gender specific toys on me. The only thing they ever said was they wished I liked sports. I hate sports with a passion. I did play Elementary school soccer for a few years, mostly because my mother was a coach. Completely hated it. I was thrilled when I quit. I think I only played because my parents liked it. It's not their fault at all, Oh, and I totally sucked at it. To get back on point, you're right Heather, we're gonna be who we are no matter what.

I did pick-up a book today that looks interesting. It's called "10 Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives." Skimming it, it looked rather interesting. I hope I learn something from reading it. I'll let you all know.

One thing I've noticed lately, and I didn't even know about it until it got pointed out to me, is that I tend to say "I'm sorry" alot. Now,at my job I have to say it to screaming customers even though I rarely mean it and its even more rare I'm apologizing for something that's my fault. But I say it now all the time in my personal life too. I think it's become like a defense mechanism of sorts. It's not even on stuff I've messed up on. For example: "This chair is uncomfortable." "I'm sorry." 'This TV sucks!" "I'm sorry you didn't like it." "My coworker showed up late!" "I'm so sorry." Seriously, it's gotten out of hand. I'm not doing it anymore. Unless something really is my fault, I'm not apologizing for it. Random topic, I know. More of a rant, I guess.

And please tell me we can discuss last night's "Glee!" It was awesome! :)

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Yea, my dad says I always say "I'm sorry". He tells me don't be sorry just be careful. It's a hard habit to break.

Yes, Jeff! We MUST talk about Glee! Without revealing anything, "Orignal Songs" was absoultely amaazing! One of my favorite episodes to date! I did not expect what happened bewteen Kurt and Blaine to occur! It was a good surprise though! The writers should definetly write more original songs as well.

[JB1986]

Sweet! Because "Glee" Tuesday night was a-freaking-mazing! First, what happened between Blaine & Kurt. The only thing I will say is that it's about time! I loved when Kurt sang "Blackbird." I've heard The Beatles' and Evan Rachel Wood's (from the movie "Across The Universe") versions, but I think I like Chris Colfer's version the best. Blaine and Kurt had a great duet on "Candles." Quinn's statement to Rachel was a little blunt, but had alot of truth to it. Speaking of Rachel, Lea Michele sang wonderfully on the original song "Get It Right." And I LOVED "Loser Like Me." I also got a kick out of Kathy Griffin guest starring as a Sarah Palin-esque judge. I'm a huge Kathy Griffin fan, and since she's extremely pro-gay, her playing that type of character was hilarious. I have to say, "Original Songs" is one of my top three favorite episodes of the entire series so far. My other two favorites are "Never Been Kissed" and "The Power Of Madonna." All in all, amazing episode! :D

I'm gonna do a tad bit of self promotion. I did set-up a Twitter account. Now, I've had it since 2009 when I wanted to know what was happening at Comic Con. But now I've actually started to use it. If anyone is even remotely interested in looking, my name is @jeffb06l4. I promise to write more interesting things than "Drinking Diet Coke ya'll! WOOOOO!!!" :rotfl: I'm aiming for witty.

Oh, and Happy St. Patrick's Day, everybody! I trust you all wore green. I sure did! :)

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I'm gonna do a tad bit of self promotion. I did set-up a Twitter account. Now, I've had it since 2009 when I wanted to know what was happening at Comic Con. But now I've actually started to use it. If anyone is even remotely interested in looking, my name is @jeffb06l4. I promise to write more interesting things than "Drinking Diet Coke ya'll! WOOOOO!!!" :rotfl: I'm aiming for witty.

Oh, and Happy St. Patrick's Day, everybody! I trust you all wore green. I sure did! :)

I did wear green as well :) And I too am on twitter Jeff! My name is @sweetlycynical :rotfl:

[JB1986]

Awesome! Yep, i wore a funny hat and flashing glasses. I am perfectly willing to poke fun at myself to have a little fun. :rotfl: And thanks for following me on Twitter, Heather. I'm new at it, but I will try to be somewhat humorous or something. I'm keeping it short tonight, since I should be off to bed. Good night. :)

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Awesome! And thanks for following me on Twitter, Heather. I'm new at it, but I will try to be somewhat humorous or something. I'm keeping it short tonight, since I should be off to bed. Good night. :) My advice is to tweet about things you like and include the # symbol in front of it and thats how you get more followers and start having fun on twitter

[RyanE]

I did some homework for St. Patrick's Day. 'Cause I am that boring, lol. And mostly because it was due and I do not like to drink.

[JB1986]

My advice is to tweet about things you like and include the # symbol in front of it and thats how you get more followers and start having fun on twitter

Thanks Heather. I'll keep that in mind. I'm having fun with it so far. :)

I preordered Dan Savage's and his partner Terry Miller's "It Gets Better" book. I'm really looking forward to reading it, since I think that is such a wonderful campaign, and it sounds so uplifting. I'm more than happy to pay the ten dollars for the Kindle book on Amazon.com. I'm a fan of Dan Savage anyway. I can't wait to start reading it on March 22nd.

I know, I know, I talk about "90210" alot, but I watched this scene last night where Teddy admits he's gay to Silver, and her telling him she accepts him. I have to admit, the scene makes me feel a little misty. Trevor Donovan and Jessica Stroup do a fantastic job here. The part that gets me is where Teddy says he doesn't want to be gay, but Silver says he's amazing. I can't help it, I love this scene. I could watch this scene over and over. If you guys are interested, enjoy:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlskVmIUV9Y&feature=related

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The scene is very touching Jeff. The part where Teddy says "How can I ask people to be comfortable with who I am, when I'm not?" That part was extremely sad :(

With all the backlash and hatred against GLBT people, it's scary when you come to the realization that now you will be "one of those people" under attack. The thing that helps are having people who accept you :)

[JB1986]

I'm really glad you liked it, Heather. I think what really got to me was that I could truly empathize with Teddy because I've been there, and I know what it feels like. Personally, I also found where he said "How can I expect anyone to be comfortable with who I am, when I'm not. I don't want to be gay" to be so sad. And I also completely empathized when he said that if people find out he's gay, that's all he's gonna be to them. I really wanted to give Teddy a hug during that scene too. (I'm keeping it clean here, people. You all know how hot I think Trevor Donovan is. :lol:) I'm so glad that I have a few friends and cousins like Silver. I really should thank them again. And I'm getting misty again. That seals it, I am officially a sap. :)

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It ok to be sappy sometimes Jeff :) I also relate to Teddy when he says once people find out he's gay that's all he's gonna be to them. When some people find out that I am bisexual, they always ask me questions about hiw do you do this? Who do you prefer more: boys or girls? It can be really annoying sometimes. On some level they are curious or want to be educated, but after a couple of questions, it gets tiresome.

[JB1986]

Yeah, I totally understand that. I sometimes still get asked questions like that. I know alot of it is genuine curiosity which is fine. The first question is usually "have you always known?" I really don't mind, but there is one question I absolutely hate."How do you know?" or its variant "How do you know if you've never been with a woman?" That question makes me want to scream. Honestly, I do have a coworker who basically says I can't be 100% sure unless I give women a try, and they know lots of gay guys who go with women. (Bisexual guys do I know, but I'm gay.) They seem to be implying that I don't know that I'm gay or something. Needless to say,I no longer discuss my personal life with this person. I hate to say this, I just don't like that person for a number of reasons. Getting back on track, those questions can be tiresome, I agree. Like Teddy, I also don't want people to think of me as just "Jeff the gay guy," you know.

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Yea, when people ask when did you know or how did you know? It's hard to pinpoint. It's just instinct and nature. One day I just knew, but it took me a while to come to grips with my sexual orientation.

[JB1986]

Yeah, it's hard for me to point out exactly when I started to like guys. I honestly have no idea. And despite trying to suppress it for many years,I did always kind of know. Still, it's a mighty difficult question to answer.

Oh, and I do have a little something to add about being a sap. The thing is, I didn't used to be. Well, up until around ten years old I could get somewhat emotional. Up until seven years old I cried frequently, until I was told that only girls cry. Then my Grandma died when I was ten, and I of course cried. But after that, I never cried again for many years. Or smiled or really laughed alot. Yeah, I was tons of fun. :rolleyes: But anyway, long story short, it took quite a few years, but I got over that pretty much. I'd rather be a sap, laugh, and crack a smile, than be emotionally cut off. Just saying. :)

[Smallville_Angel]

First off, HOORAY for Kurt and Blaine. It's due time. I heard that there was a BIG surprise to air on this week's episode of 'Glee' (we're a week behind the U.S., and now sadly we have a three week hiatus:(). Anyway, didn't I get a shock when Blaine finally kissed Kurt? It was so sweet. The look on Blaine's face when Kurt sang 'Blackbird' said 'I'm completely besotted'. He just looked like he'd finally had the epiphany, that realisation that there was Kurt, right under his nose, and Kurt is perfect for him. They understand one another, they respect one another and they care deeply for one another, so what was holding them back from starting a relationship? I can't wait to see more of Kurt and Blaine's blossoming relationship. That said, I feel the one real let down in this episode was the oversight of Santana's admission to Brittany in last week's episode. We saw on scene between them, in which Santana was nothing short of icy, and despite her harsh words towards Sam when singing 'Trouty Lips' (hilarious, by the way!:lol:), I felt as though it was a massive oversight to not attempt to pursue the further, even if it meant Santana finding another way to deal with her pain. One that preferably didn't involve her being icy and a little bit nasty to Brittany - sure, she is hurt, but can she really afford to push Brittany away when Brittany's really the only friend she has?

Jeff, I thought I might snap up the mention of only girls cry. Pardon me if I am so blunt as to say bull. I have always found a guy who is capable of being in touch with his emotions to be somewhat sexy. Just as long as the guy isn't a blabbering mess capable of breaking down at the mere mention of anything upsetting, because I also believe that EVERY human being, regardless of their gender or sex should be capable of holding things together and realising when it is appropriate to release that emotion (for example: feeling angry or upset about an argument with family or friends = never appropriate to burst out and swear, abuse, assault etc. in public). I don't mind if a guy cries - sometimes there are situations in life when you need to cry, when locking up that emotion, that pain and that suffering could well be psychologically and / or physically crippling. In my opinion, even if a guy cries over something he sees on the news which upset him deeply or cries because he can really relate to a character in a show or a movie and that hits a raw nerve with him, it shouldn't be a big deal, as long as he is able to recognise that whilst having a sensitive side is sexy, you also need to be aware of exactly what is upsetting you in order to deal with it (to avoid depression etc.). If I saw one of my male friends crying, I'd want to hug them and tell them how strong they are for being able to show that emotion. I don't think it's right that some men are taught that it is too wimpy, too sissy and dare I say, too gay for them to cry? I've heard it all before, and you'd be surprised how many girls, in the least, love a guy who cries. As for you crying Jeff, some guy out there is going to love the fact that you're capable of recognising your emotions (rather than denying them) and that you're actually in touch with your emotions. It's always better to face up to them then to run from them because often, even something like an emotion can catch up with you years down the track and cause a whole new world of pain.

[JB1986]

I'm glad you liked the episode, Sheridan. I think they are saving some Santana and Brittany stuff for future episodes. This was the Regionals episode, and they had quite alot to do in the episode. I'm hoping that the Santana and Brittany storyline keeps going, and they don't just drop it like "it never happened." If they drop the storyline, I will be officially ticked off. They could drop alot of the Rachel/Finn/Quinn/Sam/Puck drama in favor of more Kurt/Blaine and Santana/Brittany and I'd be a happy camper. Speaking of, I can't wait for more Kurt/Blaine stuff! :)

And I agree on the men crying thing, Sheridan. And no, I don't turn into some blubbering mess over any little upsetting thing. That would just be sad for oh so many reasons. I can be emotional but not THAT emotional. :lol: I prefer to cry quietly, not be some blubbering mess. If I cry because something really bad happened to me or someone I love, then I know why I'm upset and can deal with it. In the instance of a movie or TV show, it's mostly because either I feel for the characters and the performances are good, or I can put myself in the characters shoes and can feel their pain. For instance, in the Teddy scene I've BEEN in Teddy's shoes, so I can relate 100% to what he's going through. It doesn't hurt that Trevor Donovan and Jessica Stroup are just that good in that scene.

Onto other news, I'm sure you've all heard by now that Elizabeth Taylor passed away. It's really sad. She was one of the first, if not the first, celebrities to stand up for gays during the AIDS crisis in the 1980's. In fact, her and Madonna are the two biggest people I can think of who took a stand back then. Back in the 80's, that was downright ballsy. Taylor was honored for her humanitarian work, and was a great advocate for us. She'll be missed. R.I.P. Elizabeth. :(

In honor of Elizabeth, and because I'd never seen it, I watched "Cat On A Hot Tin Roof" last night on Netflix (I also plan on watching "Giant" and "Cleopatra" soon.) It's based on the play by Tennessee Williams. "A Streetcar Named Desire" is one of my favorite films of all time, and since Williams wrote both plays the films were based on (the "Streetcar" play is terrific as well) I figured I'd like this. How right I was. Several spoilers are ahead! Brick (Paul Newman, who was outstanding in this movie) and Maggie "The Cat" (Elizabeth Taylor, also outstanding) play a married couple who are hiding many secrets. One is that they know Big Daddy (Burl Ives) will die soon. Another secret between them involves a man named Skipper. In the movie, it is said that Brick and Skipper have a very powerful friendship, and Maggie wanting Brick to herself, says she slept with Skipper, who then kills himself. Now, this being a film made in 1958, there were certain "taboo" subjects that were censored. This also happened in "Streetcar," which I know I've mentioned before. They took out the fact that Blanche Dubois' former husband was gay, and he killed himself. In the movie, he kills himself because he's "weak" and writes poetry. Uh-huh. :rolleyes: Anyway, while Brick, Maggie, and Big Daddy were screaming at each other about what happened with Skipper, it officially dawned on me. I suspected something about Brick and how he related to Maggie from the get-go, but this confirmed it. He and Skipper were "best friends" and he was completely devastated and heartbroken over what happened to Skipper. My gaydar was going wild. Yep, Brick is gay! A little research about the play confirmed that. (I love being right.) But anyway, it was a terrific movie. I really should read the play now. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

This Glee hiatus is killing me! :eek:

I did hear about Elizabeth Taylor :( The news was all over Twitter and I saw that People magazine did a tribute to her. I have never seen any of her movies, but I have heard about them and her perfume and her many husbands :) But she is another one of the scare Hollywood movie stars left. May she R.I.P.

