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Lifebound

01-19-2006, 06:20 PM

Unfortunately, yes, she is selfish. And did you see how she spilled her problems all over Chloe over the phone. Jeez, Chloe has become the relationship manager just like Lois is the campaign manager.

Lana seems to have lost all compassion and sensitivity towards Clark and she seems like all she wants is some good fun. She might as well just go to Lex and perform the little dance. She probably is...

I agree kryptonium, all wit aside, Lana seems portrayed really badly, and I don't understand how Clark can propose to her

lana&Clark4ever

01-19-2006, 06:21 PM

...okay? lol clark is studying....and they never had a chance to be with each other in a long time....how can she not be horny? haha:rotfl:

F-Stop Blues

01-19-2006, 06:21 PM

well put yourself in her shoes. She hasnt had Clark jr. since Mortal. Thats like 4 months without sex. I'd be kinda edgy too, but she is being annoying.

kryptonium

01-19-2006, 06:28 PM

and she didnt have sex before that for 18 years

she also hasnt been open with clark but then blames him for her secrecy

tmkfan

01-19-2006, 06:29 PM

She told him the truth! We just find out now why Lana hadnt told Clark about the ship! cuz Clark didn't wanted to know..

omg....... O_O

LexLuthorMetropolis

01-19-2006, 06:30 PM

Either way, Clark has been neglecting the relationship with the continious secrets. Then again Lana has been keeping hers as well.

Being a relationship is like a long contract and if the two people aren't meeting in the middle. That's all she wrote.

Lana's attempting to keep it going on her own level.

sprman808

01-19-2006, 06:51 PM

Originally posted by kryptonium
Clark was trying to study, and all she wants to do is kiss and have sex.

Where was this girl when I was in college??

Timester

01-19-2006, 06:56 PM

How can a relationship like this work, when both lie and both be angry that their secrets are found?... Seriously, only with AlMiles...

audierules

01-19-2006, 06:58 PM

i'm just bummed that she still befriends Lex. So what he saved her life, he has done sooooooo many terrible things to her and the people of Smallville.

LexLuthorMetropolis

01-19-2006, 07:00 PM

At this point, Lex is higher in her eyes than Clark. Clark's being lying to her, while Lex has been telling her the truth and protecting her on countless occasions.

Timester

01-19-2006, 07:01 PM

Originally posted by LexLuthorMetropolis
At this point, Lex is higher in her eyes than Clark. Clark's being lying to her, while Lex has been telling her the truth and protecting her on countless occasions.

That's why next week will be so unbelievable.

Kreukie

01-19-2006, 07:27 PM

Lana is selfish because she wants to know why her boyfriend keeps pushing her away?

And when she asks him why he doesn't give her a reason whatsoever.

spideyfan

01-19-2006, 08:16 PM

I HATED Lana in this episode and im usually not biased against her. Leave CK alone for gods sake. He has a DAMN good reason for everything he does dammit. I would rather have Lexana and CK single for now (well until the Lois thing).

MBCorp

01-19-2006, 08:21 PM

Clark was alot more selfish than Lana in this episode. How in the world is Lana supposed to know that Clark has a good reason for keeping things from her? The guy had sex with her and yet didn't respect her enough to tell her the truth about himself, and then suddenly all at once refuses to have sex with her. I'd be plenty annoyed too if I was Lana. She also knows he's keeping things from her.

BadToad

01-19-2006, 08:22 PM

while Lex has been telling her the truth and protecting her on countless occasions.

Except she just found out that Lex hadn't been telling her the truth at all, as in he hasn't had the spaceship in weeks. And as far as protecting her, how many times has Clark been there for her again? How many times has he ridden to her rescue?

Having said that, I think Lana has some solid reasons to be frustrated and exasperated by Clark, and I think Clark realizes that.

opera_ghost

01-19-2006, 08:39 PM

lana thinks something is wrong.... both in terms of her astronomy.. and their relationship.

Let's face it.. they were pretty hot and heavy when his powers were gone... not he's worried about hurting her.. but, at the same time.. he's fearful of losing her if she learns the truth.

Newsflash: Going to lose her anyway if she doesn't know the truth.

I was personally more impressed with Allison's acting in that final scene... that little gulp to show how much being that relationship manager kills her... but she's still a good friend who's trying to get over it. (Alienboy CK)

RedPhoenix23

01-19-2006, 08:50 PM

I didn't feel Lana was being selfish at all! Clark hasn't touched her in months! I would have dumped his but by now!

Kryptonian Snake

01-19-2006, 08:59 PM

Lana has every right to be frustrated by Clark's behavior and his lame explanations for it, but she had no reason to assume he wanted sex when he called her over to study. In the last episode, she was the one who suggested they take things slowly, and she did the exact opposite by attempting to initiate sex so soon after that conversation.