[JB1986]

I don't think there are too many old Hollywood movie stars left, to be honest. The only one I can think of off the top of my head is Lauren Bacall. Its sad, really. One of my favorite actresses is Vivien Leigh, and she died way back in 1967, I believe. She was utterly fantastic in "A Streetcar Named Desire" as Blanche Dubois, and was brilliant as Scarlett O'Hara in "Gone With The Wind." It is sad to watch these old movies and realize the actors aren't around anymore. But at least we can still enjoy their films. :)

I know a few months ago I said I wasn't really a Britney Spears fan. I take back what I said. I'm really digging the "Femme Fatale" album. It's a really fun album, and I really enjoy it. "Criminal" is a great song, in my opinion. I really love how she sings the chorus to that song. I loved Britney when I was 13 and 14 years old. Its kinda nice to be back on the Britney train. :D

Oh, and I got my "Black Swan" Blu-Ray on Tuesday as well. I freaking love that movie! I've watched it twice already. It was kind of interesting to watch it with someone who hadn't seen it yet. It's just such a great movie. I'm so thrilled Natalie Portman won Best Actress. :D

[Smallville_Angel]

No matter gay, straight or bi
Lesbian, transgendered life
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born to survive

I was listening to Lady Gaga's 'Born This Way' today, and truth be known, I'd never really paid any great deal of attention to the lyrics before now. However, today, I was struck by the lyrics, in particular the lines printed above. I think it really needs to be said that it does not matter if you are heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual or transgender, you are right on track! I think some of us live through such tough battles that are so rarely recognised by any large majority, hence the continued fight for gay rights (in part). I cannot speak for the rest of you, but I live with such shame, disgust, guilt and sorrow for some time in my life until I realised that God does not make mistakes. Whilst I realise religion is not up for discussion, nor do I encourage the heated debate given the forum rules, I will state that I believe that for whatever unknown reason, God gave me this path and will forgive me for questioning and in time, possibly, for exploring my sexuality. I have come to believe I that part the reason I was born into this world was to get through that struggle and perhaps help others deal with the heart ache that almost seems synonymous with discovering ones sexuality.

One another note, anyone purchased 'Glee' season 2, volume 1? If so, are you loving the jukebox feature as much as I am? I'm listening right now and reliving some of the awesome music for earlier this season, and beginning to realise that perhaps one of my friends was right when she said that Naya Rivera is gorgeous (that voice - damn, can she sing!). Don't shake your heads in despair yet, though - I'm still hopelessly in love with Dianna Agron (speaking of, I think I just melted a little. 'Lucky' is playing on jukebox now!;):lol:) Anyone know what the hell Sam sees in Santana? :p:rotfl:

[JB1986]

I do like those lyrics you posted, Sheridan. To be completely honest, I really don't wonder why I am gay anymore. I just am. I think it's a gift, actually. I've been more honest with myself, especially since I came out, than I ever was before. I think that in and of itself is a gift. I don't know if there is any rhyme or reason for me being gay, but in the long run it doesn't matter. I am who I am, and that's all I know. And of course, I dealt with shame for the longest time. Living with shame is horrible, and I have no desire to do that again, ever. I do kind of believe that we're not given more than we can handle. I do agree Sheridan that maybe maybe gays LGBT people are given more to handle, maybe because we can handle more. It's kinda nice to think that, anyway. :) Oh, and yes, I don't like religious debates. I honestly don't think it would get bad here, because we're all cool and respect each other, but I've seen religious debates get really ugly really fast.

And I didn't get the "Glee" DVD set. I bought all of the episodes on Amazon Video On Demand, so I have all of the episodes to watch whenever I want, just not any of the features. Yeah, I could have waited for the DVD to be available, but I'm impatient like that sometimes. :rotfl: I do have all of the soundtracks, though so I can still listen to the music on my Ipod whenever I want. Darren Criss makes me melt. Speaking of singers, here's something that shocked me. I was lurking around on Youtube on Trevor Donovan's channel (shock of shocks :rotfl:) and he can sing too! His version of Nelly's "Ride Wit Me" was really good (sung instead of rapped which was pretty nice.) Let's see, Trevor Donovan, Cheyenne Jackson, James Marsden, Ewan McGregor, Darren Criss, and Jake Shears? All of them can sing. Who senses a pattern? :rotfl::rotfl:

[Smallville_Angel]

It is funny you should mention patterns with the celebrities who have caught your eye Jeff. Evidently there's a clear pattern there, and I am beginning to discover a bit of a pattern with mine (sure testament of the fact I should stop tuning into certain American television programmes, especially ones that a friend recommends to me:lol:). Dianna Agron, Nina Dobrev (I began watching 'The Vampire Diaries out of curiosity, and then a friend and I began conversations about it and my love of the show extended beyond the first few episodes) and now, Shay Mitchell (something that would not have occurred had said friend not advised me to tune into 'Pretty Little Liars') and even dare I say it, Troian Bellisario, too? I am beginning to think said friend has too much influence on me and I should stop watching the shows she recommends:rotfl:. I should probably add Paul Wesley to that list, despite the efforts of several people to get me to convert to Ian Somerhalder obsession (it isn't going to work, people!:rotfl:).

I don't really wonder why I am bisexual anymore, either, Jeff. Truthfully, I take some sort of secret pride in the fact I am lucky enough to join a select group of celebrities who have the courage to be honest about their sexuality, which I know sounds bizaree, but I take a secret pleasure in knowing that I am special in every way because here I am, able to admit the fact that I am attracted to girls and share that with some of the most amazing people I know. I mean, I am bisexual, as is Angelina Jolie, Drew Barrymore, Nelly Furtado, Missy Higgins, Anna Paquin, just to name a few. That's pretty cool, in my opinion. :D

[rooting 4 clark]

Hello all, I've been busy with school and now fighting a terrible virus :( So that's why I have been missing for a while.

But I wanted to say that I love Lady Gaga, but I don't like Born this Way. The lyrics, yes! I love the lyrics! But I don't like the beat of the song.

Also, I did not buy Glee: Season 2, Volume 1 on dvd because I want to wait for the whole box set to come out. It's easier for me to have all 6 or 7 discs together in one box set.
Jeff I agree with you about Britney! I am in love with her new CD! I love the beats and I think Britney is indeed making her comeback.

Last of all, I also don't wonder why I am bisexual anymore. Those who know of my relationship ask if I am a lesbian now because I am in a relationship with a girl. I reply no, because I am able to have relationships with both males and females as well as exhibit the same feelings for both sexes.

[JB1986]

I hope you're feeling better, Heather! :)

We definitely have attraction patterns, huh Sheridan? I think I must love eye and ear candy, and have a possible desire to be serenaded or something. Oh, how I would love to have a guy serenade me. :lol:

It's interesting you saying that people are asking you if you're a lesbian now, Heather. I saw a movie today, and I was actually going to bring that subject up anyway. I finally got to see "The Kids Are All Right" today. I hate to say it, but I'm not in love with it. I mean its good, but I don't think I'll ever watch it again. Overall, I'm very "meh" about the movie. Annette Benning, Julianne Moore, and Mark Ruffalo were all very good. The film just seemed long, and kind of meandered a bit, in my opinion. Also, and MAJOR SPOILERS AHEAD, Julianne's character cheats with Mark's character. When Annette finds out, she asks Julianne if she's "straight now." I was wondering why bisexuality never came up. It only seemed to address gay and straight, but not bisexual. The subject matter of the film is truly inspired, but it could have been done alot better, if you ask me. Plus the cheating storyline was just stupid, I thought. Honestly, I just am not in love with the movie.

I also rented "The Fighter." That movie was pretty good, I thought. Christian Bale and Amy Adams were terrific. I also rented the movie "Tangled." Oh my god, I LOVED that movie! It was a terrific and fun animated adventure. It was kind of like the classic Disney animated films they used to make, which was a treat. Definitely one of my Top 5 favorite animated films, along with "Beauty And The Beast," "Toy Story 3," "Aladdin," and "The Little Mermaid." Mandy Moore and Zachary Levi were terrific as the voices of Rapunzel and Flynn Rider. Kind of had to order it from Amazon right after seeing it. :lol:

[jon-el87]

Have anyone else noticed that the music in Born this way, is nearly identical to the music in Express Yourself?


I hope you're feeling better, Heather! :)

We definitely have attraction patterns, huh Sheridan? I think I must love eye and ear candy, and have a possible desire to be serenaded or something. Oh, how I would love to have a guy serenade me. :lol:

It's interesting you saying that people are asking you if you're a lesbian now, Heather. I saw a movie today, and I was actually going to bring that subject up anyway. I finally got to see "The Kids Are All Right" today. I hate to say it, but I'm not in love with it. I mean its good, but I don't think I'll ever watch it again. Overall, I'm very "meh" about the movie. Annette Benning, Julianne Moore, and Mark Ruffalo were all very good. The film just seemed long, and kind of meandered a bit, in my opinion. Also, and MAJOR SPOILERS AHEAD, Julianne's character cheats with Mark's character. When Annette finds out, she asks Julianne if she's "straight now." I was wondering why bisexuality never came up. It only seemed to address gay and straight, but not bisexual. The subject matter of the film is truly inspired, but it could have been done alot better, if you ask me. Plus the cheating storyline was just stupid, I thought. Honestly, I just am not in love with the movie.

I also rented "The Fighter." That movie was pretty good, I thought. Christian Bale and Amy Adams were terrific. I also rented the movie "Tangled." Oh my god, I LOVED that movie! It was a terrific and fun animated adventure. It was kind of like the classic Disney animated films they used to make, which was a treat. Definitely one of my Top 5 favorite animated films, along with "Beauty And The Beast," "Toy Story 3," "Aladdin," and "The Little Mermaid." Mandy Moore and Zachary Levi were terrific as the voices of Rapunzel and Flynn Rider. Kind of had to order it from Amazon right after seeing it. :lol:

I can only think off one TV show, where bisexuality comes up as a possibility, in this kind of situation. It was a sit-com revolving around a therapist's office and one of the clients was a man, who had lived in a same-sex relationship for years and was now finding himself attracted to women. And the therapist brought up the possibility of him being bisexual. That's the only one. Otherwise, it's usually straightforward "you're either straight or gay". Even omnisexual Captain Jack Harkness was once identified, in an episode of Knight Rider, as "gay", as opposed to what he actually is. Sometimes I wonder if people even know the meaning of bisexual (or just thinks it's the same thing, as gay)...?

[Smallville_Angel]

Have anyone else noticed that the music in Born this way, is nearly identical to the music in Express Yourself?



I can only think off one TV show, where bisexuality comes up as a possibility, in this kind of situation. It was a sit-com revolving around a therapist's office and one of the clients was a man, who had lived in a same-sex relationship for years and was now finding himself attracted to women. And the therapist brought up the possibility of him being bisexual. That's the only one. Otherwise, it's usually straightforward "you're either straight or gay". Even omnisexual Captain Jack Harkness was once identified, in an episode of Knight Rider, as "gay", as opposed to what he actually is. Sometimes I wonder if people even know the meaning of bisexual (or just thinks it's the same thing, as gay)...?

That is a wonderful point you've raised there, and one I would like to run with, if nobody objects. I honestly wonder if certain people actually understand the definition of bisexuality. As you've mentioned, and as Heather currently seems to be experiencing, some truly believe that there is no middle ground: it is a simple matter of being heterosexual or homosexual. I truly believe, and in the words of Santana Lopez:p, that sexuality is fluid. However, that does not mean that there are only two ends to the pole:rotfl:. Let's think of it this way: most of us grow up believing that heterosexuality is 'morally' correct and that there are no other options, right? It is only later in life that the majority of us begin to realise that just because Mum and Dad live in a heterosexual relationship, and our grandparents, aunts, uncles etc. are heterosexual does not mean that everyone considers that the 'norm'. For those of us who don't live in this situation, who happen to have a member of the immediate or extending family who is either gay or bisexual, well, that's a bonus, but let's be blunt: how old are we before you tend to recognise this difference and accept it? I guess what I am trying to say is that most of us are raised with the ideals are parents have passed on, and few tend to manage homosexuality or bisexuality when it comes to time for the dreaded birds and bees discussion. And it's true: most of us are raised with our parent's ignorance, too. When we reach the age that we begin to develop feelings for someone, whatever age that might be, society seems to expect that we'll develop feelings for a member of the OPPOSITE sex. Rarely do people not bat an eyelid should you admit to feelings for someone of the same sex. The issue for those of us who are bisexual is that we are attracted to both males and females. As Heather so smartly states, bisexuals exhibit the same feelings for both sexes, which to some people is abnormal, because how is it possible that anyone could have feelings for both males and females? I guess I should then ask how it is possible that any male who truly believe he is gay might find a woman who he is attracted to and decides to begin a relationship with? How is it that a loving mother and wife can leave her husband and children after discovering she is no longer attracted to men and wishes to pursue a relationship with a woman?? I believe that the answer is simple: human sexuality is indeed fluid. It cannot be considered as stationary, concrete, incapable of change. To say otherwise is, at least in my opinion, extremely ignorant. It is just a matter of the fact that for whatever reason, certain individuals just so happen to be prejudiced, and by this I do not necessarily mean prejudice towards outright homosexuality. No, they are prejudiced simply because they do not understand the fluidity of human sexuality and believe that you're either and one end of the pole or the other.

Now that I've finished my rant, and forgive me for raving on like a lunatic at such length:rotfl:... Jeff, there's still a few months to plan for your birthday, right? I wonder if this year I could slip a bribe in Darren Criss' direction seeing as Matthew Morrison was just too busy last year:rotfl:? I wonder if that'd work without me risking a restraining order??? By the way, that reminds me: my birthday is still a while off, but if any of you are thinking of ideas, I can think of one place to start:rotfl::p;).

I should finishing with this simple statement:

Prejudice is just ignorance

I am betting Jeff knows exactly who spoke those words:p.

[rooting 4 clark]

Thank you for the get well's everyone :)

Sheridan, your rant was a good one :lol: I agree with you and Santana that sexuality is fluid. However, some people cannot get that through their skulls. For instance, my dad is a Baby Boomer and I think if I told him I was bisexual he would freak out and be more pissed at me than if I said I were a lesbian. I think that time period that he grew up in will not allow him to change. He needs a new pair of eyes. It is as if there can never be a "bi-" anything. Everything must be black and white. Wel the color grey does exsist for a reason :p

Maybe I'll try and get Diana Agron or Nina Dobrev for your birthday Sheridan ;)

[Embraceurside]

No matter gay, straight or bi
Lesbian, transgendered life
I'm on the right track, baby
I was born to survive
*heads into here* Hay (im not homosexual but i saw the thread popping and i came in to see what you guys were 'partying' about:lol:)
then i saw these lyrics ! :D:D Lady Gaga is amazing.

Anyways *heads out* :p

[Smallville_Angel]

Thank you for the get well's everyone :)

Sheridan, your rant was a good one :lol: I agree with you and Santana that sexuality is fluid. However, some people cannot get that through their skulls. For instance, my dad is a Baby Boomer and I think if I told him I was bisexual he would freak out and be more pissed at me than if I said I were a lesbian. I think that time period that he grew up in will not allow him to change. He needs a new pair of eyes. It is as if there can never be a "bi-" anything. Everything must be black and white. Wel the color grey does exsist for a reason :p

Maybe I'll try and get Diana Agron or Nina Dobrev for your birthday Sheridan ;)

If you could kindly manage Dianna on my front doorstep come my birthday, that would be appreciated Heather. No more and no less; that'd make my birthday for me:rotfl:. In return, tell me who you want on your doorstep and I'll arrange it for your birthday Heather:p.

Everything must be black and white - pfft! Why do you think the colours blue, pink and purple exist?:p They exist for a reason, people!:lol:

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*heads into here* Hay (im not homosexual but i saw the thread popping and i came in to see what you guys were 'partying' about:lol:)
then i saw these lyrics ! :D:D Lady Gaga is amazing.

Anyways *heads out* :p

Hi! Glad you dropped by. Feel free to come back any time, we're more than happy if you'd like to join our conversations, and we don't discriminate around here. Even if you're heterosexual, we could care less, as long as you're a pleasant person who doesn't discriminate, then come and join the party.

[Embraceurside]

Hi! Glad you dropped by. Feel free to come back any time, we're more than happy if you'd like to join our conversations, and we don't discriminate around here. Even if you're heterosexual, we could care less, as long as you're a pleasant person who doesn't discriminate, then come and join the party.
*comes back in*
:lol: Hello! No i dont discriminate either, if you want to talk political reasons on why i can, but i dont think its aloud.
But no i dont discriminate.:p
*leaves to check mafia forums*:D Nice to meet you guys !

[jon-el87]

If you could kindly manage Dianna on my front doorstep come my birthday, that would be appreciated Heather. No more and no less; that'd make my birthday for me:rotfl:. In return, tell me who you want on your doorstep and I'll arrange it for your birthday Heather:p.

Everything must be black and white - pfft! Why do you think the colours blue, pink and purple exist?:p They exist for a reason, people!:lol:

And orange, brown, yellow, red, green, etc (not to mention diffrent shades of said colours). Sexuality is not definitive, it's infinite. We're all into diffrent things. You can take two men, who both identify themselves as straight and there will be diffrences. One likes blondes, while the other likes brunettes. Or one likes tall women, while the other likes shorter women.

[rooting 4 clark]

I would like Ian Somerhalder (Damon Salvatore from Vampire Diaries or Boone from Lost) on my doorstep, in my bedroom and in my bathtub ;) :rotfl:

[Smallville_Angel]

I would like Ian Somerhalder (Damon Salvatore from Vampire Diaries or Boone from Lost) on my doorstep, in my bedroom and in my bathtub ;) :rotfl:

I think that latter two would land you in hot water Heather (no pun intended!). The former, well, hey, you can dream. Like I dream that one day I might open to front door and not discover some stupid door to door salesperson, but rather that woman of my dreams.... hmm, you think Dianna Agron would ever happen to glance at this?:p If only!:p

[rooting 4 clark]

Oh Sheridan, we can only keep dreaming :lol: :p

So I was watching this show on MTV this morning and Glee will be doing a huge Born This Way epsiode which is supposed to be about 90 minutes, which is about 50 minutes longer than a usual episode of Glee. I am definetly looking forward to this episode. Perhaps it will feature songs of empowerment and being who you are. Maybe shed light on the Brittany and Santana relationship as well as Kurt and Blaine.

[Smallville_Angel]

Oh Sheridan, we can only keep dreaming :lol: :p

So I was watching this show on MTV this morning and Glee will be doing a huge Born This Way epsiode which is supposed to be about 90 minutes, which is about 50 minutes longer than a usual episode of Glee. I am definetly looking forward to this episode. Perhaps it will feature songs of empowerment and being who you are. Maybe shed light on the Brittany and Santana relationship as well as Kurt and Blaine.

I've heard that 'Born This Way' is to be a full 90 minute episode featuring some very interesting stories. I've read a bit about what the episode might feature and it certainly sounds interesting, although I am not holding out too much hope for Brittany and Santana at the moment because I think that Brittany needs to have some sort of epiphany and Santana, well, she needs to drop Sam and pronto! As much as I hated Sam and Quinn with a passion, he was better off with her. And what on earth is with this double standard: Quinn cheats with Puck, ends up pregnant with his child, lies to Finn about the paternity and it's goodbye Quinn, but Finn can totally forgive her and get back with her? And the Rachel cheats with Puck, making out, no more, and Finn gives her the flick so fast she barely has time to protest?! I mean, seriously, not a real fan of Finn and Rachel, but that's got to be better then Finn and Quinn after the way she treated him (and this coming from the girl who is IN LOVE with Dianna Agron:p:lol:). I say bring on April 19th please - I can't wait for Glee to return to screens here in Australia. Meanwhile, I'll live off the music and my newfound fascination with the Brittana coupling. If I only I were more motivated and the ideas for fanfic. I've had floating around inside my head could become reality - I'd really love to start a Brittana fic.

[JB1986]

Well, after battling through a monster three day long headache, I'm back again. Finally I can concentrate without my head throbbing! :)

I love that line "prejudice is just ignorance." And yep, my Blaine said that. I of course knew that, Sheridan. :)

I find the whole "Born This Way" sounding like "Express Yourself" thing somewhat humorous. I agree, I can definitely tell some similarities between the songs. "Born This Way" does have a good message, though. I hate to say it, I'm not hugely in love with the song itself, but the overall message is a good one.

I think your rant on bisexuality is a good one, Sheridan. Especially alot lately, I've come up with a new phrase to use if I find a woman good looking "I'm gay, not blind!" While watching "Black Swan" it's hard not to think that Mila Kunis is pretty smokin', or while watching "Tangled" I remember how pretty Mandy Moore is. I've always liked Mandy Moore, she seems like a sweetie, and found Prop 8 passing a shameful thing. So yeah, sexuality can be fluid, even for someone as gay as me. :D Like I said, "gay, not blind." :)

And Darren Criss would be a mighty sweet birthday present. Yeah, Matthew did stand me up last year, huh? Shameful. Not to be greedy, but I want Trevor Donovan too for my birthday too. Like Heather said, I want him on my front porch, in my bed, in the bathtub, on the floor, heck anywhere I can have him. The possibilities are simply endless. Excuse me, I think my brain just exploded from excitement. :D:rotfl::D

Sheridan, I will do my best to get Diana Agron at your door for your birthday. :)

[Smallville_Angel]

Well, after battling through a monster three day long headache, I'm back again. Finally I can concentrate without my head throbbing! :)

I love that line "prejudice is just ignorance." And yep, my Blaine said that. I of course knew that, Sheridan. :)

I find the whole "Born This Way" sounding like "Express Yourself" thing somewhat humorous. I agree, I can definitely tell some similarities between the songs. "Born This Way" does have a good message, though. I hate to say it, I'm not hugely in love with the song itself, but the overall message is a good one.

I think your rant on bisexuality is a good one, Sheridan. Especially alot lately, I've come up with a new phrase to use if I find a woman good looking "I'm gay, not blind!" While watching "Black Swan" it's hard not to think that Mila Kunis is pretty smokin', or while watching "Tangled" I remember how pretty Mandy Moore is. I've always liked Mandy Moore, she seems like a sweetie, and found Prop 8 passing a shameful thing. So yeah, sexuality can be fluid, even for someone as gay as me. :D Like I said, "gay, not blind." :)

And Darren Criss would be a mighty sweet birthday present. Yeah, Matthew did stand me up last year, huh? Shameful. Not to be greedy, but I want Trevor Donovan too for my birthday too. Like Heather said, I want him on my front porch, in my bed, in the bathtub, on the floor, heck anywhere I can have him. The possibilities are simply endless. Excuse me, I think my brain just exploded from excitement. :D:rotfl::D

Sheridan, I will do my best to get Diana Agron at your door for your birthday. :)

Glad to hear you are feeling better Jeff.

I knew you'd recognise that line. Frankly, I think it's damn right shameful if any Gleek doesn't know that one! Plus, it's kind of an added bonus when you happen to be such a fan of the character, or should I say the actor, Jeff:p I'll try pulling a few strings to see if I can get Darren on your doorstep and Trevor... well, I'm not going to go as far as that, because as I told Heather, I'm not facing a lawsuit for either of you, even though I love you both to death:rotfl: There's a line between sanity and insanity and I sure as hell am not crossing that line to help you get EVERYTHING you want for your birthday:rotfl: I'll have to get around to telling Matthew how much he disappointed you after last year... that was such a let down. :lol:

"I'm gay, not blind"; that made me laugh. It's funny you should mention that because although I am attracted to males, at the moment I am attracted mainly to females, perhaps because I just haven't found the right man yet. I mean, I look at some guys in movies or on TV and think "wow, he's hot!" but it's mainly the girls I am secretly checking out; the number of times I've thought to myself "wow, she's hot" whilst watching any of the numerous TV shows I am a little too into far outnumbers the times I've caught myself looking at the guys:rotfl:. Doesn't stop me checking out Paul Wesley on TVD, though, and please do forgive me if my eyes are too busy with eye candy that Ian doesn't even get a look in (hey, I've got Paul and Nina, so I'm set with that one, thank you very much!). He is one of the few guys I still think is HOT! The list of women celebs. who I think are totally crushworthy just keeps growing, a sure sign I should avoid any form of technology which puts into contact with anything related to them:rotfl:

Another one just for you Jeff:

COURAGE

That one was so incredibly cute; the look on Kurt's face, priceless.

[Embraceurside]

Hay Smallville Angel, i was going to ask you if you were excited about Glee performing 'Born this way' :lol: you dont recieve PM's so ill talk to you here.

and has anyone seen Burlesque? im obsessed with that movie :lol:

[JB1986]

Courage. I love that. So simple. And yes, I know exactly what episode its from. That scene made smile. :)

Thanks in advance for Darren, Sheridan! But...no Trevor? :( I'm a little Trevor obsessed at the moment, in case it wasn't blatantly obvious to everyone here. :lol: That's okay, Trevor's twitter channel will get me by (I mean I don't follow him on Twitter. I'm obviously joking. Thats it....joking..... :rotfl:) It would be heaven if Darren could serenade me with the song "Like A Prayer." In my bed. Wearing nothing but a guitar to play. Oh my. Brain explosion. :D

I've actually cut down my crushes down to nine at the moment. For me, that's progress. My list is officially down to (in no particular order): Cheyenne Jackson, Trevor Donovan, Darren Criss, Joe Mangienello (Alcide from "True Blood" WOOF!), Ryan Reynolds, Ewan McGregor, James Marsden, & Jake Shears. I think that's a good list. :p

Oh, I personally enjoyed "Burlesque." My favorite scene involved Cam Gigandet and a box of cookies. If you've seen the movie, I shall say no more. :)

[Embraceurside]

Courage. I love that. So simple. And yes, I know exactly what episode its from. That scene made smile. :)

Thanks in advance for Darren, Sheridan! But...no Trevor? :( I'm a little Trevor obsessed at the moment, in case it wasn't blatantly obvious to everyone here. :lol: That's okay, Trevor's twitter channel will get me by (I mean I don't follow him on Twitter. I'm obviously joking. Thats it....joking..... :rotfl:) It would be heaven if Darren could serenade me with the song "Like A Prayer." In my bed. Wearing nothing but a guitar to play. Oh my. Brain explosion. :D

I've actually cut down my crushes down to nine at the moment. For me, that's progress. My list is officially down to (in no particular order): Cheyenne Jackson, Trevor Donovan, Darren Criss, Joe Mangienello (Alcide from "True Blood" WOOF!), Ryan Reynolds, Ewan McGregor, James Marsden, & Jake Shears. I think that's a good list. :p

Oh, I personally enjoyed "Burlesque." My favorite scene involved Cam Gigandet and a box of cookies. If you've seen the movie, I shall say no more. :)
'Courage' are you talking about when Blaine sent Kurt that message over phone, awww that was AMAZING.:D i thought it was touching and i loved how Kurt put it up in letters on his locker.
:lol: I love your list ! Its amazing how you narrowed it down to just 9 sigh, i cant:p

and:rotfl: I loved that scene ! I also enjoyed when (for the people who havent watched it) 'Allie' goes to (Ugh cant remember his name) house.. and 'Mark' answers the door and shes like 'Oh i must have to wrong house' and hes like Oh no who are you looking for....
Etc,Etc, I like how he said 'I called you John last night...You liked it':lol: that was just me, i love those kind of bed scenes it was cute.