F-Stop Blues

01-19-2006, 09:01 PM

I think they are both at fault. They're both not being honest, and I have a problem with Lana getting on Clark about honesty since Commencement.

Kris-El

01-19-2006, 09:06 PM

How do you know she wanted sex? All she asked for was a kiss, some ATTENTION. If your boyfriend invited you over to watch him intently study all day without even giving you a kiss after months of not touching because he dosent want to excite his package o' steel, you'd be damn perplexed too.

Lana was NOT being selfish in the least. I thought both the character and KK were fantastic tonight, esp in the scene with Lex in the panic room.

Kryptonian Snake

01-19-2006, 09:19 PM

Originally posted by Kris-El
How do you know she wanted sex?

I'm guessing the phrase "be together" is a euphamism for sex, and she specifically asked Clark why they couldn't "be together". Again, in "Fanatic", Lana said they should take things slow. Considering the issue in that episode was Clark's fear of touching her, how is initiating a make-out session taking things slower? She did the exact same thing she did last week when Clark showed up to her dorm.
She's ignoring her own suggestion, just as Clark is ignoring his proclamation from "Blank" that things between them would be different.

PeteM

01-19-2006, 10:08 PM

Originally posted by kryptonium
There i changed the title

Either way, the message still stands...

Clark was trying to study, and all she wants to do is kiss and have sex.

She even guilt trips him and then gives him attitude later about it.

No offense, but your viewpoints have no connection to real life relationships. Going cold turkey without any explanation will be hell on any relationship.

People feel frisky at odd times too. Before work, while watching TV, even . . . while supposedly studying. Happens all the time. You are in left field on this one.

And have you also thought about your complaints against Lana in context of her actions this episode. She risked her life to save another person. Hello!!! You can't get more unselfish than that.

Your complaints against her are not only groundless, but small-minded.

Watching Smallville

01-19-2006, 11:32 PM

Wow, that is selfish -- cute hot boyfriend and she wants a little cuddling. What's wrong with that girl?!!

RedPhoenix23

01-19-2006, 11:38 PM

If TW was my man, i'd be all up on that too!! :lol: :lol: So call me selfish!

Summers

01-19-2006, 11:39 PM

I heard TW is a man :p :lol:.

RedPhoenix23

01-19-2006, 11:41 PM

:rotfl: I meant if he was my man! :lol: My mistake! :rotfl:

Summers

01-19-2006, 11:43 PM

:rotfl:

I know what you meant. I was just teasing ya :D.

Randy G.

01-19-2006, 11:45 PM

Good lord, they all lie on this show. :rolleyes: Everyone of them except Shelby. :lol:

RedPhoenix23

01-19-2006, 11:50 PM

Originally posted by Summers
:rotfl:

I know what you meant. I was just teasing ya :D.

:rotfl: I figured! Its cool though, I would probably done the same, so no biggie! :lol: :lol:

Originally posted by Randy G.
Good lord, they all lie on this show. :rolleyes: Everyone of them except Shelby. :lol:

Even Ma and Pa Kent have been lying and keeping secrets! First Pa in Fanatic about the crazy people making numerous threatening phone calls and then Ma taking Lionels cash and convincing Lois to lie to Pa about it!

AnimeJoe

01-19-2006, 11:53 PM

Are you kidding me? Shelby's the BIGGEST liar on the show...

You think all of Shelby's barks are for emergencies? I'm sure once Shelby gets the attention of Clark or the Kents over some false alarm that dog runs to the back of the farm rolling on the ground laughing his ass off!

RedPhoenix23

01-19-2006, 11:56 PM

:rotfl::rotfl: You know what?! My dog does the same freaking thing!!! :lol:

margroks

01-20-2006, 07:22 AM

There are secrets but really, Lana has been hot and cold to Lex for years, knowing he has designs on her from numerous eps but running to him when she wants something. Now she behaving like classic Lana, getting ready to cheat on her current BF with Lex because her BF isn't paying her enough attention.

SHe did it with WHitney and Jason and now she'd do it with Clark. Clark has seen her do this; he should know full well what kind of nasty girl she can be when someone crosses her or doesn't pay her enough attention. It's documented in show canon. She has yelled at Lex for the way he treats Clark yet suddenly that doesn't mater if she can get more attention from him. Like going back to Whitney after berating him for hanging Clark up as the scarecrow "because he makes me feel safe." How could Clark ever care about such a selfish little girl after that? Why would he call that love after the way she's treated him?