[Smallville_Angel]

I am really looking forward to seeing the cast of 'Glee' perform 'Born This Way'. It certainly sounds as though there will be some pretty awesome moments in that episode. Also, just so that you're aware of rules around here, spoliers are NEVER permitted, and as you've probably now discovered, the spoiler you've posted has been blacked out so that it isn't accessible unless you quote your post. Heads up, just so you don't end up with a warning for that in the future, k?

I follow Darren on Twitter Jeff, so I may have a little more pull there:rotfl: I am sorry to disappoint, but if you get it all now, what's there to look forward to come Christmas time, right? As for your brain explosions, dear God, calm down boy!! It's no wonder when your brain wanders off with such thoughts, but gosh, if you need the drool cup, just say so:p.

Also, can I just say how much I am loving Twitter right now? I just sent Shay Mitchell a tweet wishing her a very happy birthday. How awesome is that? As long as she doesn't think I'm some crazy person, although everyone around here knows that to be true:rotfl:.

I cannot believe you've managed to cut down your celebrity crushes to a total of 9 Jeff. I don't even bother counting anymore; just when I think it's under control, someone else will usually catch my eye and then my attention. I won't even mention the latest for fear of being run out of this place due to my excessive insanity:lol:.

Finally:

"...There is a moment when you say to yourself 'Oh, there you are. I've been looking for you forever'."

Only one of the BEST 'Glee' moments EVER!

[rooting 4 clark]

I'm glad you are loving Twitter Sheridan. If you can't tell, I am an avid tweeter. I'm approaching 11,000 tweets :eek:

I also have been experiencing the having a thing for females more than males lately. Maybe it's because I have a girlfriend, or maybe all these female stars are just too damn sexy :rotfl: I mean Erica Durance, Nina Dobrev, Scarlett Johanssen, the list goes on. But I can't forget my sexy boys: Ian Somerhalder, Tom Welling, Jensen Ackles, Cory Monteith, Rupert Grint, etc. Both of these lists could go on forever :lol:

I feel the Born This Way episode will be like the Power of Madonna episode but it might focus more on maybe Artie and his disability or Kurt being gay or even Sanatana figuring out who she is. The episode sounds as if it will focus on those matters. Then again, Glee always tends to add a surprise, so we will have to see.

[Smallville_Angel]

I'm glad you are loving Twitter Sheridan. If you can't tell, I am an avid tweeter. I'm approaching 11,000 tweets :eek:

I also have been experiencing the having a thing for females more than males lately. Maybe it's because I have a girlfriend, or maybe all these female stars are just too damn sexy :rotfl: I mean Erica Durance, Nina Dobrev, Scarlett Johanssen, the list goes on. But I can't forget my sexy boys: Ian Somerhalder, Tom Welling, Jensen Ackles, Cory Monteith, Rupert Grint, etc. Both of these lists could go on forever :lol:

I feel the Born This Way episode will be like the Power of Madonna episode but it might focus more on maybe Artie and his disability or Kurt being gay or even Sanatana figuring out who she is. The episode sounds as if it will focus on those matters. Then again, Glee always tends to add a surprise, so we will have to see.

From the speculation I have read Heather, you might be in for a surprise. I think the focus may shift, less Artie (that's been done last season) and maybe a little less Kurt (not that I don't love him as a character, but we're pretty familiar with his story). Maybe a little more Kurt / Blaine wouldn't go astray, especially after their first kiss. I'm certainly becoming a fan of Kurt and Blaine - Kurt deserves to be happy, after all.

[rooting 4 clark]

Hmm, maybe more focus on Mercedes and Tina? I couldn't tell you until of course the episode airs. And silly me, I thought new epsiodes of Glee returned tonight :( I guess I can wait another week :p

[JB1986]

Well, I think my brain has healed after the explosions. I may be needing that drool cup in the future, so I'll let you all know. :p

I'm really loving Twitter too. Its pretty fun. I also follow Darren Criss as well as Trevor Donovan, Jessica Stroup, Mandy Moore, Christina Aguilera, and Britney Spears plus a few others. I'm not a huge Tweeter, but I'm still finding my footing there.

It took some work to cut my crushes down to those nine. Sacrifices had to be made. Not that they're any less hot, but I figured I should try to control myself a tad. Notice how I say "try." I guarantee nothing. :lol:

[rooting 4 clark]

It took some work to cut my crushes down to those nine. Sacrifices had to be made. Not that they're any less hot, but I figured I should try to control myself a tad. Notice how I say "try." I guarantee nothing. :lol:

I can't "try" Jeff :rotfl: Its just way too hard and I'm just to greedy! I need them all! :lol:

[Smallville_Angel]

I can't "try" Jeff :rotfl: Its just way too hard and I'm just to greedy! I need them all! :lol:

I guess that makes the three of us very greedy people then, because I can't really cut down on my list either!:lol: It keeps growing, and growing, and growing and.... you get the picture.

Jeff, give me a shout and I'll hand back the drool cup. Pretty sure I am the last person to have used it.:p;)

I've heard some speculation about the upcoming Glee stories, one in particular that left me hoping that it was some sick, twisted April Fool's joke. I obviously won't spoil anything, but I think we're set for a few more surprises before the season ends. All I can say is that by season's end, I am hoping for a few things:
1. Santana and Sam = OVER! Does he not realise that she's a lesbian, or does that simply not bother him? Drop the guy quickly girl; you can do so much better.
2. Finn and Quinn = BARF! Hate it, hate it, hate it. How about singledom for Quinn? After all, she's hardly proving herself to be any sort of Bible abiding teenager with her relationship track record (e.g. unfaithfulness, teenage, unwed pregnancy).
3. Artie, break up with Brittany already! You're ruining what could be the best thing to have happened to Glee, outside of Blaine and Kurt of course.:p

[JB1986]

I like the things you listed as to what you want to see on "Glee," Sheridan. Honestly, they really need to do something to make Sam interesting. I think he was supposed to be gay in the beginning, or so I read online anyway. But they changed it since he supposedly had great chemistry with Dianna Agron. I don't see his great chemistry with her. Dianna Agron is awesome and gives Quinn lots of personality, yet Sam just bores the heck out of me. Oh well, at least since Sam isn't gay, we got Blaine. Woot! :p I do have some suggestions for "Glee" for the rest of the season as well. :)

1. ENOUGH Rachel/Finn/Sam/Quinn relationship "drama." It's getting boring. Just break all of them up and have all of them be single for awhile. Seriously, they don't *need* to be in relationships all the time.

2. Bring Kurt back to "New Directions" and bring Blaine with him. (I have a feeling something like this might happen, though.)

3. Santana & Brittany MUST happen! There are so many story possibilities if they make this relationship happen.

4. Get Artie & Tina back together. I loved them together, they were sweet together. I like Artie & Brittany too, but I like Brittany with Santana so much more, so this way, everybody wins. Maybe they can have Mike Chang and Mercedes hook up. Heck, it would at least give Mercedes something to do this season!

5. Do something with the Karofsky is in the closet story. Have him come out, and seek out Kurt and/or Blaine for advice.

6. Enough Sue Sylvester. I get that she's a big favorite and all, but they haven't developed her character at all this year. Just scale her back some. Her storylines are just getting old and predictable.

On another note, I was recommended the show "Queer As Folk" to watch. It hasn't come in the mail yet, but I'll let you all know what I think of it when I watch it. It's supposed to be good. :)

[Smallville_Angel]

Chord Overstreet and Dianna Agron, great chemistry. Pfft. Pardon me, but beyond the moment the two performed 'Lucky' together and maybe at a stretch, '(I've Had) The Time Of My Life', there's no chemistry, or not enough that it warrants Sam and Quinn winding up together in what was a rather painful relationship to watch, really. I find it such a rush job - a few weeks, if that, into the relationship and she's accepting the ring and he's proposing marriage to her (even if it is in the distant future). The gesture is cute enough, but Sam seems pretty desperate to hold onto Quinn in that moment, perhaps because he can't believe she might actually be attracted to him (something I pondered - what the heck did someone as beautiful and with personality plus see in someone as bland (dare I say insipid?) and boring as Sam). I read that he was suppose be the gay character, too Jeff, although I guess we can count ourselves lucky that decision went astray or else the magnificence that is Darren Criss might never have been introduced. Let's face it: he's much better looking, can sing only about 100 times better then Chord and Blaine's chemistry with Kurt is believable.

I am glad you liked my list Jeff. I have one more request: I'd really like to see more of Sue and her sister spending time together. I think that is a very sweet relationship and I think it really brings out the softer, more human side of Sue, minus the coldness, cruelness, nastiness, well, minus the bite, really. I do wish she'd stop manipulating Becky, though - sure, she might have taken somewhat of a shine to Becky because she kind of understands, but my gosh does she have that girl wrapped around her finger. I feel sorry for Becky, because otherwise she could be a very interesting character, were it not for the fact she lacks essence otherwise because we really only see her nowadays as "Sue's sidekick". Also, maybe a little more exploration of Brittany's softer, vulnerable side; you know, not so much the innocent Brittany, but the Brittany who could see past Artie's disability and still fall in love with him (that said: terminate that relationship pronto!) and befriended Becky despite the fact that the other cheerleaders laughed at her for it. She's such a sweet girl with her heart in the right place really, and I am enjoying seeing that, because nasty Brittany was little more than Santana's sidekick. At least now Brittany's her own character and stands on her own two feet, minus Santana. I only hope she doesn't go back to nasty Brit should she (fingers crossed) end up in a relationship with Santana.

And that's my 'Glee' rant over and done with, for now at least. You really should know not to get me started on 'Glee' by now guys. :rotfl::p;)

[rooting 4 clark]

I would like to see:

1. Finn and Rachel get back together or have Finn or Rachel meet someone new
2. Brittany and Sanatan get together; sorry Artie :(
3. Find someone for Mercedes
4. I agree with Jeff, out Karovsky!
5. Bring Kurt back to New Directions, but I think Blaine should stay with the Warbblers
6. Emma and Mr. Shuester need to be together!
7. Let New Directions win Nationals!

On another note, today was A Day of Silence at my university. I always miss this day somehow, but I had plenty of friends who participated in this event. It is a great ooportunity to rest your voice and let your actions speak louder than your words. This is a chance to silently speak up for all GLBT teens who have taken or lost thier lives because of their sexual orinetation.

[JB1986]

Well, last night's "Glee" was pretty good, I thought. There was quite a bit that I really enjoyed. First of all, and most importantly, my man Cheyenne Jackson guest starred as Dustin Ghoulsby. Seriously, he just oozed sex. Personally, I wanted to push Holly Holliday out of the way and have my way with him. :lol: Secondly, that scene in the hallway with Blaine, Kurt, Karofsky, and Santana was the best scene in the whole episode. My girl Santana is becoming too awesome for words. I can't wait to see where this is going to go. And I also like the Holly Holliday character. I think Gwyneth Paltrow has been a good guest star on the show. But seriously, the "Legion Of Doom" (okay, the name cracked me up) thing with Sue is just stupid. Like I said before, her storylines are getting old and repetitive. If Cheyenne weren't in that scene I probably would have tuned out. And Terri and Sandy are back why? Ugh. They kinda wore out their welcome with me back in Season One. Okay, that's it for my rant.

So, I've been watching "Queer As Folk," and man is this show good. I like that it feels realistic. I'm up to episode 12, and I already care about the characters. Seriously, I wanted to yell at the Michael character for being so hung up on Brian, yet not seeing how good David is for him. That's the surefire way to tell I like a show, I get really invested in the characters.

[jon-el87]

A ridiculous bill has been passed in the state of Tennessee, by a vote of 6-3. The bill in question seeks to make saying the words “gay” or “homosexuality”, let alone discussing the topics, illegal in Tennessee schools. Apparently, society is going backwards instead of forwards.:mad::mad: And what do they hope to accomplish with this bill (that'll be a law in no time)? Not talking about something, doesn't make it go away. In fact, it only makes things worse.

[rooting 4 clark]

A ridiculous bill has been passed in the state of Tennessee, by a vote of 6-3. The bill in question seeks to make saying the words “gay” or “homosexuality”, let alone discussing the topics, illegal in Tennessee schools. Apparently, society is going backwards instead of forwards.:mad::mad: And what do they hope to accomplish with this bill (that'll be a law in no time)? Not talking about something, doesn't make it go away. In fact, it only makes things worse.

This is beyond ridiculous! Gay and homosexuality are words that are a part of life. Trying to ban them is not going to change people or the way life is. Next thing you know they will want to ban lesbian, bisexual, and transgender. They need to ban straight and heterosexual :rotfl:

[JB1986]

A ridiculous bill has been passed in the state of Tennessee, by a vote of 6-3. The bill in question seeks to make saying the words “gay” or “homosexuality”, let alone discussing the topics, illegal in Tennessee schools. Apparently, society is going backwards instead of forwards.:mad::mad: And what do they hope to accomplish with this bill (that'll be a law in no time)? Not talking about something, doesn't make it go away. In fact, it only makes things worse.

(Smack head. Okay, that hurt.) Seriously?! This is just beyond stupid. What, did we go back in time and its 1955? Did I miss that memo? Memo to self: do not go to Tennessee. Do not even think about stepping foot in Tennessee. Okay, so I pretty much want to avoid most southern states. Well, there's another state I would never want to live in. Canada looks better and better everyday. :mad::mad::mad:

I'm gonna go in a different direction now to something far more fluffy, fun, and that doesn't make me want to smack myself on the head. Because frankly, that's really starting to hurt. People's homophobic stupidity makes my head hurt. I just finished reading Tina Fey's book "Bossypants." It was so good, I couldn't put it down. I love Tina Fey, she's so funny. Here are some funny clips from one of my favorite comedies ever that she wrote, "Mean Girls:"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ezXiaHydkAU&feature=related

And of course, this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_cf9NqaZ4fw

I leave with this. I was leafing through a magazine and saw the sexiness that is Joe Mangeniello in it. "True Blood" needs to get here, ASAP. So, I just had to do this:

http://lastheplace.com/images/article-images/1aLatest2008Writers/1Oct/Jane/Joe%20M/usefinal.jpg
:p

[Smallville_Angel]

'Glee' returns to Australian screens next Wednesday, 4th May, at 8.30pm and I can barely wait!

Jeff, I have to rave! You purchased The Warblers album yet? If not, please do! OMG, Darren Criss, OMG! That voice, that voice. The album is nothing short of amazing. I think it is now among my favourite Glee music. I am listening to it for the first time now, and I am so impressed with Darren's vocals, because although the songs have (for the most part, bar the last 3 tracks) aired here, on album, only about 100 times better. 'Somewhere Only We Know' - wow! I was blown away listening to that one! And there's a treat for you that may well blow your mind Jeff; a little song called 'Do You Think I'm Sexy?' - I can only imagine where your mind might end up with that one:p. And no, I ask you not to share, thanks:lol:. We don't need to be ever so traumatised:p

[rooting 4 clark]

I've heard bits and pieces of the Warblers album and will definietly be downloading most of the tracks! By the way, the "Born this Way" episode was AMAZING! A facebook friend of mine knows someone who is selling a particular item from that epsiode. I won't spoil it for Sheridan, but you may know what I'm talking about after you see the episode.

And oh yes Jeff, I am dying for True Blood to return! I love me some Alexander Skarsgard aka Eric ;)

[JB1986]

I LOVED the "Born This Way" episode! I thought it was pretty epic, myself. What happened with Quinn (not spoiling it) made me respect her a little bit more. Rachel freaking out about her nose was pretty vain, but hey, its Rachel. I can't wait to find out what happens next with Kurt and especially Karofsky. That'll be interesting. Blaine singing Keane's "Somewhere Only We Know" was excellent. That's just a great song, anyway. And man, Santana owned every scene she was in. I loved her line "The only thing straight about me is that I'm a straight-up (you know what)." Loved that line! The "Barbara-vention" was hysterical. And New Direction's performance was "Born This Way" was pretty terrific. Kurt owned that song. He rocked the spiked hair and "Likes Boys" T-shirt. Awesome! :)

No Sheridan, I haven't gotten to download The Warblers album yet, but I'm about to. Can't wait! :)

I'm reopening Jeff's Movie Review Corner for a brief review. I finally got to see "Scream 4" yesterday. I loved the first three "Scream" movies, so I was anticipating this one. I pretty much enjoyed it. It wasn't really scary, I just jumped a few times. It was pretty fun to guess when the killer was gonna pop out. I think its my least favorite "Scream" movie overall, but it was still good. Next up on my list is "Dylan Dog: Dead Of Night." Why? Three reasons: 1. It looks like fun. The undead promises to at least offer some fun. 2. Brandon Routh is freaking FINE. 3. Sam Huntington is pretty fine as well. :p

[Smallville_Angel]

I have almost another two weeks to wait until 'Born This Way' airs here, although I do know a few little things about the episode thanks to a friend who spilt before I had the chance to tell her the episode is yet to air here. I've heard rave reviews about it, and I am looking forward to it airing here, largely because I cannot wait to see Blaine's spine tingling performance of 'Somewhere Only We Know'. I couldn't resist checking that out on Youtube (after listening to it on 'The Warblers' album) and damn Darren Criss - I had a tear in my eye! That is what we call flawless - I don't think he can do any wrong. I've also had great things about New Direction's performance of 'Born This Way', but I am not going to spoil that one for myself. I'd rather wait to see - it builds the excitement and suspense, really. I've heard that there's one hell of a twist involving Quinn, which I am not so sure I like the sound of, but I will have to wait to see what is happening with that, because I'll be damned if I spoil it for myself ahead of time.

Anyway, Jeff, download the album and take a listen. I think you'll really enjoy it, and as I said, I really think you're in for a treat with 'Do You Think I'm Sexy?'. Darren singing that and you listening - it might be as close as you'll get to that dream for now, but I'll see if I can bribe Darren for your birthday lmao:lol: I know how much you want him to serenade you:p

I thought, seeing as we're reviewing movies and discussing TV that I'd raise my love of 'The Vampire Diaries'. Heather, are you still watching? We're one episode behind - season 2, episode 18 aired here last night ('The Last Dance'). I love how the suspense and thrills have grown through out the season. I was literally shouting at the TV last night when it looked like Bonnie had been killed off (partly because I'm kind of liking the whole Bonnie / Jeremy thing). And yes, you'll hate me for it Heather, but I was cheering when Elena slapped Damon across the face and was actually happy to see that she'd left a mark; gosh, Damon can be such an idiot at times. I'm still loving Stefan, but I am beginning to realise that Damon is pretty hell bent on shaking those foundations - he made it so obvious with his comments about putting Elena first every time that he is anything but over her. I am interested to see what's going to happen with Elijah - I was surprised to see Elena remove the dagger, but it kind of makes sense in the bigger picture, actually. I can't believe the season is almost over, though. Looks like it'll be back to the season 1 DVD for me to tie me over during that hiatus.:lol:

[rooting 4 clark]

Oh, I am still watching Vampire Diaries, Sheridan! I like the Bonnie/Jeremy relationship alot and was freaking out when I though Bonnie had died! Elena is constantly slapping Damon, but when Damon told Elena "I will always choose you." I nearly fainted! Damon is beyond sexy and he is so far in love with Elena that he can never dig himself out of the whole his heart is in.

I read somewhere on Twitter that a journalist described the "Born This Way" episode of Glee to be another one of Ryan Murphy's salute to homosexuality, or something along those lines. I tweeted the article so, I'll go through my tweets and find the article and post it here.

[Smallville_Angel]

Oh, I am still watching Vampire Diaries, Sheridan! I like the Bonnie/Jeremy relationship alot and was freaking out when I though Bonnie had died! Elena is constantly slapping Damon, but when Damon told Elena "I will always choose you." I nearly fainted! Damon is beyond sexy and he is so far in love with Elena that he can never dig himself out of the whole his heart is in.

I read somewhere on Twitter that a journalist described the "Born This Way" episode of Glee to be another one of Ryan Murphy's salute to homosexuality, or something along those lines. I tweeted the article so, I'll go through my tweets and find the article and post it here.

It's Dianna Agron's birthday and guess who just tweeted wishing her a wonderful day?:lol: The joys of finally being connected to Twitter:p

Funny you should mention that about Damon, Heather, because I was thinking the same. He is so pathetically in love with her that he has no hope of ever digging himself out of that hole, but I still say that Stefan is the one for her. Then again, that might have something to do with a certain HOT actor (no, you're never going to convert me to team Damon!:p). I am so glad Bonnie didn't end up dying - I think I would have thrown something at the TV had that happened. I am so sick of characters being killed off left, right and centre, though, and actually, I get sick of Stefan and Damon ending up injured in some way, shape or form every other week. There is nothing new or exciting in that anymore, because you sit down and just know that chances are the episode will end with at least one of them having been stabbed - it's too predictable. And lately, you just know that there will be another twist and turn in the romance between Caroline and Matt (frankly, NOT a fan of that one). However, apart from these few predictables, I must say I am enjoying this season much more then season 1.

'Born This Way' = salute to homosexuality. Does that mean that maybe there will be more insight into Santana's lesbianism? YEAH! I say bring on Brittana, and give me more Klaine! I am loving Klaine, in case you hadn't already worked that out:rotfl: Bring on May 4th - 2 days and 21 hours until 'Glee' returns to screen here. YIPPEE!:D

[rooting 4 clark]

This is the link to the article I mentioned earlier: http://tv.msn.com/tv/article.aspx?news=643537

[jon-el87]

Been thinking some more about the Tennesse situation. As they've banned the word "gay", they're not allowed to show a movie where an actor/actress is named "Gay" (Marcia Gay Harden, Lisa Gay Hamilton). Assuming they have any, they'll have to remove all books by Gay Talese and Gay Hendricks. Along with the music of Australian singer, Gay Kayler. Teachers can't say the name, of the plane that dropped the Atomic Bomb on Hiroshima (Enola Gay). And what about students, who's last name is Gay? (not kidding, there are people, who's last name is "Gay".) Should it be viewed as a criminal act, to say their surname or full name? How will the teachers handle attendence, if they can't even say the kid's name, without being fired?

And let's not forget old movies. They wouldn't be able to show them. In the Mummy, one of the three men at the begining speculates that Imhotep was punished for being "too gay, with the Pharo's daughters". And then there's this scene in "The gang's all here": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flfB4PGBHhE&feature=feedlik (sure, the meaning of the word was diffrent back then, but I don't think they'd overlook it because of that).

[JB1986]

Been thinking some more about the Tennesse situation. As they've banned the word "gay", they're not allowed to show a movie where an actor/actress is named "Gay" (Marcia Gay Harden, Lisa Gay Hamilton). Assuming they have any, they'll have to remove all books by Gay Talese and Gay Hendricks. Along with the music of Australian singer, Gay Kayler. Teachers can't say the name, of the plane that dropped the Atomic Bomb on Hiroshima (Enola Gay). And what about students, who's last name is Gay? (not kidding, there are people, who's last name is "Gay".) Should it be viewed as a criminal act, to say their surname or full name? How will the teachers handle attendence, if they can't even say the kid's name, without being fired?

And let's not forget old movies. They wouldn't be able to show them. In the Mummy, one of the three men at the begining speculates that Imhotep was punished for being "too gay, with the Pharo's daughters". And then there's this scene in "The gang's all here": http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=flfB4PGBHhE&feature=feedlik (sure, the meaning of the word was diffrent back then, but I don't think they'd overlook it because of that).

Yeah, I was wondering about that too. This law is just crap. Two examples from movies are in "Enchanted" where Giselle sings "To that gay refrain of a happy working song," or in "King Kong" where Fay Wray says the line "What queer looking boats." Would those be edited or something? Stupidity reigns supreme. :mad:

I did download the "Glee Presents The Warblers" album, and I of course loved it. Darren Criss can serenade me anytime. :)

Also, today is a historic day in the United States. in case you haven't heard, Osama Bin Laden is dead. I for one am very happy that this murderer of thousands is finally dead. Its taken 9 and a half years, Bin Laden got what he deserved, if you ask me.

[jon-el87]

Yeah, I heard about it on the news this morning. Hopefully, this'll be the start of a better world.

[rooting 4 clark]

As a New Yorker, I am more than happy that they got bin Laden. I remember I was in the 4th grade when 9/11 happened and the city was very chaotic. I know the war is far from over, but this good bit of news sparked patriotism in people again.

[JB1986]

I remember September 11, 2001 quite vividly. I was a freshman in High School, and I was in science class at the time. We watched it live on TV when the towers fell. I remember the rest of the day feeling very surreal. I certainly remember September 11, 2001, but I'm sure I'll remember May 1, 2011 for a much happier reason. It was nice to feel patriotic again.

What did you guys think of the Glee "Rumours" episode? I thought it was pretty good, for the most part. I liked it, for the most part. I think April Rhodes was wasted a little bit (there just isn't alot that can be done with her character, unfortunately) and of course Sue wants to destroy the "Glee" club yet again. Does she have nothing better to do? On the plus side, Sam's story was kind of sad, but I liked what they did with it. Them singing songs from Fleetwood Mac's "Rumours" album was fantastic. The album is a classic. I'm so happy I already had it, since the episode made me want to listen to it again. The "Fondue For Two" segment was hilarious, and Lord Tubbington was too cute! :D The best part of the episode though was Santana singing "Songbird." I really felt for her when she sang this. Gorgeous is the only way I can describe it. Here it is:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XYlam1OyXSA

So here we are again in Jeff's Movie Review Corner. Like I said last time, I'll be doing a brief review of "Dylan Dog: Dead Of Night." I think I'm one of about ten people who have seen this movie. Unfortunately, its bombing in theaters, and getting unkind reviews. But did I personally enjoy it? YES! It was a fun, cheesy, somewhat campy, B-Grade creature feature. I went in knowing what to expect, and I had a blast. Not every movie can be an Oscar winner. Besides, the pickings are slim right now. (I'm personally waiting for "Cars 2" and "Harry Potter And The Deathly Hallows: Part II" to come out.) Brandon Routh made a great comedic straight man, kicked some undead butt, and looked drop-dead sexy while doing it. Sam Huntington was also hilarious in this. Overall, I enjoyed myself alot, and will be buying it when it comes out on video. And one final thing before I go:
http://img.listal.com/image/615658/600full-brandon-routh.jpg
Can't really blame me for liking the movie, can you? :lol::p

[Smallville_Angel]

Less than 24 hours until 'Born This Way' airs and I am awaiting 8.30 tomorrow night to sit down in front of the TV and not budge for the next hour and a half. I am growing more and more excited by the prospect of more Klaine and hopefully more exploration of Santana's sexuality. I am waiting for the BIG twist with Quinn, although I am thinking this twist might blow out storylines, because if we're all absolutely honest, this season has had some rather cheesy, tacky stories, really. If even a die hard Gleek can admit this, then the show is going down hill in some ways. That said, in the hiatus period I had plenty opportunity to re-watch the earlier part of the season and join discussions about the plots, stories and characters, and once I joined Twitter, well, now I'm following almost the entire Glee cast:rotfl:. I love that Naya Nivera tweets almost daily, I am of course checking in with Dianna Agron's tweets as regularly as I can manage and I am listening to 'The Warblers' album on high rotation to feed my obsession, too!:lol:

Anyway, I cannot locate the article now (serves me right for not bookmarking it) but a few days ago I found an interesting article on the exploration of teenage sexuality and sexual identity dating back to the days of Willow and Tara on Buffy - The Vampire Slayer (interesting for me as this was my first real exposure to homosexuality in popular culture). It basically explored and provided insight into the homosexual relationships represented in numerous American TV shows since the year 2000 in comparison to those represented in Australian TV, and being a fan of certain Australian shows that have shown homosexuality (however limited and weak in comparison to the US) over the years, I found it to be extremely interesting.