Now, it sounds like we'll have Clark proposing because he fears losing her not because he genuinely thinks she's the true love of his life. And that's pathetic. If you see your GF about to cheat you should dump her not try to bind her to you with a proposal.

Lana never gave Clark much of a chance nor let him have space to tell her in his own time, demanding sex then stomping out. SHe did it again this week after herself agreeing to go slow. Why anyone would want this girl is a complete puzzle. Her self centered nature knows no bounds and is rivaled only by Clark himself who thinks of nothing else but Lana, apparently.

midnite_spark

01-20-2006, 07:36 AM

Originally posted by Lifebound
Unfortunately, yes, she is selfish. And did you see how she spilled her problems all over Chloe over the phone. Jeez, Chloe has become the relationship manager just like Lois is the campaign manager.

wow if that's selfishness...then i think most of us (if not all of us) would be considered selfish. cuz i don't noe bout u, but if i have a really big problem...i turn to my best friends and tell them about it. doesn't matter if the problem is with a mutal friend.

PETER WEST

01-20-2006, 08:02 AM

Originally posted by kryptonium
Lana = selfish

No it's Lana = Pain in The ass B!TCH ;)

Watching Smallville

01-20-2006, 08:16 AM

Yeah! Who wants a girlfriend who likes kisses???? What a crazy girl that Lana is!!!

Kris-El

01-20-2006, 08:25 AM

she wanted a kiss and some affection! THEN she asked again why they couldn't "be together", as in sex. The boy who takes her virginity hasnt even KISSED her for weeks, let alone have sex, AND ITS A LEGITIMATE QUESTION FOR HER TO ASK.

And I'm sorry, Chloe is her only friend who is a girl, and you can talk to your friends about these things without being called selfish, good lord people. Lana is having problems with Clark and is asking for someone to listen and give advice, not rubbing anything in her face

BadToad

01-20-2006, 08:29 AM

Where do we get the idea that Clark hasn't kissed her? We saw Clark kiss her in Aqua, kiss her in Thirst, kiss her in Splinter, kiss her in Lexmas, kiss her in Fanatic. And if Clark "hasn't even kissed her in weeks" how would she be able to say that she can feel when he really kisses how much he wants her? My impression was that he won't take their kisses any further, not that he hasn't kissed her in weeks.

Fish1941

01-20-2006, 09:14 AM

Originally posted by spideyfan
I HATED Lana in this episode and im usually not biased against her. Leave CK alone for gods sake. He has a DAMN good reason for everything he does dammit. I would rather have Lexana and CK single for now (well until the Lois thing).

He has a good reason . . . yet, he doesn't tell her a damn thing. Worse, he lies to her.

PeteM

01-20-2006, 11:35 AM

Originally posted by PETER WEST
No it's Lana = Pain in The ass B!TCH ;)

Yeah what a ***** risking her life for someone else.

Boy, she should have just stayed in that safe room, while Lex bleeds to death, than risk her own life.

What a b!tch.

No-El

01-20-2006, 12:44 PM

AnimeJoe

01-20-2006, 04:32 PM

I still find it pretty hilarious how some only want to bash and don't even care to see it from Lana's perspective ;)

When you're in an intimate relationship where you and your significant other are constantly stealing kisses from each other, holding hands, chasing after each other, rolling around in grassy fields, and just basically using almost every opportunity you get to spend time together, when that stuff all of a sudden stops, you'll definitely notice... The question is, What would YOU do? Would you just let the relationship continue in its semi-broken state without saying a word OR would you bring up your concerns to your loved ones?

PeteM

01-20-2006, 04:45 PM

[Editted because we don't talk about other posters on the board; certainly not in that manor. Consider yourself warned.]

RedPhoenix23

01-20-2006, 04:52 PM

[Don't feed the trolls.]

R_Kellikron

01-20-2006, 05:09 PM

still find it pretty hilarious how some only want to bash and don't even care to see it from Lana's perspective

When you're in an intimate relationship where you and your significant other are constantly stealing kisses from each other, holding hands, chasing after each other, rolling around in grassy fields, and just basically using almost every opportunity you get to spend time together, when that stuff all of a sudden stops, you'll definitely notice... The question is, What would YOU do? Would you just let the relationship continue in its semi-broken state without saying a word OR would you bring up your concerns to your loved ones?
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I wanted to post a reply in total defense of Lana and I completely think AnimeJoe has said it all. The portrayed Lana exactly how most girls in love would act. Why would your amazing boyfriend give you all this love and affection, then you sleep with him, and then it all stops. Of course Lana (or anyone) would act this way.