It basically started by stating the Alyson Hannigan and Amber Benson essentially broke new ground by portraying a lesbian teenaged couple in Buffy, although it did bring about questions of Willow's sexual orientation (the bisexual / lesbian question was no way implied by the author - it was explicit, clear as day that the author was herself questioning this). It mentioned how 'All My Children' also broke new ground, but didn't go into this extensively, for whatever reason. It touched on issues of non-acceptance, for example the struggle between mother and son portrayed in 'Desperate Housewives' when Andrew Van De Camp revealed he was gay to mother Bree. There was even mention of 'Glee', although surprisingly, despite Kurt being very open about his sexual orientation, the author focused more on Santana and Brittany and the chance that Santana would one day realise she was gay (obviously written before current episodes). Didn't I just about fall on the floor laughing when the author suggested that perhaps Brittany's promiscuity might have been the direct result of unresolved sexual feelings towards Santana (unresolved insofar as their flirtation has not yet developed into a serious exploration of feelings, or so the author argues). Oh, if only Brittana became reality - this Gleek would be one happy woman between Klaine and Brittana:rotfl:.

I'll see if I can find the link, but won't promise it. I am honestly stuffed if I can even remember exactly how I came across it! Lucked out with a search more than likely, so will see if I can pull it up again for you all.

On a side note, Jeff, could you please send me your Twitter account address so I can follow you?! I sent you a PM on FB but obviously you either didn't receive it or haven't checked into FB lately (don't worry if you haven't).

[Smallville_Angel]

http://www.thewrap.com/media/article/glee-star-naya-rivera-host-glaad-media-awards-27084

Had to share this with you all because I think it's wonderful news.

[rooting 4 clark]

The Prom episode of Glee aired here yesterday. I must say Prom King and Queen came as a total shock! The whole episode kept my eyes bulging out of my head! You are in for a real treat Sheridan :D

I think it's fitting that Naya Rivera hosts the GLAAD awards. Her portrayal as Santana and her struggle with her sexuality is a plot line that is very relatable to many. Maybe Chris Colfer can host next year? :p

[JB1986]

Sheridan, I'll PM you my Twitter address. I apologize for not being on Facebook really at all lately. To be honest, I've been working so much, when I come home, I swear I can't even think straight. (Yes, pun completely intended. I'm too gay to think straight. :lol:)

That sounds like an interesting article. "Buffy The Vampire Slayer" was truly a groundbreaking show. The last 11 years have brought us some groundbreaking shows that deal with homosexuality in a mature manner. "Buffy The Vampire Slayer," "Queer As Folk," "Sex And The City" (the Stanford character, plus Samantha did get involved briefly with a woman), "90210" (when my darling Teddy actually gets screen time!) "True Blood," and "Glee" have all been great for LGBT visibility. "Buffy" did help to break down barriers on network TV. Here were Willow and Tara acting like gay people actually act. It wasn't scandalous, it was completely normal. I think watching "Buffy" helped my decision to come out a little bit. I didn't see the show until it had been off the air for years, but better late than never. :)

The Prom "Glee" episode was awesome. I was moved when I didn't expect to be. And yes, Prom King & Queen were a total shock. I loved that episode so much. It makes sense that Naya Rivera will be hosting the GLAAD awards. Santana's storyline has been one of the season's most unexpected and most wonderful surprises. I want her and Brittany to be together SO badly! :D

[rooting 4 clark]

I just want to say how sad I am now that Smallville has ended its 10 year run :( The show is what brought me here to Kryptonsite, but I have grown up so much since I have joined. I have joined this forum and met all you amazing people here in this thread! Smallville may be over, but I will contimue to remain on KSite for more news about the cast, other shows KSite supports and most importantly this thread, because you guys are like a family to me.

Didn't mean to get all sappy, but I've been in a sappy mood since the finale.

[Smallville_Angel]

Sheridan, I'll PM you my Twitter address. I apologize for not being on Facebook really at all lately. To be honest, I've been working so much, when I come home, I swear I can't even think straight. (Yes, pun completely intended. I'm too gay to think straight. :lol:)

That sounds like an interesting article. "Buffy The Vampire Slayer" was truly a groundbreaking show. The last 11 years have brought us some groundbreaking shows that deal with homosexuality in a mature manner. "Buffy The Vampire Slayer," "Queer As Folk," "Sex And The City" (the Stanford character, plus Samantha did get involved briefly with a woman), "90210" (when my darling Teddy actually gets screen time!) "True Blood," and "Glee" have all been great for LGBT visibility. "Buffy" did help to break down barriers on network TV. Here were Willow and Tara acting like gay people actually act. It wasn't scandalous, it was completely normal. I think watching "Buffy" helped my decision to come out a little bit. I didn't see the show until it had been off the air for years, but better late than never. :)

The Prom "Glee" episode was awesome. I was moved when I didn't expect to be. And yes, Prom King & Queen were a total shock. I loved that episode so much. It makes sense that Naya Rivera will be hosting the GLAAD awards. Santana's storyline has been one of the season's most unexpected and most wonderful surprises. I want her and Brittany to be together SO badly! :D

It is so funny that you should mention that watching 'Buffy' helped you make your decision about your sexuality. I was all of about 10 or 11 when Willow and Tara were pretty much mainstreamed into popular culture and I didn't really understand lesbianism, per se. I understood enough to realise that here were two women who were very much in love with one another, and it kind of broke my heart when Tara was murdered, to be blunt. It ticked me off to see Kennedy move in on Willow because as far as I was concerned, Willow was Tara's girl. And I was glued to the screen as Willow went crazy following Tara's death. I think, with the benefit of hindsight, this story may well have acted as my introduction to other possibilities. Hell, at that young age I'd never had a crush on a guy, so I could not know, but as the years passed it became obvious that I was attracted to girls as well.

'Born This Way' aired here last week. Loved it! A MAJOR step forward for Santana, but at the same point, I felt it was a step backwards because she's now hiding after Brittany put herself out there. I understand why Santana did it, but hiding from that, running from it, it's obvious Britt adores her and would be with her in a heartbeat but Britt also is in such a hard place because she loves Artie and doesn't want to hurt him. I hope it resolves because I'd be so disappointed to go out season 3 without some Brittana. I am also hoping for more Klaine - it would be the death of me if there's no more Klaine after Kurt's transfer back to McKinley. I wish Blaine could have seen Kurt perform 'Born This Way' - he would have had a heart attack to see his boyfriend like that!:lol: 'Somewhere Only We Know' - gorgeous. Still in love with that; so sad, but I managed to hold back the tears. Lea and Dianna on 'Unpretty / I Feel Pretty'; why haven't those two performed a duet before? Gorgeous. Still so in love with Dianna:lol:. The whole Lucy story - not too happy on that, because in my opinion, sure, it proved how insecure Quinn is deep down, but it also proved that she's willing to go to such drastic lengths and there is Lauren, a larger girl, but so comfortable with who she is and not afraid to show who she is. I kind of like that in Lauren - she's comfortable with herself, and doesn't need to change who she is. However, as much as I dislike Finn and Quinn back together, I thought it was so cute when he pulled out a photo of the old Quinn from his wallet and said it was the best picture of her; just goes to show that he loves her no matter what.

And Heather, just as a side not, you're never converting me to team Damon. After having watched 'The Last Day' earlier today (it aired at 11.50pm here last night, because the TV station is stuffing around with the final three eps.), I am more team Stefan than ever! I totally wanted to kiss him as Elena walked away ready for the sacrifice - the poor guy looked so totally heart broken. Damon on the other hand - yeah, my sympathy for him lasted about 10 mins., and then, I was half rooting for Stefan to hurt his brother, not the other way around (and damn Damon for hurting Stefan). Totally hooked and can't wait for the final 2 eps.; so suspenseful!

[rooting 4 clark]

Just wait until you see the finale of Vampire Diaries Sheridan! You may be seeing your precious Stefan in a whole new light ;)

[JB1986]

I just want to say how sad I am now that Smallville has ended its 10 year run :( The show is what brought me here to Kryptonsite, but I have grown up so much since I have joined. I have joined this forum and met all you amazing people here in this thread! Smallville may be over, but I will contimue to remain on KSite for more news about the cast, other shows KSite supports and most importantly this thread, because you guys are like a family to me.

Didn't mean to get all sappy, but I've been in a sappy mood since the finale.

Man, that finale was EPIC. I'm still reeling from it. For me, from beginning to end, it was perfect. I did shout "NO!" alot when it went to the commercial breaks. I was so excited at towards the end, I did say "Way to go, Superman!" once. :lol: Oh, and the ending really got me. It was just absolutely perfect. I owe alot to "Smallville." I feel the exact same way you do, Heather. Its because of "Smallville" that I came onto this forum and met all of you wonderful people. You all are like a family to me too. :)

[Smallville_Angel]

Just wait until you see the finale of Vampire Diaries Sheridan! You may be seeing your precious Stefan in a whole new light ;)

Shut up Heather! I don't want anything to tarnish the image of my oh-so precious Stefan! If he does anything near as stupid as his brother, I might just go totally gay for Elena:rotfl::p;)

[Smallville_Angel]

Shut up Heather! I don't want anything to tarnish the image of my oh-so precious Stefan! If he does anything near as stupid as his brother, I might just go totally gay for Elena:rotfl::p;)

Then again, with such HOT photos, yeah, I could totally turn gay for Elena. Nina Dobrev - drop dead gorgeous!

http://www.skinnyvscurvy.com/general/nina-dobrev-flare-magazine.html

http://dobrevfan.com/

Heather, you'll be happy to know that there's this little link on the Dobrev fansite that will lead should keep you more than happy for the time being:p.

[rooting 4 clark]

Shut up Heather! I don't want anything to tarnish the image of my oh-so precious Stefan! If he does anything near as stupid as his brother, I might just go totally gay for Elena:rotfl::p;)

:rotfl: :rotfl: Nina is drop dead gorgeous *no pun intended* Then again, I wouldn't mind becoming a vampire and being able to live forever with Damon ;)

In other news, a friend of mine has a friend who is transgender. Her friend has just decided to fully transform from a female to a male with surgery. My friend's parents found out and are completely disgusted and don't want my friend hanging out with her/him anymore. I think this is yet another example of how mean and ignorant people are. :(

[Smallville_Angel]

As 'Rumours' aired here last night, I thought I might offer my review on this episode, seeing as 'Glee' has become a very popular topic here. Firstly, I'd liked to congratulate Channel 10 (the channel responsible for airing 'Glee') for stuffing its viewers around and deciding that now is the time time to put Glee on hiatus (it'll return to our screen in a fortnight). I am not so sure I can survive a fortnight without my 'Glee' fix.

Anyway, I might not to too popular for saying that, but I feel there was really only one saving grace in the entire episode. Well, two, but only one that you're going to want to hear about, unless I demand that Jeff hand me the drool cup (and no, it wasn't a certain blonde cheerleader who had my heart racing, either:rotfl:;)). I was so happy to see that once Artie hurt Brittany, not only did the relationship end, but she kept her promise to Santana. I think that, in some ways, that was a step forward for Brittany because although she is not labelling her sexual identity and her sexuality, I think that, deep down, she realises that although she is attracted to men, she's also very attracted to Santana and would be proud to be in a relationship with her and call her her girlfriend. I was most disappointed when Santana bailed on Brittany and didn't show up for the filming of 'Fondue For Two'; whilst I understand why she did it, the way her eyes lit up when Brittany made that offer said it all; things were finally looking up for Santana Lopez and Brittany really did want to be her's, proudly so. I also loved how hurt poor Brittany looked when Santana declared she was in love with Karofsky and that he was her soul mate; nice way to stab poor Brittany through the heart! I actually hate the fact that Santana backflipped in that one moment: she started of by declaring that she was more in love with Brittany than ever and finished by not only denying herself the opportunity to attend prom with the girl she's so in love with but by hurting that girl almost as much as she'd originally hurt Santana. Yes, once again, I know why it happened, but I feel the need to say that at least Brittany knows who she is attracted to and isn't afraid of that.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nnpphGXh4c

That said, though, I did love this moment:D;).

As for the whole story with Sam, now I really don't like him as a character, but I felt a twinge of sympathy for him and his siblings. I think that, in many ways, he really stepped up to the plate and was doing the best he could under the circumstances and all he wanted was for his fellow New Directions members to leave him alone. The tears he shed when they bought back his guitar - it was nice to see that they not only realised how badly they'd stuff up, but that they went to such a length to try to brighten his day. That was sweet.

Anyway, I now have to wait two weeks until 'Prom' airs here, but I hear there's a few big twists and turns to look forward to before the season is out. And I hear that Jesse St. James is returning - ARGH! I really do hope that Rachel doesn't go there again; Jesse is nothing but trouble! Frankly, I'd love to see New Directions run him out of town. Oh, and I have my fingers crossed that there will be more Klaine before the season ends, and preferably more Brittana, too:p

[JB1986]

"Prom" was a great episode. Only two days until the season finale. I'm really excited for the finale. There are alot of things that I hope will happen. Mainly, I'm still rotting for Brittany & Santana to finally get together. :)

And yes, Jesse St. James is back. And while I liked him somewhat last season, now he's just mean and kinda stupid. I'm hoping New Directions gangs up on him, and kicks his butt to the curb. :lol:

Anyway, both Glee the Music: Volume Six and Lady Gaga's Born This Way both come out tomorrow. Honestly, I'm getting excited for both of them. I love having new music to listen to. Glee is always good, and alot of what I've heard about Born This Way makes me think I'll enjoy it. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

I can't believe the Glee finale is tomorrow! And better yet in my beautiful NYC! I was away at school when they were filming in the city, but if I were at home, I would have run down to Times Square and Central Park and I believe Lincoln Center to see them filming :rotfl:

On another note, I read an article in the paper Friday that said the Gay marriage Bill in NY is very unlikely to pass. I don't get it. I believe, if any states, NY and California, should definetly allow gay marriage! GLBT people have many parades and events and even parts of the city in NY have been dubbed dedicated to GLBT people. On a funny note, you can't get gayer than NY and California. :p

[Smallville_Angel]

"Prom" was a great episode. Only two days until the season finale. I'm really excited for the finale. There are alot of things that I hope will happen. Mainly, I'm still rotting for Brittany & Santana to finally get together. :)

And yes, Jesse St. James is back. And while I liked him somewhat last season, now he's just mean and kinda stupid. I'm hoping New Directions gangs up on him, and kicks his butt to the curb. :lol:

Anyway, both Glee the Music: Volume Six and Lady Gaga's Born This Way both come out tomorrow. Honestly, I'm getting excited for both of them. I love having new music to listen to. Glee is always good, and alot of what I've heard about Born This Way makes me think I'll enjoy it. :)

I went out searching for Glee The Music: Volume 6 today (it was released here today) without any luck. I was ever so disappointed because I was looking forward to chilling out tonight and listening to 'Songbird' on high rotation, but I've settled for 'Landslide' on repeat. It takes me right back to one of three of the stronger, more amazing moments of 'Glee' this season, and ironically, two of those moments have revolved around songs about birds:lol:.

Anyway, 'Prom' airs this coming Wednesday night, but I've had the misfortune of seeing the advertisement, and I say misfortune because of the near fatal mistake made when advertising this episode with the terrible song that is famous for all the wrong reasons. Rebecca Black's 'Friday' - someone tell me why the Glee cast would even give this one the time of day? I wouldn't be surprised to her that you could hear my screams all the way over there in the US:lol:.

P.S. Heather, you loving my avatar or what?:p:lol:

[rooting 4 clark]

I agree with you Sheirdan, I LOATHE the 'Friday' song. I want to forget about that song and I will definetly fast forward through that number when I buy the season 2 box set.

Oh, Sheridan your avatar is nothing compared to this:

[Smallville_Angel]

I agree with you Sheirdan, I LOATHE the 'Friday' song. I want to forget about that song and I will definetly fast forward through that number when I buy the season 2 box set.

Oh, Sheridan your avatar is nothing compared to this:

I still skip over the two Justin Beiber songs when I listen to the soundtrack, because I LOATHE him that much, and Chord Overstreet wasn't doing any favours to two songs that already make me want to scream because they drive me that insane! I'll be cringing the whole way through 'Friday' and then promptly fast forwarding through that horrid moment once I buy the DVD:lol:.

I do believe poor Jeff doesn't want to be privy to our shipper war Heather! Dear God, didn't we go completely mad and agree to disagree the other day? Hehe, that said, plenty of wonderful Stefan / Elena photos out there, just not so many that are small enough for me to use as my avatar (with K-Site's whole avatar size policy thing). I've been searching for something better, but most of the best photos are too big to use as my avatar:mad:.

[rooting 4 clark]

There was this one Damon and Elena avatar that showed their kiss from the finale over and over and over. I think that would have driven you mad if you had to come to this thread and see it until we moved on to the next page :p And, yes, let's keep our war off this thread for the sake of everyone else and stand by our agree to disagree motion :lol:

Also, New York's mayor, Michael Bloomberg, is devoting his time and money to pass the same sex marriage bill in New York. He even said it was none of the government's business who a person marries or loves. I agree with the mayor and hopefully he can get through to those voting on the bill.

[JB1986]

Well, its been a week since I've posted, but I'm back. And I have listened to "Born This Way" and "Glee The Music: Volume Six." I loved the "Glee" album, of course. I was thrilled that "Songbird" was on there. "Born This Way" was pretty good as well. Its not the best album of the decade or anything (as I heard Lady Gaga claimed it would be or something) but I did like it overall.

Sorry ladies, I really have no opinion on "The Vampire Diaries" ships. I've never even watched the show, so I have absolutely no idea what you guys are talking about. :lol: So I'm just gonna step aside and let you both duke it out. :)


Also, New York's mayor, Michael Bloomberg, is devoting his time and money to pass the same sex marriage bill in New York. He even said it was none of the government's business who a person marries or loves. I agree with the mayor and hopefully he can get through to those voting on the bill.

That's awesome news. Its good to know the New York mayor is so supportive. I hope same-sex marriage is legalized in New York. :)

[Smallville_Angel]

Well, its been a week since I've posted, but I'm back. And I have listened to "Born This Way" and "Glee The Music: Volume Six." I loved the "Glee" album, of course. I was thrilled that "Songbird" was on there. "Born This Way" was pretty good as well. Its not the best album of the decade or anything (as I heard Lady Gaga claimed it would be or something) but I did like it overall.

Sorry ladies, I really have no opinion on "The Vampire Diaries" ships. I've never even watched the show, so I have absolutely no idea what you guys are talking about. :lol: So I'm just gonna step aside and let you both duke it out. :)



That's awesome news. Its good to know the New York mayor is so supportive. I hope same-sex marriage is legalized in New York. :)

Hi there stranger! Where the hell did you get to? I've missed you around here.

You're a smart man Jeff. Let Heather and I duke it out - eventually, one of us will wear down and simply step away. Anyway, I think to some extent our shipper war is no longer about the Salvatore brothers themselves, but rather their portrayers. And Heather and I will definitely have to agree to disagree on that one because hell will freeze over before she gets me to jump ship and become an Ian Somehalder fan; sorry to disappoint Heather:rotfl: Well, actually, not sorry really, but whatever.

You'll never guess what I am listening to as I type this Jeff? I finally got my hands on a copy today, after the store sold out on release date last Friday. Not my favourite of the 'Glee' albums, I must admit, and shoot me for saying so, but weak compared to some of the others, but still have a favourite one it. Anyone care to venture a guess at what said fav. might be? ;) Still not 'I Feel Pretty / Unpretty' but it pales in comparison to my fav. on this album!:p

Count down to new episode of 'Glee', too - just under 23 hours. Two weeks without 'Glee' was too much for me - I am dying to see this season out but will probably die during hiatus because I'm so much more addicted than I was this time season 1.

And OMG, I just died and went to Heaven. My fav. is playing and this girl is in love! Damn you 'Glee' and your attractive cast! No, no, damn me for never being able to watch a show and not end up crushing on someone:rotfl:.

[rooting 4 clark]

Jeff, good to see you're still out there :lol:

Sheridan, we will really have to agree to disagree about Ian and Paul, because Ian Somerhalder is SEX. (Drool cup ASAP! :rotfl:) Paul Wesley does have crazy, delicious abs, but Ian will always be first in my eyes. But, let's agree to diagree :p

Has anyone heard about the Canadian couple who will not reveal their baby's sex, because they want their baby to grow up free of gender stereotypes? Psychologists interviewed on one news program I saw said something along the lines of there is no gender equality and that this baby will grow up confused in its identity and sexual orientation. Opinions? Thoughts?

[whimsy]

I'm new in town and the first place I find is the gay bar! Figures :P My name's Lucy, and I'm very LGBT orientated. I do volunteer work for LGBT youth organisations and half my family are gay one way or another. I'm bi, and am always very open-minded.

[rooting 4 clark]

I'm new in town and the first place I find is the gay bar! Figures :P

:lol: It's nice to see a new face in the thread! Welcome Lucy! I'm Heather :)

On another note, the first transgender prom queen in a U.S. public high school was elected last night. Here's the artilce: http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/43230133/ns/today-today_people/t/transgender-student-makes-history-prom-night/?gt1=43001

[whimsy]

Hey, thanks Heather :) It's nice to be here.

That's amazing! She's really hot. I'm glad more people voted for her to be Prom Queen than the people who wanted it kept 'traditional'. I'm too emotional recently, that actually nearly made me cry!

[rooting 4 clark]

It still amazes me how people were signing petitions saying she wasn't allowed to run. Who was she hurting? No one.

[jon-el87]

^^Reminds me of two cases. One is Isis King on America's Next Top Model, at least one of the other contestents expressed an opinion that she shouldn't be allowed to compete, because she was a man. The other one was about a lesbian couple, who were going to prom, both wanting to wear beautiful dresses, but were told by the prom commitee that one of them would have to wear a tuxido and have her hair up (basically, to get her to look like a bloke). Neither situation would've harmed anyone, yet some folks had a problem with it. Then there's another case, in Sweden, where a pet shop owner refused to sell a cat to a lesbian woman (what was he scared would happen, if she got a cat?).

Though, in this case, I have no doubt the core reason for the petition, was the other candidates wanting to rid themselves of the competition, so they resorted to dirty tricks.

Regarding the kid in Canada. I always find it amusing, that "experts" shows up out of thin air, whenever anything happens, that revolves around children. The kid will not have any identity problem, nor be insecure about his/her sexuality. Your identity is not linked to your gender, nor more than it's to nationality or ethnic background. The kid will know his or her gender (it's not like that would be difficult for the kid to find out if he/she would wanna know one day), it just won't be part of public record. As the parents doesn't want their child's life to be guided/ruled over by stereotypical gender roles, set by society. The idea that boys and girls are only allowed to like specific colours. That boys should only participate in "manly" activities (such as sports), while girls are to participate in "womenly" activities. And that there's something wrong with a boy taking for instance ballet or a girl playing sports.

[rooting 4 clark]

^^
First these schools don't want lesbian couples coming to the prom. Then, they want to make one girl "be the man" in the relationship and be butch, etc. The school should stop punishing these teens for being with people they love or are attracted to. As long as they are not hurting anyone or being innapropriate-and the REAL definition of these terms should be based on bad behavior, violence, nudity, etc. (to be blunt, the rules that apply to heterosexuals) and not these BOGUS definitions which automatically link GLBT people as innapropriate or offensive-then the schools should leave them alone.

The kid in Canada will probably just grow up with all the unwanted attention, but will obviously discover his/her gender in due time and then decide if he/she believes their parents' beliefs or he/she won't and will come out and reveal theirself as a him/her. But, I don't believe the kid will be damaged or messed up. I understand where the parents are coming from, but they should just teach their boy/girl about these things and not use their child as the example.

[jon-el87]

I can predict a few problems, when the kid enters school. He/she is going to get bullied and likely beat up, for the other kids viewing him/her as a freak. And then there are a few practical matters. Take PE for instance. You have to change clothes before and after class, along with taking a shower. And as the school's not allowed to ask about the student's gender. They'd have to make special arrangements (as they can't have the kid change/shower in the boys locker room, if it's a girl and vice versa), like having the other kids wait outside of the locker rooms, until he/she is finished (which'll only increase the before mentioned bullying + the other kids parents getting pissed and make complaints to the school).

[jon-el87]

By the way, has anyone heard that "Born This Way" has been banned in Lebanon?

[rooting 4 clark]

I just feel bad for this kid. I think the parents should have just decided to maybe teach the kid their views on gender equality and not make the kid some sort of poster child for their beliefs.

The song or the entire album has been banned?

[jon-el87]

They've banned the entire album (their loss really).

[JB1986]

Personally, I'm not quite sure how I feel about the kid in Canada. I can certainly see why his/her parents are doing what they're doing, on the other hand, I'm not sure how I feel about them making their own kid a poster child. Personally, I think they should teach their kid love and acceptance no matter who you are. And maybe they could do this out of the media spotlight. The child isn't choosing to be in the spotlight, the parents are choosing that for them. I just don't know how I feel about that. I hope I'm making sense. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

I agree with you Jeff. I believe that this child is going to have so much unwanted attention and it is a shame that the child was literally born into this situation, and will not get a chance to speak out about this situation for quite a while.

Geez, the whole album got banned! Some cultures and people may never change their way or it will take a very long time for them to change.

[Smallville_Angel]

It has been much too long since I last posted - I kind of fell of the face of the K-Site planet after my last, but today I was inspired to get back into it. And before you fall on the floor laughing in fits of hysterics Heather and Jeff, let me remind you that you love my insanity and wouldn't have it any other way.

Welcome both Lucy and John. It's always nice to see new faces around here and I hope you both feel very welcome and become active members in this thread. We always welcome new people to this insanity, and who knows? You might just be a welcome break to all the Glee banter (not that I don't enjoy that, because I do and I'm a self confessed Gleek) and the endless discussion of celebrity crushes.

On that note, and drum roll please, the reason I am back:
http://felldowntherabbithole.tumblr.com/post/6453072763

I don't know if any of you have came across this little gem yet (and Heather and Jeff will certainly understand my joy when I discovered it), but you absolutely must read this post. I was left dumbfounded by the time I had finished reading. To anyone of you out there with a Twitter account, I encourage you to continue spreading the love. I know I will be. It kind of scares me to think that here is someone only a couple of years older than me and yet she's so incredibly insightful and philosophical, with so much love and hope for the future. And because I know you're going to love this one Heather and Jeff: Dianna Agron: I LOVE YOU! :p I couldn't resist!