KkLana1

01-20-2006, 05:12 PM

again lana haters bashing her in every episode. whats new?

montevallo

01-20-2006, 07:16 PM

Originally posted by KkLana1
again lana haters bashing her in every episode. whats new?

iknow!!!! im getting really sick of this. she's not cheating on clark by hugging lex, thats a complete load

Kreukie

01-20-2006, 07:42 PM

Originally posted by montevallo
iknow!!!! im getting really sick of this. she's not cheating on clark by hugging lex, thats a complete load

If Lana cheating on Clark for just befriending Lex again after he saved her life!

Then Clark double timed Lana in the cheating department with both Chloe and Lois.

What a man whore.

See how that logic works? :rotfl:

Lana bashers find any little thing to bash Lana with.

montevallo

01-20-2006, 07:44 PM

makes me just want to break a window sometimes. some people refuse to look through lana's eyes, some of the things i read make me want to vomit

shirkie

01-20-2006, 08:28 PM

If you don't like what you're reading, why not leave the boards and go somewhere more hugs and bunnies? No one is forcing you to go somewhere that "makes you want to vomit" or "makes you want to break a window."

That being said, if I were Lana (besides having killed my annoying pink self a long time ago), I would think Clark was gay for not even wanting to KISS anymore. He SCREAMED "closeted" in that loft scene.

We all know I think Clark and Lana fornicating back in "Mortal" was a terrible, horrible thing. But Clark let Lana have a taste of him and should at least offer the horny little gal an explanation as to why he suddenly *appears* (to Lana) to no longer desire her. He should just say he thinks they went too far too fast and that he's not ready for a sexual relationship. That's PARTIALLY TRUE and would be better than just AVOIDING THE ISSUE, which is what SuperDork HAS been doing.
shirkie

luthorcorp

01-20-2006, 09:22 PM

selfish indeed

flcn6

01-20-2006, 10:29 PM

Im sorry. Im not the biggest Lana fan, but she was in the right here. C'mon think about it. Clark asks Lana over to study? Lana and Clark dont go to the same school. How are they supposed to help each other study? Of course Lana thinks she going to get some. Any, repeat, ANY teenager in that situation would.

PeteM

01-20-2006, 11:29 PM

Originally posted by shirkie
If you don't like what you're reading, why not leave the boards and go somewhere more hugs and bunnies? No one is forcing you to go somewhere that "makes you want to vomit" or "makes you want to break a window."

But there are rules and oh so vigilant moderators who prevent you from saying what you really want to say about certain posters.

How about a compromise. Bashers can stop watching the show cause all they do is bash and criticize. And there will be less things that will be stated that induces vomiting. Everybody happy.

smallville_fetish

01-21-2006, 12:01 AM

I don't understand this thread; this isn't about sex, Lana knows somethine is wrong with their relationship, espeacially if your boyfriend is lying to you. Even if they were still having sex, that intimacy connection is gone considering the lack of honesty with each other, like Clark stated, when he was normal things were great between him and Lana, and he's not talking about sex. It just happens to be the subject they're pressing on at the moment because it's become another factor in the Clana relationship.. and how can you ignore that? But anyone can see this in a different perspective. For the record, if anyone is being selfish in this relationship, it's Clark.

Timester

01-21-2006, 06:02 AM

Originally posted by PeteM
But there are rules and oh so vigilant moderators who prevent you from saying what you really want to say about certain posters.

How about a compromise. Bashers can stop watching the show cause all they do is bash and criticize. And there will be less things that will be stated that induces vomiting. Everybody happy.

Actually, it's the exact opposite. Poster or opinion bashing is what isn't permited. ;)

PeteM

01-21-2006, 06:30 AM

Originally posted by Timester
Actually, it's the exact opposite. Poster or opinion bashing is what isn't permited. ;)

That's what I said.

smoky

01-21-2006, 11:11 AM

I think they're just showing viewers why Clark & Lana do not work as a couple.

AnimeJoe

01-22-2006, 01:13 AM

Put Clark in a relationship with just about anyone and it wouldn't work if he continued doing the same thing

shirkie

01-22-2006, 02:05 AM

Yeah, I can't stand Lana, but I can't blame her for being downright pissed that Clark is denying her nookie. Clark is truly a big dumb alien... He has a LOT of growing up to do before he gets with Lois.
shirkie

jaime,oburg

01-22-2006, 09:13 AM

Look, I've never been the biggest Lana fan either, but she has a right to be a little sexually frustrated with Clark right about now. If Clark would offer her another one of his lame excuses as to why he has been backing off in the nookie dept. she would probally except it, which is better then avoidance. Wow I can't believe it, I think I am actually taking Lana's side. Seriously, Clark is the one who is messing things up as far as that topic is concerned. However it usually takes two to mess up a relationship and lack of honesty on both sides is leading to the downfall of Clana.