Also, I know it's early but I wanted to be the first to say it:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JEFF

[JB1986]

Also, I know it's early but I wanted to be the first to say it:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JEFF

Thanks for the birthday greetings, sweetie. (Hugs.) :) Well, as they say another year older, another year.....in my case just older. :lol: I just want to have fun today. I have a few things I want to accomplish this year. For right now, I'm currently enjoying a week off from my job (MUCH needed, I swear I was starting to lose my mind!) Relaxing the last few days has been great. To quote the movie Office Space "I did nothing allweekend and it was everything I thought it could be." :)

I did get to go to Pride last week, and had a total blast. I had a really good time, and i'm just so happy I was able to go. I keep meaning to post pictures on Facebook. I'll get to that soon enough, though. Plus, I got to rock my "Gay By Nature, Proud By Choice" Pride T-shirt.

I read what you linked to that Dianna Agron wrote, and WOW. She just officially got even more awesome. I agree that what she wrote was highly insightful. You rock, Dianna!

[rooting 4 clark]

Happy Birthday Jeff!!!

[Smallville_Angel]

Riding on such a Gleeful high right now. S2 is officially over, but I could not be happier with the BIG finale. 'New York' - most probably the best episode of the entire season. Klaine - EEK! The 'I love you's' = YEAH! So happy. Brittany - when the hell did she become so mature? Gives me hope for some Brittana loving next season. But the thing I loved most, for whatever reason: Mercedes and Sam - YIPPEE! So cute, plus totally saw it coming after 'Prom Queen'. Cannot wait for S3; if it starts off as good as this season ended, we're in for one awesome season (and please, please, NO MORE FILLER EPISODES!). :rotfl::D

[rooting 4 clark]

I liked Quinn's :)

But on a good note, 29/30 politicians are FOR the same sex marriage bill in New York. I hope they can pass the bill before session ends! Cross your fingers!!

[rooting 4 clark]

This is great news! The U.N. Passes a Gay rights protection resoution:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/06/17/un-gay-rights-protection-resolution-passes-_n_879032.html?ir=Canada

[JB1986]

Thanks for the birthday greeting, Heather! :)

And I'm happy to report that New York just passed marriage equality! I for one am very excited to hear this. I knew I loved New York for a reason. :)

http://www.365gay.com/news/new-york-passes-marriage-equality/

[rooting 4 clark]

Thanks for the birthday greeting, Heather! :)

And I'm happy to report that New York just passed marriage equality! I for one am very excited to hear this. I knew I loved New York for a reason. :)

http://www.365gay.com/news/new-york-passes-marriage-equality/

You love New york Jeff?! I LOVE IT EVEN MORE! It truly is the best place in the world now! And New York's governor said something that made sense, to me at least, he said something like New York sets the precedent for other states; that sother states look to New York as an example. Hoepfully other states will take notice.

[MannaBanana]

Congrats to the people of New York :) I knew it was just a matter of time. New York has always been one of my favorite places in the world and this just proves why! The open mindedness of the people and diversity of the state just makes it a beautiful place. Now if only the rest of the world could open up their minds little more and remove all the hate from their heart the world could truely be a better place.

Anywho, Congrats Again New York!:)

[baron de suberbielle]

My congrétulation to
i'am not homosexual but liberal and humanist, apprently my country la France is reactionary or conservative about gay and lesbians or other different sexual tradition maybe the strong catholic influence.

[jon-el87]

And for every step forward, there's one backwards... Don't know if anyone's heard about this, but a Norwegian politian (belonging to the Christian Democratic Party) recently refused to let a lesbian couple rent his house. Kinda makes one nervous, seeing as I'll be appartment hunting next summer.

----- Added 5 Minutes later -----

Now that NY has legalized gay marriage, Neil Patrick Harris will get married to his boyfriend. Wish them a long, happy life together.

[jon-el87]

And at San Francisco's Contemporary Jewish Museum, on Sunday, a security guard tried to force two lesbian visitors, to stop holding hands and leave. But, they stood up for themselves, refused to leave and demanded to speak with somebody in authority. An ironic note, is that the feature exhibit just so happens to be devoted to examining the "evolving public personae, lifestyle, and relationships," of artist Gertrude Stein. If he's got such a big problem with lesbians, perhaps he shouldn't have gone to work, in the first place.

[rooting 4 clark]

I've been meaning to bring this up for a while now, but has anyone heard about Michele Bachmann planning to sign "The Marriage Vow"? Basically, she will be stating that the Constitution will protect the word "marriage" as being between a man and woman, and it will try to ban pornography.

Here's a link to the article:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/07/08/michele-bachmann-rick-san_n_893523.html

Also Bachmann's husband says he can "cure gays". I don't know who's more ignorant, her or her husband.

Thoughts?

[JB1986]

I've heard of Michelle Bachmann. Somehow, nothing about her surprises me. Whenever I hear about people like her the sheer hatred and stupidity make me speechless. The definition of marriage has changed over time. It used to be more of an exchange of property between households, (this always gets conveniently left out when people like Bachman argue against gay marriage) then it became more modern as a partnership of equals. Now its expanding to gay people. What some people fail to realize is everything changes over time, and usually for the better. Allowing gay people to marry gives us equal rights, which is always a good thing. And banning pornography? Seriously? Adults have every right to enjoy pornography if they so wish. I just do not like when people try to make things illegal just because they don't like it. I don't like rap music. Hey, maybe I should ban rap music! I also don't like reality TV and extremely gory movies. Let's just ban those too! :lol:

I also find it kind of disturbing that her husband thinks he can cure gays. As if there's something to "cure." Let's just inflict psychological damage on people who have done nothing morally wrong, just because they happen to be attracted to people of the same gender. That just makes me furious. :mad:

[rooting 4 clark]

On a lighter noter, gay marriage ceremonies offically kicked off in New York today! :D

[Clark/Lois-fan]

On a lighter noter, gay marriage ceremonies offically kicked off in New York today! :D

That's such awesome news!! I'm very happy for all the newly weds and for equal rights! Go NY :D

[jon-el87]

I've heard of Michelle Bachmann. Somehow, nothing about her surprises me. Whenever I hear about people like her the sheer hatred and stupidity make me speechless. The definition of marriage has changed over time. It used to be more of an exchange of property between households, (this always gets conveniently left out when people like Bachman argue against gay marriage) then it became more modern as a partnership of equals. Now its expanding to gay people. What some people fail to realize is everything changes over time, and usually for the better. Allowing gay people to marry gives us equal rights, which is always a good thing.

True. And it's not just the definition, that's been changed over the years, but also who you are allowed to marry. Let's not forget that it was once illegal, to marry someone from a different ethnic group. Royalty weren't allowed to marry common folk. And the church wasn't too crazy about a divorced person, being allowed to re-marry. Essentially, over centuries society has built up these bizarre ideas, about how you should live your life. And now we're in the middle of breaking down these strange norms (hence, the "free", in "free country". Freedom to control and decide over how you live your life and who you live it with).


And banning pornography? Seriously? Adults have every right to enjoy pornography if they so wish. I just do not like when people try to make things illegal just because they don't like it. I don't like rap music. Hey, maybe I should ban rap music! I also don't like reality TV and extremely gory movies. Let's just ban those too! :lol:

And what classifies as porn, anyway? Whatever you find sexual, could easily be qualified as pornography. And with the internet, how would they enforce this ban? By censoring the internet? (Hello, police state. Today porn, tomorrow newssites.)

If I read that document right, they also wanna ban abortion. Another giant step back in time.


I also find it kind of disturbing that her husband thinks he can cure gays. As if there's something to "cure." Let's just inflict psychological damage on people who have done nothing morally wrong, just because they happen to be attracted to people of the same gender. That just makes me furious. :mad:

Her husband reminds me of a horrible person, who works at my old High School. The entire "Ex-Gay" movement's screwed up. And the worst part is, more than a few times, they go after kids. If you look up "Ex-Ex-Gay" (bet, you've never heard that term before), you can find stories of people who formerly took part in the "Ex-Gay" movement and since accepted their sexuality.

[jon-el87]

The last known survivor of the pink triangles has passed away.
http://translate.google.com/translate?js=n&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&layout=2&eotf=1&sl=auto&tl=en&u=http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5j2Uk6P7Fj7MHv-JhabO1c7QLonZw%3FdocId%3DCNG.638c9c9d1fee8e86b9ffd 1e89ac8579e.f1 (http://translate.google.com/translate?js=n&prev=_t&hl=en&ie=UTF-8&layout=2&eotf=1&sl=auto&tl=en&u=http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5j2Uk6P7Fj7MHv-JhabO1c7QLonZw%3FdocId%3DCNG.638c9c9d1fee8e86b9ffd 1e89ac8579e.f1)

[jon-el87]

DADT has now finally been revoked.

A friend of mine, sent me this video (it's quite touching).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVAgz6iyK6A

[JB1986]

I saw that video yesterday! My heart was racing as he was dialing. That was just so touching. Anyway, I'm so thrilled DADT was revoked. They had a documentary on it on HBO last night. Unfortunately, I didn't get to watch all of it, but since I have some time off of work coming in a few days, I'll hopefully get to see it soon. Oh, and "Glee" came back last night. And who's excited? That's right, ME! :D

Sorry about being away for so long. I've been busy not to mention exhausted. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

I saw the video of the soldier coming out to his dad. I was glas that his dad said he still loved him and nothing changed.

On another note, what does everyone think about the controversy surrounding Chaz Bono on Dancing with the Stars?

[Leonatus]

*looks around* It's so quiet in here, I can almost see dust! Tsk tsk, this will not do, this place needs to be looking faaaabulouuuus! *starts cleaning*

I'm only joking, I'm not that flamboyant, honest! I do identify as being a homosexual male, though. I've been out in the open since I was about 19, and things have been going great. I was lucky to have really supportive friends and family, and those who haven't asked I'm sure haven't because they already have an idea (since apparently I exude it somehow *he says as he shakes the glitter out of his hair*).

It's really good to hear stories like the one mentioned above about the soldier coming out to his dad with the love still there. It's terrifying when you have to walk on eggshells because you never know what relationships are going to change for the worse just by that small announcement. I only pray that no one here ever has to, or did have to, face the repercussions/consequences just for coming out to the wrong people/person. Everyone who wants to come out deserves to be able to with open arms and opens hearts of support and love. :)

[rooting 4 clark]

*looks around* It's so quiet in here, I can almost see dust! Tsk tsk, this will not do, this place needs to be looking faaaabulouuuus! *starts cleaning*

I'm only joking, I'm not that flamboyant, honest! I do identify as being a homosexual male, though. I've been out in the open since I was about 19, and things have been going great. I was lucky to have really supportive friends and family, and those who haven't asked I'm sure haven't because they already have an idea (since apparently I exude it somehow *he says as he shakes the glitter out of his hair*).

It's really good to hear stories like the one mentioned above about the soldier coming out to his dad with the love still there. It's terrifying when you have to walk on eggshells because you never know what relationships are going to change for the worse just by that small announcement. I only pray that no one here ever has to, or did have to, face the repercussions/consequences just for coming out to the wrong people/person. Everyone who wants to come out deserves to be able to with open arms and opens hearts of support and love. :)

Welcome! And it has been too quiet around here!

Has anyone seen the video of the 8 year old boy who told Michelle Bachman that his mother was gay and doesn't need fixing? Some people say the kid was coached while apparantely the mother was going to say something but chickened out and wanted to leave and her son pulled her back in line and said he wanted to talk to her.

Thoughts?

[Leonatus]

Tsk tsk, once again I see dust surrounding the place, and it just simply won't do! *dawns a fabulous outfit and goes about the cleaning*

I actually haven't seen that video before, but I'm not surprised. I can understand the mother's fear of wanting to talk though. Sometimes it's just really hard to get the words out on something like that, even when you have your child defending who you are as a person. Kudos to the son for sticking up for mom like that though! He sounds like he'll grow up to be a wonderful person. The thing with videos though is that you do have to take them with a grain of salt. Sometimes, it is quite a possibility that it's either staged, people are coached to say things, or the like. But I'm generally more apt to believe that things like that were said from the heart of the person who said them...which in this case is an 8 year old kid.

Oh! Good news for my state, which is Washington. For those of you who know, Washington is a state that doesn't recognize same-sex marriages, but instead allows "Domestic Partnerships." Well, not too long ago, our Governor made a wonderful speech urging Washington to create a marriage equality law that would overturn the D.P thing and recognize same-sex marriages...and there are a ton of people pushing right behind her to see it become a reality. Well, just a couple of days ago, it went on to a vote in the Senate, and it passed! If the house passes it, Gregoire (aka our Governor) is going to put the finishing touches as quick as she can so that it can come into effect. I'm so happy, and I really hope that it comes into effect!

There's worry that the opposition will rise, get enough signatures, and have it thrown onto the November ballot. But I have faith in the people of Washington. We'll shut the opposition up and turn Washington into a complete Equal Rights state.

[rooting 4 clark]

Oh! Good news for my state, which is Washington. For those of you who know, Washington is a state that doesn't recognize same-sex marriages, but instead allows "Domestic Partnerships." Well, not too long ago, our Governor made a wonderful speech urging Washington to create a marriage equality law that would overturn the D.P thing and recognize same-sex marriages...and there are a ton of people pushing right behind her to see it become a reality. Well, just a couple of days ago, it went on to a vote in the Senate, and it passed! If the house passes it, Gregoire (aka our Governor) is going to put the finishing touches as quick as she can so that it can come into effect. I'm so happy, and I really hope that it comes into effect!

There's worry that the opposition will rise, get enough signatures, and have it thrown onto the November ballot. But I have faith in the people of Washington. We'll shut the opposition up and turn Washington into a complete Equal Rights state.

I heard about Washington being very close to being the next state to approve of same-sex marriages. I wish your state the best of luck and hope it passes. Then you can join my state, New York, and have fabulous weddings :)

[jon-el87]

Seems like Maryland's catching up. Same-sex marriage will be legal in that state, as off january 2013.